is 31 years old, and has 3 kids from different fathers, but is still with the third father?
2007-07-02 04:26:21 · 19 answers · asked by brett v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends. sometimes the woman may sound like a tramp and can't keep her legs closed. but if the first time preggers was an oops then ok no biggie. the second one she thought would be the one and he cheated or took off then that is understandable. if she is still with the 3rd guy and has a kid then that is wonderful.
2007-07-02 04:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that she is a mother with 3 kids.... what does it matter that she has 3 kids by 3 different fathers?? You can't judge a women based on that alone... especially without not knowing the circumstances... Maybe those were her only 3 relationships... and each time they decided to have a baby because they thought they'd be together forever... No One usually foresees a breakup... Or maybe not...maybe she's a total slut that slept around, maybe each time she got pregnant the guy left her.. it could be SO many things, but its HER LIFE, Her body and HER kids...who are you to judge her reproductive choices!!! None of us have the right to do that without knowing the full circumstance!!
2007-07-02 11:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by busymum 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That she's a 31 year old woman, who has 3 beautiful children. The fact that they are by 3 different fathers says nothing about her as long as she is taking care of her children and is a loving mother. :-)
2007-07-02 11:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd think she's a 31 year old woman with 3 kids. End of story.
Edit: pretty uncool giving me a bad rating here, when all I was saying is that it doesn't make a bit of difference to me how many children she has by how many different men...she's just a person, and that's that...but yeah, you're right, give me a bad rating for being non-judgmental.
2007-07-02 11:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't judge, it's not my business to do that, I'd probably feel sorry for her, maybe she got mixed up with the wrong men, funny that people always think negatively of a woman in this position, but they don't feel the same about men who have fathered loads of kids all over the place.
2007-07-02 11:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say keep looking.
She is immature and still has a lot of growing to do. You don't make babies with every man coming through your life. She probably has no education and has a very poor self-image of herself. She gives herself importance only through the men coming into her life and think she will have better luck keeping them by having their babies.
2007-07-02 11:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Ref:
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2007-07-02 11:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this women has a history and working towards a better future. Good luck. None here, have the right to judge others. We all make good and bad choices.
2007-07-02 11:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I might know who that is! Kidding. I think she either cannot stop making the same mistake or is getting her income through child support. Either way she screams "COMPLICATED" and you should leave her alone.
2007-07-02 11:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kristy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would run as fast as I can.
First of all, why are you hanging around someone who is "with" someone else.
Secondly, if she can't be faithful to one guy, how is she going to be faithful to you?
2007-07-02 11:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋