Why do boys/men try to get close to me when I walk by or stare at me for a long time as I walk by? It really CREEPS me out. What can I do about it? Should I distance myself more when I walk by these men? Please help. I don't want to get...well you know what. Please help.
2007-07-02 04:51:59 · 20 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am NOT lesbian. I love and admire a boy/man-whatever. I just don't think it is respectful for men to lust after me and invade my personal space.
2007-07-02 08:05:11 · update #1
welcome to my world! ......
yeah u should distance urself, thats what i do...
2007-07-02 04:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if you don't feel right around men then you should distance yourself, but they are probably thinking that that is one hot girl walking by. If you want a boyfriend, but don't want to...you know...then just tell them if they bring it up. If they don't respect you then leave!!!
2007-07-02 11:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by luvmusic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop wearing cute clothes and taking care of urself. Wear granny clothes, and make sure u smell like b.o ... idfk...i've never heard of guys being THAT close. i mean i know the whole whistling n "hey sexy" but umm...what planet did these guys arrive from from ur town?
2007-07-02 11:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are pigs, that is granted. Ok most of us anyway, those of us who look at women like they are pieces of meat and who make us men look bad.
On behalf of all the Male subspecies I truly apologize for that. You might want to reconsider your attractiveness, you seem to make men turn their necks to see you, maybe your clothing is a little too appealing for the opposite sex that they find themselves mesmerized to look at you? No one is blaming you, they ARE wrong to do what they do, but there is this other proactive should you choose to consider it.
2007-07-02 12:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by KaysoCles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is perfectly normal for women to hate men and sex so don't worry about it and enjoy the single life.
2007-07-02 11:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont let them get to you ignore them block them out when they see you they probably see beautiful which should make you more confident but anyway forget them men can be dogs just block them out try listening to music or talking on your cell phone or keep busy when you walk pass them
2007-07-02 11:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by nisha10mabry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend Jamie's like that.
She's never going to have a bf because she doesn't like guys. She's always yelling at them or something lol.
(middle skool)
2007-07-02 11:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is creepy so yes distance yourself & be careful. you seem to know wjhat they think since it's your name so when you see them looking at you just say to yourself, ''they think i'm beautiful." but if you have that much of a problem, then when you see them looking at you, say something so that won't look at you anymore. good luck!:)
2007-07-02 11:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by lOvE LiFe & LoVe Me!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its how you look? Maybe you're a hottie and don't realize it. Guys are guys, they have eyes too. We girls look at them too and I'm sure it makes them a bit uneasy. You'll be fine, just be smart.
2007-07-02 11:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy 4 Cats! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its in a really creepy way, just look at them like "wtf?!"
Or do you wear revealing clothes? Guys can't help it, they just have involuntary thoughts about sex....
Maybe you smell really good? lol
They could like you, if it's not in a creepy way.....
2007-07-02 11:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm PUT A SHIRT ON!
and get over yourself.
noone stares noone cares
2007-07-02 11:58:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋