Family & Relationships - 9 June 2007

2007-06-09 04:21:48 · 32 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4 in Singles & Dating

Im just recently single/ divorced. Just a poll to see how many singles (30-35) year olds there are around. Seems like everyone should be attached at that age. If they arent, why?

2007-06-09 04:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This may be kinda long...

A couple of days after school closed,this boy and I were just casual friends,saying hey or something and moving on with our lives.
But then...we started talking on the phone all the time as well as yahoo messenger.And I realized I love talking to him..he has a great personality-funny,sweet,nice,etc.
I just can't stop thinking about him and everytime I think about him,I get all these butterflies in my stomach.
But the problem is..he is not cute at all..to mildly say it.I'm not saying I am drop-dead gorgeous,but I've just never done that before..When my friend first saw him,she judged him just like I did,but she realized what a great person he really is and so did I. I don't think I should give up talking to him because even though he is not physically sexy,his personality makes him sexy to me.
So am I being shallow for being reluctant for going with him (if he asks) because he is not attractive? I really like him..and it shouldnt matter but..help me out!

2007-06-09 04:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i was in health class this past year a guy asked me out and i said no because i didn't know him that well and than a while after that day he was talking to my friends and said they were mean and came and sat by me and said that i was nice so i have two questions the first is that was i right to say no to him and the second is that dose he like me?

2007-06-09 04:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Katie Noble 3 in Singles & Dating

my 14 year old likes a 13 year old boy and i have no clue of what to do and i told her she can hang out with him but in the presents of me. no dating til she is 15 ,16,17 years old.

2007-06-09 04:03:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to know urs opinion. i am 28 years old am an engineer. i met a girl she is a college professor, we used to talk alot. slowly that relation turns to close frindship finally we decided to marry. at this stage we have some uneasyness, the problem is she is 2 inch taller than me. i am 5.5 and she is 5.7.
at the time of frindship i don't care about her height but when we propose each other i slowly started her height and it makes me uncomfortable. always in my mind , wht others will think about this height differnce, but i know she loves me sincerely.

i am in confused please help me .

i don't want to leave her. i want her in my wife , b ut still this height makes me uneasyness.the main thing is she doesn't bother about this height difference. she used to tell me there is nothing in the height for a happy marriage life.

2007-06-09 03:54:20 · 7 answers · asked by jose p 1 in Friends

ok, so I sort of borrowed my sisters clothing (witout asking) and spilled grape juice on her white skirt and i tried to clean it up but it just made it worse. In my house I get spankings if I am bad (I enjoy it ) and my little sister wants to spank me. Should I go along with it or just ignore her and get her a new skirt?

2007-06-09 03:51:08 · 8 answers · asked by spanked_and_diapered 1 in Family

Hi I have a question. I'm from Canada and I'm 22 years old. I have a penpal from Austrailia I met him on christianchat.com. We talk on msn almost everyday and he told me that he wants to meet me next year or the year after when he saves up enough money. We exchanged pictures of ourselves through email. I want to meet him too he is 23 years old. He is thinking about moving down where I live to be with me. He seems like a really nice guy and I really like talking to him. Should I be alittle on gaurd that he wants to visit or live in Canada? It is the internet after all.

Please tell me what you think.

2007-06-09 03:40:48 · 5 answers · asked by becky25ie 1 in Friends

it's my first time ask her and i can't forget my gf she passed away since 3 years and i can't forger her what do you recommend ?

2007-06-09 03:38:15 · 15 answers · asked by Adviser 3 in Singles & Dating

He is telling me that he loves me, but we can't be in a relationship again because of my parents. He tells me that he misses me and wants me still, and that he wants to get back together in the future. What do you think he wants?

2007-06-09 03:26:08 · 9 answers · asked by Sar 3 in Singles & Dating

she's an old friend. she has boyfriend just for the sake of having 1. he's like her 10th boyfriend anyway. she just looks so slimy, like trying to look like she's so in love. Now could you tell me whats the point of it? why she's doing it? and this guy he looks like he would bash her up anyway.

2007-06-09 03:16:11 · 12 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

i split up with my ex 6mnths ago because he wanted to be single, he now keeps contacting me and weve been out a few times but he says he still doesnt want a relationship, it plays with my mind when i see him

2007-06-09 03:12:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1) The states are collecting child support for the women and children, but the men have to pay for legal representation if there's a dispute about vistitation rights.

2) There are no provisions with most states for paternity fraud. Men are being misled into thinking their supporting children who aren't theirs biologically.

3) Any issues regarding custody men have to pay for legal representation whereas women get legal support for free in a lot of instances.

4) Men are going to prison for their irresponsible behavior whereas women have the options of abortion and adoption.

5) Men aren't recognized as fathers by the federal government because they can only file single status even if they are single parents paying child support.

6) The continued inequitable division of property in divorce.

7) Alimony that men are paying is ludicrous.

Men are basically being required to pay for failed relationships whereas women are financially benefitting a lot of times.

2007-06-09 03:01:40 · 20 answers · asked by roughruggedraw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-09 03:00:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the movies you always see the man giving the woman the ring, but what about his ring? Does he buy this too, or is it the woman's purchase?

2007-06-09 03:00:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-09 03:00:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help! I came to USA from Mexico in '99 and marry an American. After 2 years marriagge to him, something happen to me. I got bored. I had run up the bills to 15,000 dollars. He always had to work to pay bills. I started to see someone elsse secretly, and wrecked the car while seeing my new man, and my hussband get very mad at me. My husband were mad for 2 month, but he forgave me. Everything was OK but I get bored again and go back to my lover. I got mad at my husband and lie to police that he beat me and that I want a restraint order to teach him a lesson. I had child with my lover. When the restrain order lift on my husband, he never come for me. Now my lover left with another woman. My husband has new woman. I see him singing to her karyokie in restaraunt. Now he they is asking me for divorce and if he get it, I am maybe deported. My husband do good he have money everything even home but lawyer say I get nothing for adultery. I change. I learn english... How to win him back?

2007-06-09 02:58:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-09 02:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by arun t 1 in Singles & Dating

A while ago her sister, her sister's husband, and her father came round when she was in shower. She came out in dressing gown, and in front of them "adjusted" her gown. You know where you move one part over the other. Anyways, she didn't expose much, but still, it can't be natural to do that in front of people! She said she didn't realise she did it and I don't think anyone saw, but a) how do you know realise you just exposed yourself to people, and b) why didn't she set herself properly in the bathroom, like most normal people would?? I'd be convinced she did it deliberately if it wasnt for the fact her sister and dad were there also.

Anyways, there has been a few other times when she has walked naked in front of windows and when I tell her that people might be able to see she says "Oh I didn't realise" but how do you not realise that you are naked if other people could see you?? She says she's self-conscious about her body, and yet she doesnt notice she's parading it to the world!

2007-06-09 02:58:25 · 27 answers · asked by John Elias 5 in Marriage & Divorce

So I was dating an older guy because I though he would be more mature. Anyhow he ended up being, a lying, cheating, *** just like the guys my age. Now I understand that Im better off without him, but still my pride is a bit hurt. Yesterday he calls me and tells me that him and the girl that he cheated on me with are now a couple and are gonna give it a try. Now me trying to be sensible about the situation, simply responded “well best of luck to you, and I hope it works out” When I said that I heard the other girl in the background yelling its gonna work. Now Im not upset that he called to tell me that, Im upset that she was in the background. What do you think?

2007-06-09 02:58:08 · 19 answers · asked by x8Jaded8x 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is like a little sister to me. she is 13 years old and hasn't started dating yet. she asked me what she should and should not do but I don't know what to say because I'm 17. I don't want to scare her into not liking guys from some of the bad experiences i have had.

2007-06-09 02:56:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting married July 2008. We were looking at reasonable sites for both the ceremony and reception. But everywhere we looked was just blah and expensive. But, we found a boat that we can charter. Being a california girl I love the beach. But my family from cali has seen a million beach weddings. So this is like a beach but in my eyes it is even better because it is not done as often. Is this a good idea or is a boat wedding just too much trouble?

2007-06-09 02:55:04 · 6 answers · asked by *cali's~sweetest~sin* 2 in Weddings

2007-06-09 02:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I woke up this morning, and my husband wanted eggs. There were dishes in the sink from dessert last night, and I flipped and threw all the dishes out in the yard. Is this normal?

2007-06-09 02:49:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you go to a church? am sorry am stupid you don't .... but how? my brother is getting married and yesterday i was thinking and ... i was like .. how do christians get married? yaa in a church .. how do atheists get married? i asked my mama but she said she doesn't know... and if you REALLY don't believe in god then why do you get married?

2007-06-09 02:46:59 · 13 answers · asked by Donets'k 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is in the middle of a divorce and she and her husband are on the title of the car. Her son graduated lastnight so while we were there he messed with the car so it wouldnt start. Later we go to check on it and its gone we check her house and sure enough there it was in the drive with a car parked behind it. If her name is on the title cant she get the car back? He cant just take it can he? Please help me I love my friend very much. Thank You. =)

2007-06-09 02:45:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The couple is issueless and the husband has a fixed income.They live in India.

2007-06-09 02:44:46 · 5 answers · asked by Norman M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Married two years,divorced for three months.Both of us are 43,known each other since we were kids.No chlderen together.Simple divorce without a good reason.I wanted counseling she didn't.I miss our freindship,talking to her on a daily basis.She says its strange and uncomfortable to be friends with someone you were married to.Is she a shallow person ? I can't understand how much she has changed.Is it just easier for her this way,maybe shes hurting in her own way,i don't know she wasn't ever really open with me when it came to her thoughts,very private and secretive.Always giving me just enough info to leave me asking for more.

2007-06-09 02:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & i have had previous trouble, but things have been going ok until recently. He has stopped showing affection any affection towards me. We haven't had sex in 3 wks(normal is 4-5's a wk). He's come home @4am & lied about where was. He was rushed to the hospital 1 night when he was @work because of scrotal pain, when I got to hospital the doctor seemed very uncomfortable with me there. His diagnosis was epidimitis. Then I found that he's been frequenting porn web sites, almost as soon as I leave for work in the morning. Some are normal porn sites, but most are transexual porn, women w/penises. This is 3rd time in 3 yrs I have found this. He wont explain it or even speak w/me about the porn. I dont even know how to handle it myself. What does that mean? I asked him if we are ok, if we are falling apart. He says no. he tells me he loves me, but only gives me pecks for kisses. We still sleep in bed together& the lack of physical intimacy is killing me!

2007-06-09 02:42:26 · 21 answers · asked by kah35 4 in Marriage & Divorce

"And a man's need for sex is what is often misunderstood." writes Sarah Hampson in Sex, or he's your ex."So, they feel that I am perpetuating a stereotype - that all men need constant sex and that women have to accommodate this enormous sexual drive. That was not my intent. I know there are women who live in sexless marriages, too. But I wanted to take the male point of view in order to explain what I think is so often misunderstood. Men express themselves through sex. And while I am not advocating that women fulfill the physical needs of their male partners all the time, whether they feel like it or not, I do think that it is helpful to know what sex means to them.Communication is the only way to build a meaningful relationship, so if I have to start it for them, then fine. " http://www.theglobeandmail.com

2007-06-09 02:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by bruce b 3 in Marriage & Divorce