I have a Facebook account, as I am a college student. I am 20, and will be a junior. As the end of the summer rolls around, I get fifty million "Friend Requests" from people I don't know, usually incoming freshmen, and I politely decline. I've already had my first friend request of this summer. I asked if we knew each other, and she said no. But we sent a couple messages back and forth, and she seems sincere. She even said I'm "pretty cute". She's attractive, as well. We live in the same state, but an hour away. Should I wait until the fall to meet her? Or should I be ultra aggressive and ask if she wants to meet up sometime this summer? I don't want to scare her off, as we've only messaged a few times... Thanks!
2007-07-02 04:54:36 · 6 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just don't want her to become "un-single"...haha. As my love life is relatively slow...
2007-07-02 04:57:02 · update #1
I would tell her that, just be like " i am intrested in getting to know you better, i hope i am not being to forward, but i am excited to meet you and i was wondering if you wanted to come up here and meet me sometime"
2007-07-02 05:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by voiceangel17 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring up the possibility sometime to her of meeting up. Maybe see what she thought of talking on the telephone too, I would want to see what she sounds like to make sure she's not a young girl and she is really what she says, age wise. If you do meet up, make it comfortable for both and meet in a very public place like the food court of a mall or something.
2007-07-02 12:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! do Not b ultra aggresive, & u r right..that will scare her off...she'll probably think ur sum kind of sex ofender or sumthin...no offence...just continue talkin 2 her but just take things slow...dont rush it...mayb ask her 4 her # sumtime but dont do it 2 early...that might scare her off 2...speakin 2 her over the phone might help her get familiar 2 ur voice...also dont cnstantly ask her 2 meet because again, u might scare her...w/ all the recent news about girls getting kidnapped & raped because of internet dating services, that could also scare her...jus take care...
2007-07-02 12:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~eRiCa~*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask if you too want to meet up before the semester starts.
so you have a chance with her before some other student does.
if you have good chemistry with her and seem to get along maye it's worth going after,
meet her and see where it goes.
good luck!
2007-07-02 12:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by go girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, if you continue to message back and forth, and there seems to be a connection, why wait til the fall?
2007-07-02 12:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may ask her in the best way that you can...if you can do it now..why should you it later..right?
2007-07-02 12:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by cute61 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋