Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

I need to inform my work but I need to know what they will do. I was researching on the internet and saw that I had 60 days to notify the health insurance. Does anyone know what the penalty will be?

2007-06-26 02:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by Itry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in law is very controlling and always wants her way. She has been at my house now going on 3 weeks. I told my husband it's time to take her home. She is a very hard headed, Italian lady, who argues and argues and yells and points her finger in your face if she disagrees with any conversation she has. I have hives all over my body from the stress, this happens all the time, usually around the third week shes here. What do I do? My husband dosen't see this is causing big problems against us and her. Do I put my foot down and assist he take her home now? please give me advice, I'm at the end of my rope. My friends mother-in-laws only stay 3 to 4 days then go home. It keeps things more calm. My mother-in-law only lives 2 hours away.

2007-06-26 02:44:03 · 17 answers · asked by Miss YSL 4 in Family

I used to buy nice lingerie when I was with my boyfriend, but he wasn't into it at all and said it was a waste of money. One time, on holiday, I bought a lovely little two piece, and pranced infront of him, but ended up sat down next to him while he watched Sky Sports News and got stoned. I ended up texting my best friend feeling like a failure that I hadn't looked enticing enough. I'm slim, and have a good figure.

He said (when we got home and I asked him) that he'd rather me naked than in something sexy.

Is this normal? I don't know wether to bother with the next one... I thought guys liked things like that?

2007-06-26 02:42:16 · 38 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

Should you believe a man who you've known for seven years and who suddenly comes back into your life and tells you that he's ready to commit to you?

2007-06-26 02:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by nc 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother wants to get a divorce from my father. My father and his family for the past 14 years have been verbally and emotionally abusive towards me and my mother. Recently my mother went and spoke to a lawyer about how she can go about with a divorce. The lawyer told her that if she did plan on getting one,then she might end up with no money. See, my mother has no college education and her income is much lower than what my father makes. There is still a mortgage on the house, so she wouldnt be able to afford that. She says the whole process of divorce also costs a lot of money and she would be stuck and end up with nothing. I told her that I'd split the rent with her if she got an apart.but she said no.I'm moving out for college, and my father is planing on moving in to my room. I dont see why money is such a big deal and why she cant just start over. She's still young and she has plenty of time to build a happy life. I know if she stays here with my father, then his family and him

2007-06-26 02:36:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband has a pretty little 22 yr old blonde that works in construction f4 him and she sends him txt msg's at all hours. I say, "She is not ur friend, she works for you, period"! Last night @ 1:00am she is calling needing a ride to the airport 3 hours away. I said "H_ll no! Let her call on her friends or bf's. You've got no business going out in the middle of the night to go get her and take her all that way; you're a married man who finally spent a moment with ur family". He got all mad and we got into yet another big fight. I don't think they are sleeping together, but the principal. No I don't trust him to have female friends, because the last 2 "friends". Both before we were married, but were together - about 4 yrs ago.
So in all opinions am I right or am I, as he seems to think, a nagging *****?
Plz help with real answers

2007-06-26 02:31:36 · 43 answers · asked by tonyer71 2 in Marriage & Divorce

From watching porn i've seen that quite a lot of black guys are 11,12,13 inches long!

do you pick black guys like that up off the street or are they just 1 in 100,000??

just curious how many black girls have taken 11 or 12 inches before and are black chicks built to take that much?

if so i would be put off from black chicks because I would think I couldn't satisfy them.

2007-06-26 02:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by aztekka07 1 in Singles & Dating

I told a guy friend of mine that sometimes I wish I was the right girl for him. He responds by saying "well we live in different cities, I have done the long distance thing before and hated it." What should I do? I backed off and quit contacting him yet he still contacts me

2007-06-26 02:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

My STB Ex-Husband left me almost 2 months ago for another girl, who is now CLAIMING to be pregnant with his kid, but 2 weeks prior it was her ex's kid. big mess, lots of stupid drama.

anyway, obviously i've never been so hurt in my entire life. my world was completely turned upside down 2 short months ago.

The thoughts of everything crowd my mind way more that it should, though it's getting much better every day. however, i haven't been able to picture my future with anyone else except my STB Ex-Husband. that is until yesterday. i even dreamed of it last night --- a new handsome husband, new baby, and a fairytale family life. it was the ultimate dream life, and in these pictures i'm soooo happy!

why do i not like what i see? why does this "happy picture" bother me sooo much? i dont want my husband back at all, yet it seems so difficult to move on. is this normal?

2007-06-26 02:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am totally clueless on what to get my folks on their 50th. Does anyone have any good ideas that won't put me too far in debt? Please help, I only have a few days. Thanks for all your suggestions.

2007-06-26 02:22:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I split up 4 weeks ago and he came down at the weekend for a visit and to help me fix the shed roof. We had the best weekend we've had for a long time.

On the Sunday we were having a real heart to heart, I asked him to stay another night and he just said yes. He then told me he'd wanted to stay but he wouldn't have asked me, what's that about? On the Monday I got the feeling he wanted to stay longer, he's on holiday, and he fought against what he wanted and left. He later admitted he'd wanted to stay longer, and he may even be coming back down later in the week.

But my question is why do men do that? It's very obvious he wants to spend time with me and yet he's ignoring his feelings. It's also very obvious there's more than just friendship between us and again he is fighting it. I actually think if he just went with what he wanted we'd be back together. No one looks at you the way he looked at me unless they really love you.

2007-06-26 02:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a color scheme planned for my wedding, and in it, I want the guys to wear chocolate brown suits. Is it wrong of me to want them to wear brown and not be willing to settle for them in black? Or should I just alter my plans to accommodate the fact that no one owns a brown suit and it's an expense they can't all afford?

2007-06-26 02:18:19 · 37 answers · asked by Red Velvet 2 in Weddings

There is this guy thats on my tennis team and i dont know if he likes me or not? here are some of the things that have made me thinnk he likes me.

1. told me i had pretty eyes
2. drew a picture of me.
3. I heard one girl ask someone else who he likes and that person wouldnt say so she just gave the other girl hints and the hint was he either liked me or two other girls.
4. another guy that was always on the tennis team that has liked me since 5th grade made sure we werent near each other. and if we were he was right there.
5. he was attempting to talk to me but couldnt cause of the guy who likes me.

2007-06-26 02:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by Morgan A 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and never dated. I'm very depressed about this. I'm shy and not aggressive. How do I approach a girl I dont know? How do I make a move? How do I get what I want (a girlfriend) without appearing rude? I dont know why anyone would go out with me. Am I hopeless? I feel like everyone else can do this effortlessly and I never learned this and have passed the time to learn. I'm expected to know how to be suave with women and I have no idea. I'm nice to women and I dont want to bother them. Am I a loser?

2007-06-26 02:12:40 · 8 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Singles & Dating

im hoping to get married in my local church does anyone know roughly what churches charge these days, as i need to set my budget before we go to the priest next week and of course i dont want costs to go too much out of control. any help would be great thanks

2007-06-26 02:09:30 · 19 answers · asked by rachel b 3 in Weddings

After every 5 hours of operation check the adjustment of the mixture screw by rotating screw clockwise until seated and then rotate screw 4½ turns back counterclockwise.

********dose the above mean four 'HALF turns or for and a half turns

2007-06-26 02:09:27 · 2 answers · asked by James E 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 02:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I enjoy going out to clubs or bars only on weekends because during the weekday I am busying throughout my work day. I work from 6:30am up until 5pm for 5 days a week so that leaves no room to enjoy my week. Im from the states but stationed in Germany for a few years. Other activivies I play on a community basketball team, I watch movies, and like to sleep when nothing else is going on.

2007-06-26 02:07:24 · 20 answers · asked by Femme 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and almost everyday we try to do something to tell each other" I love you more", well yesterday he really got me. He gave me a shower, washed me, my hair, shaved my legs etc. I told him I would return the favor...he says no go ahead and relax. So i got out and started drying off and he's says "and who loves who more?"...I need some suggestions on how to get him back. I am a stay at home mom with no car to go out and buy anything, so this has to be something done here at home with not purchasing anything! Thanks!

2007-06-26 02:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by mtcmmommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy I still have feelings for and hes 20 n im 17.we were together about 7 mnths ago and I miss him like crazy and want him back but hes really hard headed and never thinks about the things he does.and on the othe hand his 15 yr old cousin likes me alot alot.I wanna get back with him more then anything!HELP me figure out waht I should say to im!remember we havent talked in over 5 months!thanks alot

2007-06-26 02:00:51 · 8 answers · asked by imhiscindarella 1 in Singles & Dating

I told a guy friend of mine that sometimes I wish I was the right girl for him. He responds by saying "well we live in different cities, I have done the long distance thing before and hated it." What should I do? I backed off and quit contacting him yet he still contacts me

2007-06-26 01:57:47 · 3 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 01:56:45 · 24 answers · asked by different me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whom he is with 9hrs 5 days a week..they drive around some very isolated n beautiful countryside daily...whenhe comes home i ask him how his day was..he is careful not to mention his partner...as he defended her 1 day saying that the guy he took over from gave her all the **** jobs...this did not go down well with me..as my job is backbracking...he has started wearing aftershave n looking smarter..(.not for me)...i had a dream that they are getting very close..i cant get rid of this feeling...what do u think???should i worry

2007-06-26 01:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-26 01:54:23 · 5 answers · asked by Femme 1 in Singles & Dating

Explain how it was and how it ended

2007-06-26 01:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Femme 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 01:45:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a living situation with my mom who is disabled. She is divorced and I am single, never married. Until one of us has a life change we live together because we enjoy one another and I help her. I am intelligent, cute, outgoing, fun and have many great qualities, no trouble getting men interested in me. Problem is that my mom is extremely conservative about men & women- she doesn't think that two people who make a date from the internet should even meet for drinks together (b/c that's drinking with a stranger, very bad according to her). It seems like drinks is the common way people first meet up from the internet--you know who forbid me meeting for dinner with someone (a stranger)- In her book that equals major romance- well not in today's world and she doesn't get it that it dinner is a common first date!
She says that she won't live with someone who does internet dating. I'm stuck, because if I do it, it will bring an all out war and she will cut me out of her life. Advice ?

2007-06-26 01:44:02 · 17 answers · asked by tiger1 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been marries now for 4 years and have a 2 year old son; she has been going through post partum depression since the birth of our son, but was really good at hiding it. I feel like I did all of the right things and told her every day I love her and that she is the most beautiful women I have ever seen I’m a cuddle bug and MEANT IT. 3 weeks ago I found out she was having an affair with one of my friends for 6 months; she says she’s sorry and she will never do it again and says she doesn’t even know why she did it and never wants to lose me and I truly love her and want to make it work; I just can’t seem to move past the hurt, betrayal, and lack of trust.

Should I give her another chance or will she just do it again?

2007-06-26 01:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by Al-n-Val 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have heard some married people say that it's okay to "take" it. Some say that this is actually rape--and obviously illegal. Where is the line drawn? Does it depend on the mood of the other spouse?

2007-06-26 01:41:31 · 30 answers · asked by dantiuspalaptine 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-26 01:40:40 · 11 answers · asked by yamel r 1 in Marriage & Divorce