Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

What I mean is that they are constantly being sweet and you wonder their intentions hahaha and than you see that they are saying the same stuff to others....

I feel actions speak louder than words but it bothers me at times when I think a person is writing something to me personally acting or saying certain things to find out that the person does it to everyone...... Has this ever happened to you...........I never trust these people and eventually I cut off the friendship I call it player mentality and being fair both Men and woman alike do this.....................

2007-06-26 05:49:20 · 4 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 05:48:12 · 7 answers · asked by Vasudevan p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my husband of 17 years is always accusing me of cheating (fyi... I'm attractive and he's not). Any way... he finds a receipt in the street by my car, with some Corona's on it and thinks it's mine! So he accused of me going to a bar with someone basically. He kept me up all night until 2:00 A.M and I had to get up at 6:00 am. He was questioning me, calling me names, and turning up the TV loud, sitting on me, yelling in my face to tell him the truth. At this point... I really hate him. I want out! I can't stand him any more! His behavior isn't normal, it's weird and I think he needs psychological help. I’m a good person and I have never cheated, it’s not in my nature. I can’t take it any more though. We have a house we just bought 2 years ago, which I can’t afford by myself. Any advice?

2007-06-26 05:46:36 · 52 answers · asked by luv2help 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you be in love with Many people or Love is special and there can only be One special someone or possibly two in your entire life????

2007-06-26 05:44:44 · 21 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

Why won't people accept the fact that everyone has a past. Things that they are asshamed of.. That anyone can change how their future could turn out to be.. Why can't people boost them up and support them through the process of changing instead of tearing them down and telling them they can't?

2007-06-26 05:42:57 · 41 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sooooo excitd for the harry potter movie and book to come out.... if u r to then tell me!! i wanna noe about the other HP fanatics!!!

2007-06-26 05:40:50 · 9 answers · asked by =) 2 in Friends

My alimony was modified down when my X lost his job. He now has a full time job that pays very well.
Is there any way for me to get it modified back up without a lawyer.
I can't afford one.

2007-06-26 05:38:41 · 6 answers · asked by neuroticgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no idea!! I've never been part of a wedding party or anything, basically I know what dress I want, I have an idea of what I want the Bridesmaid dresses to look like, we have picked our colors, but that's it. I don't need anything extravagant, I was hoping to have a really nice wedding for under 5 grand, but what are the next steps? We haven't even set a date yet, I was hoping for next spring but he hasn't committed to it because of money issues. It will take us a while to even save 5 grand and he just lost his job, etc. I don't know how the traditional ceremony is supposed to work, are there any books anyone would recommend reading on the subject? What if I don't have a Dad that will walk me down the aisle, etc? What kind of food would you recommend serving, I want something light but not really cheap, but I don't want just fruit either. Lots of questions!! Lol

2007-06-26 05:36:31 · 13 answers · asked by Carolyn Millsap Emery 1 in Weddings

My sister inlaw is having a reception at a hotel. Both my kids are invited, their will also be other children invited, just not any babies. My inlaws are fine with it and said bring him, just bring his pack in play so we have somewhere to set him down, so he's not running all around. We are also staying the night at the hotel and will have a room. I want him to be there because it's our family, for pictures and I don't think it's going to be your typical wild and crazy wedding. Any thoughts on how I can pull this off smoothly???

2007-06-26 05:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by K. G 1 in Weddings

I am 15 years old and am having a physical today. Is it appropriate to go alone, or should a parent accompany me?

2007-06-26 05:35:49 · 7 answers · asked by Nickz 1 in Family

ive heard guys like girls who are a mystery. a) is this true? b) what do you love to see in girls?

2007-06-26 05:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by swimdiablo820 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I wanted to get married soon, but her mom said, that they (the parents of my fiancee) will not attend the wedding and will not give their blessings if we will not have a Catholic rite...we are Protestants (I and my fiancee) so, how do we deal with my intruding future mother-in-law?

2007-06-26 05:30:06 · 29 answers · asked by bounce_00 3 in Weddings

2007-06-26 05:25:41 · 18 answers · asked by Melissa K 1 in Singles & Dating

The majority of the responses I received to an earlier question about a disconnect between my wife and I were centered around putting some effort into doing some little things for her. We have three young kids and I work she stays at home. To be honest right now I am mentally in a place where I am not sure if I would rather leave her a flower to make her happy or my socks on the kitchen table to piss her off on my way out the door to work. So if some of you could help me out by giving some suggestions for little things I could to get things moving in the right direction I would be grateful. It would also be great if some of these suggestions were compatible with drinking beer and playing golf !! Just kidding, I want to give this an honest shot, thanks for your help in advance.

2007-06-26 05:25:06 · 25 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

serious answers please,, im trying not to kill somebody!

2007-06-26 05:14:22 · 8 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to have a money dance at my wedding.. but i have two questions about it...

1) Does the pinning of the money ruin your dress? and leave noticable holes?

2) is this a trashy thing to do? or is it cute?

2007-06-26 05:14:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi, it's me again, I know my question was resolved, but now that my bf and I are gonna live together I was thinking that maybe we could live in an apartment with 2 bedrooms, so he can have his privacy and I can have mine, not that we're not gonna sleep together, but I think it's better to respect eachother space, besides I've heard of a lot of couples that do that and their relationships are better and they don't argue as much as couples who have just one room for both. I mean, whenever we feel like being alone, or maybe I have work to do and he wants to watch tv or viceversa, instead of taking turns or even arguing, we can have our own privacy, I think that way the relationship will be better, I told my bf and he thinks it's a good idea. What do you think?

2007-06-26 05:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by ? DeSi ? 5 in Weddings

k, i've got this problem with a few of my friends. we're usually light-hearted and joke around, but whenever i try to say something serious, they dont believe me.
like the other week, i found out i have hypoglycemia and so i told them. but they only said "everyone's got that". dont know if thats true, but i'm concerned in case i ever collapse and they wouldnt know what to do.
i've already told them about this twice but no matter how seriously i say it, they just dont take my word for it.
how can i make them see that i'm not joking around?

2007-06-26 05:05:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a guy friend and he is a strong Christian.... I really admire him, but I find it odd that he has never found anyone male or female attractive... he says that he is too young to be thinking of such things and that if God has someone out there for him he would just know.... He said he refuses to even look at a woman in the wrong way because he doesnt want to sin..... I know a girl though that really likes him but doesnt know how to get his attention with this mind set.... any help or suggestions... and for those who are Christians especially do you have any input on whether this is a good thing or going too far?

2007-06-26 05:05:21 · 25 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend, who im not that close to anymore is getting married this weekend. I am not able to attend however I feel I should send him a gift. How much should I give?

2007-06-26 05:02:20 · 16 answers · asked by Jrod1314 1 in Weddings

Or do you still love them and attracted to them no matter what?

2007-06-26 04:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is getting married in two weeks, and they don't have a wedding registry. I'd like to get them something practical, but what should I get?

2007-06-26 04:57:27 · 15 answers · asked by treasuremystyc 2 in Weddings

A friend of mines has been in a sexually lacking relationship for about 4 years now. He has strayed b/c of the sexual dysfunction and has since been trying to reconcile the relationship, but the sex is still little no none, and boring as hell, and he still has thoughts of straying w/ someone he dated for a significant amount of time during the main relationship.

This friend wants to know how can he tell his girlfriend that she needs to up her sex game. He likes sex, he wants sex, and needs more to desire than her ''lay there like a piece of wood'' mentality.

Help me help him please!! Thanks.
**thought out educated answers desired, thanks**

2007-06-26 04:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a college student and a girl id never seen or met sent me an instant msg and asked me to hang out with her. she also told me she recently broke up with her bf. Im looking for a serious relationship not a temporary rebound to be dumped in two weeks and i dont want to be used or hurt again. I went over to her room and she snuggled up to me five minutes after I met her, i just put my arm around herand played with her hair. She then constantly imed and texted me, etc. A day or two later i went over again and she fell asleep on my chest. The next night (last night) she was drunk and called me 8 times that she wanted to see me so i sat with her. when i got back she imed me that she needed a kiss next time. (ive only known her for three days). How do I know that shes not just rebounding from her bf and using me to comfort her for a while? What should I do?

2007-06-26 04:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by character 1 in Singles & Dating

♦PLIZ HELP ME I NEED 2 KNO...

2007-06-26 04:49:58 · 28 answers · asked by 96 2 in Singles & Dating

I get married in 6 weeks, I have been living with my fiancee for 4 years, will anything actually change???

2007-06-26 04:49:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay my cuzin is home for a week staying with me. She told me that she gags herself because this one guy called her fat. She said she gets sick after she eats, but the problem is shes the skinnyest thing ive ever seen. She made me promise not to tell anyone cause her mom would kill her. I don't want her to get mad at me but i don't know what to do. Please help

Thanks all

2007-06-26 04:48:35 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-26 04:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by only me 2 in Family

She has a boyfriend who I still like but I don't think it is going to work out. Should I keep quiet or tell her how I feel?

2007-06-26 04:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im skater and i cant find the perfect guy what kind of guy would be right for me?

2007-06-26 04:46:18 · 18 answers · asked by FALLBALL 09!! 2 in Singles & Dating