2007-07-02 04:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by pat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
None. Being in love means there are no mindgames
2007-07-02 09:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by The Mikester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are in love and play mindgames deserve everything that get. The usual mindgame is "I think we should break up", when they really don't want to break up, but want you to beg them not to break up or give them reasons they shouldn't break up. This one has never worked on me, and shouldn't on you. If they pull this, the only answer is "okay". When they act all upset and ask you why you're willing to throw away all of this and that, you simply say, "Listen, I figured you spent a great deal of time considering how you felt about our relationship and decided that you didn't want to be with me anymore. Since my primary goal has been to make you happy, I won't deny you your freedom. If, however, this is just a mindgame to get me to stress and beg for you to keep me, then you're not the person I thought you were and are not worthy of my love, or respect. Either way, it's over." You only have to do this one time for the word to get out and "presto", no more mindgames.
If, on the other hand, you "like" mindgames, I hope you find someone who follows my advice above...or someone who enjoys playing them on you too...in which case, it could be a match made in heaven.
2007-07-09 01:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are quite a few and I have experienced them all. I have even extended myself by warning others. Without further avail they have chosen to ignore the warnings. I would list them or write about them..but not enough time or too much to write here.
Presently there is one "bitterly unsweetened" thing out there utilizing this method thru the web no matter what site it is. It is selling itself very cheaply trying to ruffle my feathers or lure someone back and guess what?? NO ONE IS PAYING "IT" ANY MIND OR ATTENTION. Yet It got a taste of these "mind games" too.
2007-07-10 11:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. Being in love means there are no mindgames and if there is mindgames and u all yourself inlove there is seriously something wrong with you
2007-07-10 10:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ify 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes..... mind games or usually a result of confusion and undecisiveness.
It's very frustrating.
2007-07-10 11:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being told that she was pregnant just to see how much of my life she can ruin. Luckily I found out before I ruined my reputation.
2007-07-10 03:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lepracahn E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do this very often. Especially when my boyfriend doesn't want me to have my own way. It usually works in my favor
2007-07-10 07:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by sexylovelet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its begin than love is chang in hate and in those people in no trust in love than witch metter start ? ok
FROM. PROF. M.MUMTAZ QUAID ABAD
2007-07-10 09:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by al mmairaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only mind games in a relationship is flirtation, seduction and nothing childish...
2007-07-10 05:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by POPLA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have to be theirselves and smile at the other sex.
2007-07-10 11:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Michael P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋