My Boyfriend is mad at me.?

Question

Me and my Boyfriend have been together for a year last week we got nto a fight he didnt talk to me for 2days an then told me he was mad an would talk to me when he wasnt. instead of leaving him alone i kept texting and trying to call himfor 2 days. he text me and said stop calling if i wanted to talk i would call you. so friday i told him i would leave him alone an give him space to cool off. well it has been 3days an i have not contacted him. its driving me crazy i want to go to his house an talk to him should I or should i give him more space? 3days isnt really that long but to me it feels like forever because we got in the fight over a week ago. i know sometimes guys get to a point where they need "space" but what does that mean a week or 2months ...PLEASE HELP!!

well the initial fight was on sunday night and monday he was fine an instead of me dropping it i went over his house monday an started again i think he is really mad because i cant drop things i always keep bringing them up. he told me he was tired of me flipping out over dumb stuff.

Answer 1

I would wait a little longer.... at least a full week. He'll call you when he's ready.
If you keep pushing, you'll keep fueling his anger. You don't want that.
Relationships are not at all perfect and sometimes a break is a GOOD THING. Don't worry sooo much !!!
Fights happen, arguments happen, just respect his needs right now.
Keep yourself busy with friends, perhaps family. Use this time for yourself. Don't live for your man, live for yourself.

No worries OK !!!

Answer 2

Just leave him alone and be the independent one. I think that right now after more than a week, he's punishing you more than anything else. So please don't wait by the phone, just go out and do your thing, maybe when he realizes that you're not home waiting for him that will make him change his mind, and then again, maybe that was the reason he was waiting for to break up with you. So if he doesn't call within a day or two , then I would definitely ask him what is the deal, and tell him you don't intend to stay home to wait for him..
good luck

Answer 3

Just give him more time to cool off from the fight... In the meantime, find things to entertain yourself... Hang out with friends at the mall, maybe. You could also think about why you two got into an argument and think of ways to make sure that you don't make the same mistake twice. It will make things much easier in the future! I hope that you two get things back together very soon!

Answer 4

He's had ample time to call off and it sounds as if the argument was either very important to him and he isn't ready to give it up or he is just trying to punish you (which is really immature and mean). I think you should e-mail him and say okay you've had time to cool off and think about the situation and so have I, how about we go back to being adults and get together and talk this out. His reaction will let you know what's up. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 5

Being clingy is sooooo unattractive SO STOP IT!!!! Geez, have some dignity woman! You're crawling around on your hands and knees for this guy like he's a sex god. He told you what he wanted - now give it to him and stop being so damn needy! Give him space - that means NOT texting him or contacting him in any way. He'll contact you when and if he decides to. Until then, you have to go on with your life. That doesn't mean start dating other people but it just means you have to find something else to focus on. You need to create a life for yourself outside of this guy! Right now,it sounds like HE is your life and that's just pathetic.

Answer 6

Wow - it's been 5 days already? That's a little excessive on his part.

Give him another day or two to cool off (I know how much that sucks), and then start trying to call him again. You can't get past this as a couple until he's willing to talk to you about why he's mad, and you can mention that.

Answer 7

Oh the drama! If you did something to legitimately make him mad then apologize and move on. If he insists on being mad then what can you do? There is nothing you can do. Normal people want to get their point across and continue with the relationship. This guy seems like a girly man who may have other reasons for shutting you out. He may want to break up with you and doesnt know how to "man up" up and do it.

Answer 8

Guys, in general, do not necessarily get to a point where they need space. Guys who are not sure they want to be in a relationship with a person get to a point where they need space. If he hasn't talked to you in three days, then your relationship is potentially in trouble. Bugging him about it might not help, but there it is. At some point you two need to have a long talk. If I were you, I'd call him. If he doesn't want to talk to you, then tough luck. Dump him. His loss. It is a tough choice, though. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you luck!

Answer 9

Men are from Mars Women are from Venus. The two genders communicate differently. And often our instincts are to do just the opposite of what is needed.

Also, like someone else asked I'm wondering what the fight was about. And I mean really about. All too often you can't get that answer to that from only one side of the argument.

Answer 10

why did u fight, it depends on that. I f u did something bad, maybe u r paying it. If he did something bad, well.....hes a fool.
Nevertheless, i think u shouldnt b clingy to him, hes not the only fish in the sea. If u show hm u dont care about him, he'll get back (4 sure). If he doenst get back, u r free, enjoy the life, theres much more to live.