SERIOUS answers only please. i got some decent ones earlier, but most of them were people just bashing me. i don't need that right now. thanks!
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2007-06-26 10:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by steven mcd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was one of the so-called "bashers" earlier, and I apologize for anything that I may have said to offend you...but I honestly think that you will have a hard time finding anyone on here who will be sympathetic to your situation. If you're a sexually active male in your early 30s , you HAD to have been prepared for the possibility that your girl could get pregnant. (If you weren't ready for that responsibility, you shouldn't have been having sex with her!) Now that she IS pregnant, you need to step up to the plate and be a man about it. If she doesn't want to have an abortion, you have absolutely no right to force her...it's her body, and therefore, she has a voice in what happens inside of it.
Again, I have very little sympathy for your situation because of your previous post and the degrading views of women it contained. If you think that forcing your girl to get an abortion will solve all of your problems, I don't even know how to respond to that.
2007-06-26 10:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want people bashing you? then you shouldn't be such a jerk!!! you want ur gf to get an abortion? that's murder you're so selfish. sure babies take up a lot of time, patience, and money. but, you should of thought about that before you had sex with your gf!! obviously you don't love your gf because if you did you would stay with her no matter what. if you loved her you wouldn't care about her body or how much she's eating or if she has a baby or not!!!! and as for your parents, well, they're seem very racist. that's totally not cool!!! think about how your gf will react. she probably thinks that you love her still but, you're just gonna go and break her heart!!?!?!?
i hope this doesn't get reported or anything it's just the right thing. abortion=murder!!!
2007-06-26 17:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's HER decision...HER body...why do you think what you want is more important than what she wants? You want her to abort because it's what you want...you don't care what she wants. Even though if it were me, I'd abort, I simply dislike your attitude so much because you act as though your desire should supersede hers. Only if you were the one pregnant would you have the right to the final say.
You're right, kids are a big issue and they probably will mess things up for you. That's what happens when proper birth control isn't used, or when it fails.
You don't have to be part of her life or the kid's life...other than whatever the court deems you should contribute financially. Otherwise, move on with your life.
Karma...it's a biotch.
2007-06-26 17:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a specific response then you are asking your question in the wrong place. Don't choose a public forum to ask a question and then think you can dictate the answer you will receive.
2007-06-26 17:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your girl wants a baby and you don't.
If neither is willing to compromise, both of you might wonder why stay together.
2007-06-26 17:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really
2007-06-26 17:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by bob s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋