Family & Relationships - 9 June 2007

My husband and I have been seperated for 20 months and divorced for less then one month. He cheated on me after 15 years of marriage and now is with my friend who is 10 years younger then me, Problem is I still love him. We have 3 children together and he has not once came back to see them. How do we all get over him?

2007-06-09 10:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by abbie1973 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the point, I had one for awhile, but it seems kinda stupid. You gotta enjoy ur youth (I'm 16). What do ya'll think?

2007-06-09 10:11:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 14 and I personally think I'm mature enough, responsible enough, and ready to put the baby in front of our marriage and me (getting married when I turn 18..). I'm almost 15 on June 25, my boyfriend and me are NOT sexually active at the moment but, we are really considering it. Any advice on it would be great. Thanks.

2007-06-09 10:11:15 · 19 answers · asked by cootiesr4guys 2 in Family

One time, i was making out with this kid i really liked for the first time. He went to try to finger me-- but i had my period! i just said i cant and he kept askign why but i just kept saying because. i felt dumb. sooo what should i say if that happens again!?

2007-06-09 10:10:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Friend is the sweetest most godly girl I have ever met, and her parents are reallly too stricts in my opinion. The clothes she wears are ugly and meant for girls half her age! She is thirteen and is only allowed to wear shirts that come up to her neck! Her bathing suit is the style with a skirt and a turtleneck! AAARRRGGGHHH! She is gorgeous and she could be even prettier without being immodest, but her parents just dont see that!! HELP!

2007-06-09 10:07:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know love can come from any where around the corner(In this case,the world) ,but many people marry people near by.But would any of you marry someone from a different country of the world?Personally,I don't believe in segregated marriage,I think love can happen between any 2 people from any where with different backgrounds and religion as long they're from the same planet,but I'm wondering if any of you feel the same way.It also gets everybody closer.So....What's your opinion...Thanks for the answer!

2007-06-09 10:07:28 · 43 answers · asked by jkuraah 1 in Weddings

One minute they want it, and then when they go home they say they can't do that anymore. Then they keep coming back and leaving...and coming back and leaving.

Is this some kind of game they play? Is it to keep us interested and chasing them?

2007-06-09 10:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married when I was 18 and pragnat. We have 2 children aged 17 and 15. And that`s sad but realise we are together cose of them only. We don`t go out together, don`t have same friends, hobbies. He drinks alcohol a lot and I can`t just stand it. Once I called the police when he was so drunk (was drinking for three days, didn`t eat much),he pushed me against wall few times and said he was going to kill me.. He`s jealous and possessive, I can`t even invite my friends home-that always coses problems.Sometimes I think it brings him pleasure shouting me on any occasion, few times a day..He just knows I don`t work now and couldn`t live at the same standart as we live now if I devorce him..Of course I`m looking for job but...not easy. I`m on a course at the moment. And feel stressed all the time.When the time of his coming back from work arrives I only think what is going to happen, shouting and alcohol again?And then he wants me to be hot girl in bed? God, I just can`t!! What shall I do?

2007-06-09 10:02:55 · 24 answers · asked by poin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love to do it on websites that you can rate guys bodies and bits. Do you ever do it? Or dont u find guys bits especially attractive? I love to see a big fat one lol at least 8 inches long and 6.5 inches around, what kind of pictures u like to see girls?

2007-06-09 09:58:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please answer this. I'm planning on leaving my husband & need quick advice. I've been with my husband for 2 1/2 yrs. We have been married 11 mos. We are both miserable. I would love to make my marriage work. He is my world. I react to the way he treats me, which in turn we both end up miserable. I don't trust him with reason. We have sex maybe once a week. He is heavy into porn. He jacks to that the minute I leave the house. Then doesn't want it from me. He always puts me down. I am an attractive woman. Good looking Men ask me out all the time. He always tells me I'm fat and to lose weight. I am by no means fat. I have a big butt & legs, but I am in proportion. I found numbers in his wallet of 3 x women in his past. He said they were only friends & to deal with it. These are women he had sex with. He was dating then before me.To me that's cheating. I love sex and am going nuts. I've tried talking to him. He makes me feel like I'm nothing. He abuses me in everyway

2007-06-09 09:56:30 · 28 answers · asked by Amelia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 25 years old. how young is to your for me to fool around with. i was with a 18 year old and my penis was to big for her does her being younger than me affect those sorts of things.

2007-06-09 09:50:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A coworkers borrowed $200 but hasn't paid how should I ask?
A co-worker/friend borrowed $200 four weeks ago to tide her over until payday. She still has not paid me back but has talked about it. How should I approach this? What is a polite way of reminding her. This is so awkward. I never thought this would come up. Please help.

2007-06-09 09:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Friends

give me all the details
how old were you
where did it happen
and tips for your first kiss
anything else you have to say

2007-06-09 09:44:05 · 11 answers · asked by b_a_blonde34 3 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, I went to this carnival with a group of my friends. I really like one of them, and I think she may like me, except she has a bf and he wasn't there. After a few hours, we started going on the zipper (its an enclosed cage ride that flips you) and starting the third time, she started holding my hand on the ride. We rode it a few more times, sitting closer and holding hands both times. Now I feel guilty, since we rode so many rides and sat so close and her boyfriend is one of my best friends. Am I a jerk?

2007-06-09 09:39:10 · 21 answers · asked by Thomas 2 in Singles & Dating

Can i please have a bit of advice? :S I am a 24 year old man who is a student. I have met a nice girl who lives about 7 miles from me, shes the same age and I find her attractive and like her.

The problem here is that when i met her each time I always make an excuse that i need to be somewhere after so many hours, i seem to want to see her but not for too long as I am a homebird and suppose a bit of a loner at heart. I like to meet her but i like to know how long i am going to meet her for. I am so used to being on my own i just get used to my company.I know i worry a lot about money and wonder if i am doiung the right thing going with her when i am student as money can be tight sometimes. i have never had a gf before! we both like each other. Is this normal to feel like this?

2007-06-09 09:37:57 · 5 answers · asked by Lanny 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is a bit conservative, but always willing to have a sexy evening. I want something really hot though. Any suggestions?

2007-06-09 09:37:38 · 9 answers · asked by grphxdood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-09 09:35:34 · 19 answers · asked by downwrinkle49 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex were together for 5 years before she cheated on me yeah i was ready to ask her to marry me. but he cheated and i was curious about why the hell do i want her back in many ways my confidence was shot to hell becasue she left me for a guy who came to my house to fight me, in other words a loser immature kid who has a kid, and me im just finished college and i was faithful for 5 years. Its been about 3 weeks and part of me still wants her back, and i told er id give her a second chance i know the trem once a cheater always a cheater.
I also she once told me to move on, and ive been to,d that if i do this will really get under her skin, so im just a cnfused mess becasue i dont want her to be happy id suck it 10 years she was married to the guy after all that she has done.Ive been told yeah she will come back they always do when they see what they have lost, and day by day im getting stronger but it just i love her but i really want her to see what she lost.

2007-06-09 09:31:47 · 26 answers · asked by dodgers10 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a question 3 weeks ago(U ve to read it to understand this now) i got great advice here.This is what happened after.2 days later we met for dinner just the 2 of us & things were great.so we ve been kind of seeing eachother.This tuesday was supposed to be our 1st intimate night.While we were midst of our foreplay at his house,there was a knock.He got up & said"don't move keep that position".Then i heard"what are you doing here?why didn't you were coming?" a woman's voice replied"surprise baby" Intermediately I jump off the bed,got my clothes on & sat up.He said to her"you ve to go to a hotel".They started fighting.I was ready to go home i knew this was trouble,so i got out & she looked at me & said"is that why i need a hotel room"& he said"yes".she said"do you know we are getting married". i looked at him & he said it out loud"NO we are not".She was crying & ended up leaving.I left few mins after her.he sent me flowers the next day& said he's not with her.what should i do now?

2007-06-09 09:31:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we all throw in money and pay him to walk up to chicks and say, "Hey". When he says that he pokes them in the stomach like the dough boy....it's hilarious! They can't do much to him cause he's 6'6 and about 240 lbs....he's huge muscular guy

2007-06-09 09:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary apart because he is in Iraq right now. He and I are still going to be getting each other gifts and want to make the day special. I have no idea what I am going to get him. I need something that I can fit in a box to send to him. I send him packages about every other week and every month I send him a page I make for his scrapbook. So something besides a scrapbook and just a care-package. Any ideas would be a huge help. Thanks!

2007-06-09 09:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by Super Wifey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never been to strip club and i am little bit scared to go alone also. If i am going alone there for first time would i feel odd there? what will be the environment there?

2007-06-09 09:26:27 · 24 answers · asked by anilbro 1 in Singles & Dating

Does the chapel submit the license to the county to make it legal or is that the responsibility of the newlyweds?

2007-06-09 09:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by OKI80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom told me that I was not the kind of child she wanted me to be or to have. I am 36 years old and she suddenly said that to me who's been trying my whole life to please the parents and never blame them for not being the parents that I dreamed of. I am very depressed and shocked by her comments. Heartbroken actually. I always encourage her to live a life she likes and don't worry about us.

What should I do now? never contact her again and let anger eat me forever or what?

2007-06-09 09:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family

My Cousine sister loves me so much, But how can i let her understand that is wrong, she needs to understand she is my sister. Plz help me what should i say to her..

2007-06-09 09:21:33 · 17 answers · asked by Aiman 2 in Family

Last night me and my boyfriend slept together and he told me that I was really good... Is this something that guys just say to girls to make them feel good about it?

2007-06-09 09:21:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-09 09:20:10 · 8 answers · asked by Richard C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Put what you love about life the most. Then put what you hate the most.

2007-06-09 09:20:03 · 9 answers · asked by smart blonde is not an oxymoron 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

and know she wants to leave him she live in Beaumont Texas and wants to know if thier is any foundation around here where she can get help

2007-06-09 09:20:02 · 2 answers · asked by Claudia S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is 50 years old and he likes building things

2007-06-09 09:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family