She has a boyfriend who I still like but I don't think it is going to work out. Should I keep quiet or tell her how I feel?
2007-06-26 04:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mind your own business
2007-06-26 04:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, assuming that you really do value her as a true friend, it might be wise to just keep quite about the matter. And, if things really don't work out between the two, leave a little space, at least a couple of weeks, before you start to get involved with this guy.
I know this won't be easy, but you can do it.
2007-06-26 11:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well who went out with him first?
if she did then y do you like her boyfriend?
if you did and now shes going out with him, then shes not a true friend you dont go out with your girlfriends X's..you should let her keep him and dump them both as friends it wont work and then they will have nobody she lost you over a guy and he lost something that could of been a good thing over a fling so dont let it bother you.
if you would go back out with him then there would always be the wondering feeling of does he still like her cause he must of in order for him to go out with her in the first place and you do want that cause it will just cause fights or someone getting hurt.
so just keep quiet and when they do break up let your "friend" know how you felt about what she did and that would of never did that to her.
2007-06-26 12:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by "I still like". If you mean, you think he's a nice guy, cool. In that case, regardless of what you think, keep your mouth shut. If it does work out, you haven't made anyone mad. If it doesn't, you can be supportive of your friend.
However, if you "still like" as in wish he was your boyfriend, then you need to back that thing up and get some distance from both of them before you really mess something up, including your friendship.
2007-06-26 11:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by HipHopGrandma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's gonna get hurt, tell her. But if you think that the relationship will just die and she won't really care, then just leave it alone. Or are you just saying that it won't work out because you want to go out with him? :\
2007-06-26 11:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Thing H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends....Do you have good reason to think it won't work? has he cheated? Is he nasty to her? If not, I would not say anything but be there for her if it all ends in tears.
2007-06-26 11:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jo.1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if you dont later youll have a bf but lose a friend
2007-06-26 11:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jay I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋