I told a guy friend of mine that sometimes I wish I was the right girl for him. He responds by saying "well we live in different cities, I have done the long distance thing before and hated it." What should I do? I backed off and quit contacting him yet he still contacts me
2007-06-26 02:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes things you neither right or wrong. You just have to be patient and do whatever you want to. Enjoy what you have and stop questioning and worrying about stuff.
You can worry and question everything while you are dead. :)
2007-06-26 02:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by I hate Comcast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants to date you then he will ask you. Long distance relatonships are very hard and it seems as though he is using you but it is still to early to tell. I would keep talking to him but i would not get hung up on him.. Do not let him think that you are waiting around for him to call. Just about life as you would and date other people. Is this relationship headed for a long distance disaster?? How far apart are you and how old are you????
2007-06-26 09:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Karen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol first of all that girl on top is wrong there is no such thing as love at such a young age its just you being sprung or obessed and thats it but just tell him straight up that you dont like long distance and if you do see him dont rush come some people change trust me i know ive been through it to but just keep calling him cause a guy always needs someone to talk to
2007-06-26 09:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes reluctant prob because his relationship failed so he only assumes this one m,ay as well. He may be hesitant to get let down again by the long distance. How far is far? If its too far, then you'll spend more time worrying about it then enjoying it!
2007-06-26 09:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by ShaunC#14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is saying is that he still wants to be friends but nothing more.
Long distance relationships are hard, they really are!!! I know, because I have been through all that!
Just be his friend, he is still contacting you becuase he just wants to remain friends, at least he still wants to be friends.
Count your blessings for that!
2007-06-26 09:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with him, which is what he seems to want. If you two are compatible enough to consider long-distance dating, you could be life-long friends instead.
PS I love how you keep reposting the same questions... All I have to do is copy and paste my answers!
2007-06-26 09:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he just wants to be your friend. Or he had a bad experience with his last long distance relationship and to scared to try again!
2007-06-26 09:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by plum_snake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't love him if you are not ready for a situation such as that.
It may end up hurting him and as well hurting you.
2007-06-26 09:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to his city.
2007-06-26 09:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by aresfury1939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋