Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

todays young crowd including me want to marry of our beloved one. But as per the local survey arrange marriage is more succesful than love one.i have trust on love but practical is different. r u agree or what u want to say

2007-06-26 04:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by apu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend. He loves me. Here is the problem: he is from Jordan and lives there, but he is here this summer. Everything was great at the beginning, but a week ago his father called him to tell him to come home. Why? Because he wants my boyfriend to marry his cousin in an arranged marriage.

My boyfriend broke the news to me about 3 days ago. He spent the days before that calling and pleading with his father to reconsider, since he is in love with me. His father is not moved. Even worse, my boyfriend’s sister is getting married and she is only 17. My boyfriend loves her very much and wants to do everything to stop the wedding. His father has said that he will stop the wedding if my boyfriend comes back and gets married. Also, if he does not go through with his own wedding, he is disowned.

My boyfriend feels utterly defeated. He has given up, but I don’t want to yet.

I am heartbroken. I want to marry this boy, I don’t want him to marry his cousin.

2007-06-26 04:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by Rach 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Man or Woman, If you were to cheat on your partner would you tell or keep it a secret?

2007-06-26 04:06:02 · 27 answers · asked by Rain L 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 04:04:38 · 19 answers · asked by Carl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she did wrong,made an mistake she served her time,now what are the fans thinking about her?

2007-06-26 04:04:31 · 20 answers · asked by Sarita B 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in about 2 1/2 weeks and have been debating with myself whether I should keep my maiden name. I would keep my maiden name, maybe as a middle name since I dont have one, and just add my fiances last name. I wouldnt hyphenate either. I just want to see how many women are doing this and age range. I wouldnt really tell people that I kept my maiden name, I mean they could still call Mrs. His last name. But just down on paper and stuff I would have it be my name, lastname and husbands last name. And I am not doing this because I dont think we will be together forever, if I thought that I wouldnt be marrying him! I am doing it because to me my last name is very important, I love it, its me, and I could care less about tradition in this case. So how many women out there have kept their maiden name and added husbands? How do you feel about it, are you happy with it?

2007-06-26 04:03:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wife and I have been married for 12 years with 3 kids. Sex had started to come mostly in the form of quickies and with a lack of passion. We have always been very open with each other and neither of us are the jealous type. A couple that we had been close friends with a few years back before they moved away and the wife and I rented a beach house in Florida for a week. The first night after the kids went to bed the conversation turned into a very open adult conversation. Nothing physical or even any open suggestions about the others spouse. When we went to bed my wife was on “fire”. She admitted that she thought Brad was hot and had had impure thoughts over the last few hours about him. We had the best sex we had in years. Funny thing was that the next morning Brad and I went on the “Donut” breakfast run he said that he and his wife had fantastic sex that night.
The week continued with plenty of talk, innuendos, and flirting but no physical boundaries crossed. The fact that during conversations we had all admitted that the others we found the others spouse attractive, the vacation atmosphere, and the general lack of clothing involved with the beach created a rejuvenating atmosphere for all of us in the sex department. The wife and I still use this experience 1 year later as fantasy material while having sex. Anyone else very experience something like this?

2007-06-26 04:01:00 · 14 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

looking for a longterm [only] chinese girlfriend.

2007-06-26 03:59:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my Boyfriend have been together for a year last week we got nto a fight he didnt talk to me for 2days an then told me he was mad an would talk to me when he wasnt. instead of leaving him alone i kept texting and trying to call himfor 2 days. he text me and said stop calling if i wanted to talk i would call you. so friday i told him i would leave him alone an give him space to cool off. well it has been 3days an i have not contacted him. its driving me crazy i want to go to his house an talk to him should I or should i give him more space? 3days isnt really that long but to me it feels like forever because we got in the fight over a week ago. i know sometimes guys get to a point where they need "space" but what does that mean a week or 2months ...PLEASE HELP!!

2007-06-26 03:56:27 · 24 answers · asked by ♥BMore Chick♥Tiki's are HOT♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 03:56:05 · 23 answers · asked by tear streeked angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bride to be has her dream wedding planned, and her parents willing to pay, but their ideas are different, with the response usually being, well, we are paying for it, so we get the last decision..........its not the issue of cost, my gf wants a simpler wedding, they are picking the colors, flowers,cakes..........ect,ect.........we give our idea, then they tell the people what we want......is this right?

2007-06-26 03:49:59 · 62 answers · asked by ed h 3 in Weddings

Is it "legal" for a wife and husband to check each other's email? I let him check mine, but he gets mad when I check his. His work email is always logged on so I can check anytime I want to. Today I just saw that he lied to someone in an email. How can I let him know about this lie without letting him know I've read his email?

2007-06-26 03:44:30 · 14 answers · asked by boogers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to a wedding in two weeks where my bf is bestman. Unfortunately, although I have a good job, money is very tight lately. My bf and I are going abroad just after the wedding. We just had our anniversary so bought him a gift for that, plus Father's Day and Mother's Day gifts as well as birthday presents for 4 family birthdays in July and August. On top of this, I've just found out that my car needs some major repairs totalling over $1,000... plus rent, insurance, student loans, etc etc...

I have no money to spend on a wedding gift. Even $50 will be a stretch for me right now. I feel awful! Should I just bite the bullet and put $50 in with my bf's gift? (They want cash.) Or is there something else I can do instead? My bf said it's okay if I don't put any money in with his (he would still sign both our names on the card) and I know a gift isn't mandatory, but they're good friends and I feel really bad not giving something...

Any suggestions or opinions are appreciated!

2007-06-26 03:43:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just curious if anyone else has ever used or heard this saying coming from a parent to their child?

2007-06-26 03:30:57 · 46 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Family

even if you've never met the person face to face?

Are friendships too easily formed via the internet?

What factors into your decision to befriend someone online?

In your opinion, are having more friends on here, better than having only a few? If so, do you find it easy, truly getting to know a variety of people, intimately?

2007-06-26 03:24:55 · 28 answers · asked by Caroline 5 in Friends

My daughter is 2 years old, and still has my husband's Mother, but she is getting older and has some health issues,so she is limited in what she can do with our daughter. My parents are in their early 60s, and like to be involved from a "distance", i.e. send her a little gift here and there, but don't come and visit (they live in Kansas, we live in Texas) much, and have made it clear that they will not babysit her alone if and when they come down, or if we come up there. This last weekend was my class reunion in Kansas, and we had to leave my daughter down here in Texas because they did not want to keep her for the weekend. They haven't seen her since Christmas! This hurts me deeply, but I know I will never change them. I'm trying not to let it eat at me, but it's difficult, especially when I see all my friends' parents JUMP at the chance to get their hands on their grandkids. How do I cope??

2007-06-26 03:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by julesl68 5 in Family

the 13 letters are ( F T O G U N I R O I), can some1 get the 3 words out of them?

2007-06-26 03:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by Ben B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-26 03:16:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

FOR SOME RESON I KEEP COMING ACROSS MEN LIKING ALL THE SAME LOOKS ON WOMEN. I WAS WONDERING IF THERE ARE ANY MEN OUT THERE WHO WOULDN'T GIVE UP THEIR LIVES, WIVES AND FAMILIES JUST TO BE WITH A SKINNY BLONDE CHICK!

2007-06-26 03:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by tayi-baby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He feels that its all about me all the time and i feel like its all about him. I come home from and ask what he wants for supper and clean whatever needs to be cleaned. He's a nurse so he doesnt work all week. He clames he doesnt cook because he doesnt do a good job. he doesnt let the dog out when he gets up i do it when i get home. I do pretty much anything for him. I dont feel appriciated. He does help clean up but if he sees that i'm cleaning he wont ask to help he'll just go watch tv. we've been married 2 months now and have been having problems the whole time. He claims that he's the one giving in all the time and i guess that's why he feels like it's all about me. I dont want him to give in i want to come up with a solution to the problems. we always argue about the same things and he cant understand why. I'm to the point where i'm starting not to care. i'm a lovy dovy person and for a bout a week now i'm just keeping my distance.

2007-06-26 03:16:06 · 19 answers · asked by Just married 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been raising my 4 yr. old nephew for a year now on July 4. My S-I-L has really made no attempt to see him or even be in his life.
She left her husband (who she's preggers by) for a controlling woman who runs her life. She has moved back to our home town and has been here for about a month and a half. She has attempted to see him once...and has called 4 times.
She arrived at our home at 12:30am to "retrieve" her son who was sleeping. I calmly told her that she cannot take care of her son...she can't even take care of her daughter (8 yrs) and hasn't seen her since she was 2 yrs old.
Did I mention the fact that she has been in jail more this year than she has been out? We also had to drive to Missouri to pick up my nephew because she was in jail and the chick she was with didn't want him. He would have ended up in foster care. Now... I have to tell you that the chick that didn't want him doesn't have her own kids either because her brother sexually abused them. HELP!

2007-06-26 03:14:29 · 22 answers · asked by Pixie Dust 3 in Family

ok i know this guy and i said to my friend i though he was fit she went and told him. the problem is i see a difference between thinking someone is fit to fancying someone because he may be fit but hes not a very nice person so i dont fancy him how do i show him that i dont fancy him!? i know its the opposite question that you usually get but please answer!!! i want to show him i dont fancy him because whenever i see him he just smirks as if hes gods gift!

2007-06-26 03:07:46 · 10 answers · asked by %getupkids% 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and I are going to court in 3 weeks to determine where my son will reside. He is 5 years old and has spent equal ammounts of time with us both. I disapprove of the way she is raising him such as, she let my son miss 11 unanswered days of school, she will not take him to the doctor, he currently has a hernia which I have taken him to the DR. for, and she don't think is a big deal. I am having to take out insurance for him just so he can have this surgey. She is really a terrible parent. She let her boyfriend put welts on my sons legs, which I did call DSS for, but they dropped the case for some reason. I just know that it would be in my sons best interest to reside with me. At the same time I don't want to ask for to much and end up with less time with my son than I have now. Please help with and suggestions or personnal experiences.

2007-06-26 03:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a christian, my lawyer says I have the right to see them but I do not want to do anything to upset them. She is really just using them against me. What do I do?

2007-06-26 03:05:23 · 23 answers · asked by jdjackson74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent talked to my mother about a month and now she's talking to me. i understand she's my mother..see what happened was that my brother got married..and she doesnt like his wife or her family.. I stood up for my sister in law..and told my mother that she has to deal with it now...theres nothing she can do... So she stopped talking to me. But now she is talking to me and pretending that nothing happened.. she wants me to come over her house this weekend...but i donthink im ready... should i go..?? it sucks cuz she was never really there when iw as a kid so now she wants to be mommy

2007-06-26 03:01:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I said that i didnt want to just yet because i'm not ready and i'm not even on the pill..and he said that it's okay and he understands and he was like 'really since its you i would wait forever for you' , and i was like awe hes so sweet he does care.. but i know he wants to and we both love each other but im a virgin and im pretty sure he is too.. he asked when i think im gonna be on the pill and i said i dont know, cuz i dont know.. lol me talking to my mom about that makes things right weird.

this is my first time with this kinda stuff..what if soon we were to do this with no pill but a condom??
i just really now changed my mind after he said that to me for some reason
.. ADVICE? also we are 16/17 which i don't think matters that much... also we have almost done it several times,, so like next time i don't know what to do?

2007-06-26 03:01:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for many mos now. We seem to have the perfect relationship. Long story short, I found out that while I was on vacation his ex bought a ticket and flew down to see him for 4 days. He swears that he never had sex with her. He says he wouldnt have anyway(sure) but that she was on her period. She says that they did have sex once, the first day. He has sworn on everything important..his life,his parents, my life he even said that as a Marine he swears he never had sex with her. He said that he is willing to take any tests to prove he didnt. To show me how much he loved and trusted me he gave me a key to his apt and called her in front of me at 3am to tell her that it was a mistake that she came down and not to do it again. The other issue is even if they didnt have sex, she still was here for 4 days,he said that she kissed him and he didnt stop her. He told me he is inlove with me and could marry me and so scared of losing me. Im in love with him.Im so Confused

2007-06-26 02:58:33 · 32 answers · asked by paisley 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-06-26 02:57:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I even say call your parents or buy things for him to take over but he never does, he says he cant be bothered. How do I make him see that he shouldnt do that

2007-06-26 02:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by motherinlaw=womanhitler 1 in Family

They're both my best friends, and they're in this huge fight. its over something stupid too. its so hard because they want me to pick a side and i dont want to because theyre both my best friends... i've tried to resolve everything but they're just being stubborn about it and they wont apologize to each other. do you have any ideas on how i can end this???

2007-06-26 02:47:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends