Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

I have a really muscular stomach (i was just born that way) and it isnt freaky or anything and its still flat.........is that okay with guys??

2007-06-26 10:39:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We set a date in February 2008. How soon should I start planning?

2007-06-26 10:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

SERIOUS answers only please. i got some decent ones earlier, but most of them were people just bashing me. i don't need that right now. thanks!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A9FJuintg4FGqS4BhA_sy6IX?qid=20070626081308AAYMSzZ

2007-06-26 10:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by steven mcd 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 10:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Three or four months after we were married, I told my husband that I hated him. It was during a heated argument and I know that my actions are not justifiable in any way, shape, form or fashion. The reason I said it? I was very frustrated because he used to give me the silent treatment when we got into an argument. I would have to literally beg him to speak. He would run into another room or leave the house, and no matter how hard I tried he would not budge. One evening he was watching a football game and I was trying to talk to him about an issue in our marriage. He kept putting me off and said I would have to wait until after the game to discuss anything. I got really upset. He ended up flipping off the TV and going into the other room. I followed him and because he was getting ready to leave out the house I said, "I hate you, I hate you, I hate you" over and over and hit him in his chest several times. To date, he insists that this caused his feelings for me to change.

2007-06-26 10:31:57 · 44 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

travel 7 hours one way to see them after I give birth. They are usually wonderful, but they keep trying to guilt me into this. I already feel worn out, I don't want to sit in a car for 7 hours with a 2 year old and a 3 day old to please them. When my daughter was born I made the trip with her because my husband was deploying and I wanted him to spend time with his entire family, but this time it is unecessary-it is just as long for them to come see us. How do I tell them that tactfully because right now I don't even feel like being tactful because I think they are all being selfish.

2007-06-26 10:26:58 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle M 2 in Family

2007-06-26 10:18:39 · 28 answers · asked by pinkierose02 1 in Weddings

My long distance boyfriend moved here to be with my in March. For the first month, our sex life was great, however since April, it has just gotten worse and worse. From every day, to once a week. Recently I discovered that I have genital warts. I have never had them before.. My doctor has said it is a very common std, lots of people have it and never actually get the warts. Men cannot even be tested for it. I left the doctor's office accepting the idea that either of us could've given it to the other unknowingly. Then I come home and he blames me right off the bat and uses it as a reason to completely end our sex life, despite the fact my doctor said we could still have sex.. I am so depressed over all of this and I do not know what I should do. I do not want to be in a sexless relationship but I care about him :( Do you think he will get over this? Is there something I can do to help him get over this? I am lost :(

2007-06-26 10:13:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Payday is here. Car insurance is late with a pay by date of 06-27-07 or your officially cancelled. The rent for June is past due. There is a $50.00 fee for being late. Payday was 06-22-07. If you could only pay one, which would it be and why?

2007-06-26 10:08:28 · 28 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-26 10:03:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here's the thing. My girlfriend has told me she will not have sex until we get married. Anyway I was at the club with the boys and one drunk girl kept trying to talk to me. Then she said "lets do it". Being a virgin and horny, I reluctantly agreed. One of my idiot friends told his other friend in confidence who told someone who told my girl and she broke it off with me. She confronted me and I said "it was just sex, there was no emotions involved, it was just a physical thing I was drunk, it's not like you're putting out I am a man I have needs". Even though I wasn't drunk I had to lie to her. Still she ended it saying she can no longer trust me and is not taking my calls. I want her back because she is a good girl. How do I get her back?

2007-06-26 09:58:56 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i shower? just say yes or no?

2007-06-26 09:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

since my husbands got the new laptop for christmass he spent he's most time on the internet. I know i shouldn't be suspecious of that but its the fact that everytime the kids or I come near him when he's on the computer he'll close it. He never let us use the laptop he so possessive of it that i'm begining to think he's cheating. also i wrestle some word out of his best frieds mouth and he told that he's doing porn on the internet.
I can't brake into the computer without a password and very keen about privacy. I don't want to go to a P.I. Isn.t there a way i can brake the password without having him being suspecious of anything. He has and HP model and he's the administrator. May be there is a password I can type to brake and investigate.
He also won't talk to me about anything.

2007-06-26 09:49:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There are a couple of girls I know who have gone out and bought their wedding dresses so they can "be prepared when the time comes" and to go ahead and get the cost out of the way. Sure they had boyfriends at the time, but neither of these girls were even CLOSE to being engaged! What are your thoughts on this?

2007-06-26 09:48:31 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Been seeing a guy since April. He invited me to his friends wedding in July. I was so happy he asked me because I was wondering where the relationship was heading. We've been going out almost 3 months and haven't talked about being exclusive. Now, I'm getting nervous about it all. I don't know wth is wrong w/me. First I want this, now I'm scared.... am I worrying for nothing? Going to a wedding w/him doesn't mean I'm his girlfriend right? ugggggggghhhh

2007-06-26 09:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you find that person who is just as naughty and conniving as you are?

2007-06-26 09:44:25 · 28 answers · asked by Spanglish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just graduated from high school and am taking a year off before I continue on with post secondary. Right now I am living at home but my parents and I just don't get along. They are not here much but when they are it sucks. Besides, I do everything for myself anyway.. From cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc..

The thing is, my cousin just asked me to move out to a little apartment with her. I am working part time as of right now. I really want to, the idea is SO SO tempting but I am not sure it's the right thing to do...

If I stayed at home (which is in the boonies) I could save money for school, buy myself a car and therefore have more freedom because I can get myself from point A to point B.

If I moved in with my cousin I would be alot happier, but would have to pay bills and get my own groceries. Which would set back me getting my own car (but I would be in town walking distance from everything, and also she has a car we would be sharing)

What would you do?

2007-06-26 09:43:06 · 2 answers · asked by . 4 in Family

Is it more like a bridal shower, but for men?

Or more like a combined bachelor/bachelorette party?


What are some common things that occur?

2007-06-26 09:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

lets say a married couple around 23 who has 2 small children under 2.....he likes to watch porn all day in a locked room now since i had back to back pregnancies things well dont look the same with my body is that why he wants to now watch porn because he doenst think im beautiful anymore orhe wants someone else .....the first time i walked in on him playing with it to these beautiful ladies its like burned in my head that thats what he wants im ashamed of my body now and i close my eyes when touches me and see her is there something wrong with me or am i abnormnal and crazy

2007-06-26 09:41:03 · 18 answers · asked by shawty_from_fl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That is the amount some make. Just dancing not side line activities. WOW. That is alot of money. $240,000 a year. I bought my wife an workout video to get here ready after seeing that on TV. Just kidding , I think???

2007-06-26 09:37:33 · 18 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Events will be planned around how much money is collected.

2007-06-26 09:37:30 · 7 answers · asked by deadmajic 1 in Weddings

In September my Boyfriends moving away. Its about a 3 hour car ride away... (i cant drive.. so id either have to get the train or he'd have to drive and see me). we'd only be able to see each other once a week.
My problem is he'd be surrounded by other girls all the time.

do you think that it could honestly work?

(i cant go with him because im tied down here with my education)

2007-06-26 09:35:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this is a really silly question. I just watched Sweet Home Alabama and I was just wondering. Do both parties need to consent for a divorce to happen? Like in the real world, could a girl really not divorce a guy simply because he would not sign the papers?

2007-06-26 09:34:56 · 13 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so my daughters father crawled out from under a rock trying to come back and be a family with me and our daughter again. I was very hesitant because I know that he is a bag of tricks but I wanted my daughter to have a relationship with her dad. Unfortunately when
he came from under the rock he brought the psycho girl he was dealing with while we were separated with him. I tried to give him a chance to be involved with his kid even though all he was interested in was what was going on with me.For the last 2 months I had been going through the drama of psycho girl bashinghis windows and threatning our lives. He would not take any legal action against her and that is what made me realize he was still lying and gaming. Long story short he chose psycho girl and that is fine I hope they rot in hell together. I am not trying 2 keep his kid from him but I don't want him anywhere near my home & I don't want him taking her 2 any unstable environment so can't he get supervised visits?

2007-06-26 09:33:24 · 4 answers · asked by luckyme 1 in Family

It would still hurt but it would be more civilized and not so low class. I am very curious as to why you cheated firt rather than just simply divorce.

2007-06-26 09:33:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He so cute when he begs for it lol

2007-06-26 09:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is very nice and the sweetest person in the world. The problem is that she is about 50 pounds overweight and I saw her naked once. It was disgusting! That fat just rolling around and flabby boobs. Man it was too gross! She is a good friend and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I couldn't get an erection for that to save my life. What should I do?

2007-06-26 09:27:07 · 7 answers · asked by little peter 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 09:25:22 · 8 answers · asked by thrash 1 in Weddings

2007-06-26 09:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a former smoker myself (9 years) who quit COLD TURKEY upon finding out I was pregnant 4 1/2 years ago. My husband has tried umpteen times to quit. He is currently chewing the gum but sneaking cigs at the same time. I know it's not healthy to nag him- so you don't have to advise me not to. Just help me think of some ways I can show him how much I believe in him.

2007-06-26 09:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by ecstaticdevine 4 in Marriage & Divorce