the person they was going to arrange marriage me with is hot and thats not the main thing her family is rich im talking multi millionaire i went to her house and it was worth at least 5 million and i found out she has another 2 houses but what should i do its not love and first sight its like im getting pushed into marriage just because my parents was arranged they wanted me to aswell but there given me the choice to find my own wife what should i do?
2007-07-02 04:40:15 · 25 answers · asked by old school 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should explain to your parents that you are not mature enough to get married.
2007-07-02 04:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chocolate Bunny 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well firstly don't even think of getting onto this marrriage because this girl is rich. One thing I cannot understand is your saying that this girl hot and filthy rich so why are you complaining that your parents are arranging your marriage with this girl. Shes got everything going for her she can have any man it won't be so hard for her to get married. Get to knowthis girl start dating her and knowing her on the inside don't just look at her looks and money. Because if you have any intentions on marrying her for her wealth and then dumping her, well I hope you rot in hell!!!!! and I mean that.
2007-07-02 11:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the problems you might face is that they would not respect you as you are not as rich as their family. You will feel like less of a person. Also nothing compares to being in love with someone-arranged marriages are okay but you will always wonder if you made the right decision. One of my friends had an arranged marriage and I did also -mine ended with divorce and hers is very unhappy. She told me she would NEVER force her kids to marry anyone-they must choose themselves even though it is customary in her culture to choose a spouse for your kids-she will not do this for any reason!!!
2007-07-02 11:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want! If you are old enough to get married, follow your own judgment. Plenty of people out there, marry for the wrong reasons. Just don't marry too young. If money and being "hot" is the only thing you take in consideration regarding the person you want to be marry. Then I say you are way too young!
2007-07-02 11:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by USuck79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money doesnt make for a good marriage if thats what was thrown in your face. In the end you wont be happy. Sounds like your parents are being selfish. Find your own wife and fall inlove..
2007-07-02 11:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by aka nuggets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, see if you like her first. Maybe you will actually start to like her and you will be a good couple. Otherwise this is unfair. A person should want to pick his own wife. I mean, really, if they are going to be together for the rest of their lives! And divorce rates are at an all time HIGH! 60%!
2007-07-02 11:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend, there are more important things in life than money.
If you dont think you can get along, or even be able to talk to her, than realistically would spending the rest of your life with her be sensible?
I'm not against arrange marriage, but i dont see how your going to be able to know whether she is perfect for you if you dont speak to her, and see what kind of person she is.
Im a giving person, everyone knows that, if she is the opposite person to you than spending your precious time aint worth her quality time.
@pedro_solano: oh please lets not talk fanatical rubbish here, lets do live in the new age of thinking not some outdated version of the bloody 50's. get real, and get smarter. because if you dont your going to drown in your own b/s.
2007-07-02 14:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only option I see here is for you to try getting along with the girl. If you're lucky, this arranged marriage could work for you. If not you can try talking your parents out of it. If you're braver and they won't budge, risk being disowned and run away
2007-07-02 14:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by p_edrosolano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u dont like her then there's no point in marrying her.So what is she is ultra rich and has lots of money, all that money wont buy u happiness.Having said that,dont decide on her on the very first meet.Take time and get to knw her.If u still dont like her u can always tell your parents.
2007-07-02 11:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't come with any price.
If it's true love that you're looking for , then you need to move on and look for a wife of your own.
Once you find your true love, you will be richer than this girl with all the millions :)
Good luck
2007-07-02 11:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People pursue love without knowing anything about it.
Love as life is as simple or complex as you want to make it.
I have discover the following which may help you.
Loving is accepting each other for who they are both good and bad.
Being true to yourself allows you to share who you truly are and thus allows your partner to know and accept you.
We are each responsible to make ourselves happy.
Sharing our happiness with other makes them happier, NOT happy. It is still the role of the individual to make themselves happy.
People who fall in love the romantic way sometimes create unrealistic expectations on each other are let down with the simplicity of just loving each other.
2007-07-02 13:27:49 · answer #11 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋