Man or Woman, If you were to cheat on your partner would you tell or keep it a secret?
2007-06-26 04:06:02 · 27 answers · asked by Rain L 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Secret, why would you want to tell and hurt the other person.
2007-06-26 04:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Cheating is way too much admin, rather get a hobby it may not be as exciting and passionate but at least it will keep you from destroying your entire life and living with the guilt.
If you feel the need to cheat then something aint right in your relationship rather work on that. If all that fails the just drink beer! Beer will help.
2007-06-26 11:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Perth Explorer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whether you tell them or not. The truth will be revealed eventually. Nothing is kept a secret forever.
The right thing would be to tell your partner, not only will you be able to cheat openly but you'll avoid all of the messyness later.
2007-06-26 11:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of people who say you must always be honest but in my experience it is better to keep quiet about cheating. Usually you only tell your partner to relieve your guilt which is a selfish reason. Keep quiet and nobody gets hurt. That is what men usually do and we should do the same.
2007-06-26 11:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell but I would probably end it with partner because if I am cheating then I am not happy.
2007-06-26 11:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by loopy loo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on. He talked to me about marriage and everything. He stopped talking to me... and I had to find out he was cheating MYSELF.
If I were him, I would've said something because it's a hell of a lot better TELLING your partner than having them find out themselves. It's a horrible pain to feel finding out your partner was cheating and lying to you without even knowing. Being honest is a good thing... because atleast you can make a decision.
No one deserves to be "just another girl" ... no one deserves to be lead on. They deserve to be treated with dignity and respect... they deserve to be told THE TRUTH.
2007-06-26 11:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him because I would feel horrible. But then again, I never would put myself in a situation/relationship where I have the potential to cheat...
2007-06-26 11:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not, and would not cheat.
Your question is nonsequitur. Cheating assumes the other person does not go along with the act. Most of the time this involves, or must involve them to be unaware. Hence my statement.
If you told your spouse, then they would either agree or disagree. If they agree then you woudl not really be cheating......right? If they disagree, then we are back to square one again.
Circular and ill-posed question and thought on your part.
Amazes me how people think.........or don't think.
2007-06-26 11:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd tell her... been cheated on too many times and the ones that told me hurt the least
2007-06-26 11:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt cheat!! plain and simple. I dont have it in me to cheat. i keep myself out of bad situations! when i am with someone i am completely dedicated to that person.
2007-06-26 11:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by dywillacker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. Do you want to keep the partner?
2007-06-26 11:08:45 · answer #11 · answered by rollieoolie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋