Family & Relationships - 9 June 2007

can anyone tell me why its hard to find right and he could be on the over the other side of the world

2007-06-09 01:18:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and if you're single will you do that with your future partner?

2007-06-09 01:13:15 · 15 answers · asked by njm 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have done some horrible things lately including getting involved in drugs and not coming home for a week. I have lied, stolen, cheated and he is still waiting at home with open arms. That bothers me. Its like he is spineless and crazy. He has a good heart and all, but, he is obsessive. He won't back off me, always wanting me to be where he can see what I am doing.
I understand why but he is making me crazier and crazier.
About him:
He is kindof stupid and he always thinks he knows the answers. You know the kind of guy, most people want to knock out..but he is not doing it intentionally..
I know I have done bad things, but I want to do better. How can I do better if every time my husband opens his mouth I want to beat the f**k out of him.
I love him but I am very frustrated.
Neither one of us has jobs.
How do I make this situation better..
there are children involved.

2007-06-09 00:59:10 · 32 answers · asked by Isabele 3 in Marriage & Divorce

rather than catching up with their girlfriends, why do most of the times they choose hanging out with their buds? but they tell their gf's that he misses her and etc., isn't that just ironic?

2007-06-09 00:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by kaatje 3 in Singles & Dating

Its my 30th birthday in september. Hubby says he is taking me out for a meal. Thing is he isnt very romantic and has no imagination when it comes to this sort of thing.
We have been together a long time. For my 16th we didnt do anything but i made him take me shopping for clothes! For my 18th he took me to someones silver wedding anniversary and my 21st was so uninteresting i cant even remember what we did!
Usually just takes me to the harvester or somewhere equally as uninteresting, which for a normal birthday is fine.
For this birthday I was actually hoping to make it special!! For his 30th I arranged a surprise party and made sure he had a great time..
I have told him that if he plans on taking me out to the same old place i would rather not bother. I feel like he only takes me out because he thinks thats what he should do, not because he wants to. I am worried about turning 30...so would rather stay home and get p'd if i'm not going to be able to celebrate!
Selfish????????

2007-06-09 00:53:26 · 30 answers · asked by JustJem 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok after this one, no more follow ups! LOL
I know it's weird he has a low sex drive. But like I said, he has always been this way. This is not new. I suppose I could withhold sex, but it seems so stupid to play games. I just want to be myself and when I want him, I want him. But I guess I have to hold out for him to come to me. This is so ridiculous. I cannot tell him I know about this secret email account yet, so I can't contact this girl he sent his pics to. I just know that there should be no secrets, and if he was not trying to hide anything, he would have told me, or at least emailed him from his regular email account. I am going to monitor the situation and see what happens when and if this girl responds. I do not know if he chats on-line, as I do not see any evidence of this. I am very resourceful with the computer and I guess he could hide it, but I am going to keep one eye open. I am not going to be made a fool of...

2007-06-09 00:43:22 · 11 answers · asked by festivus64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband usually gets up about 30 minutes before I do every morning and very early, when I get up he is already on the computer. During the week when he works he does the same thing and immediately when he gets home from work around 3 p.m. he is back on the computer. I am retired now on a disability pension and we have discussed several time that I feel left out or like the elephant in the room. He assures me angryly of course that he will change his computer habits but they neve do. Even if I suggest watching a movie together or something like having an evening he still manages to play on his computer at the same time. If I have asked for conversation he says he has nothing to talk about, therefore justifying his computer habits. He'll say, "you talk then if you got something to say."
I believe we have a serious problem and he see's what I see as a problem as me being crazy. Does anyone else experience this as a problem. We only got married 6 months ago and are 60 years old.

2007-06-09 00:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by lynnleger11 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My love life is crazy. I am 24 years old and i have a 6 year old son. Well my son's father has not seen him in 2 1/2 years and he called one day and i let him back in my life and my sons life (which i never held him back from my sons life). I was with him for five years previous and yesterday he got mad and left because i told him i dont think i can love him like i used to and i am scared of love and it is just different now and he just kept bringing up the past 2 1/2 years. He was so close to his son and just never called or anything or didnt even wish him a happy birthday or nothing. My sons birthday was yesterday too and i bet thats why he left because he couldnt buy him anything. Everyone tells me i am an attractive girl, but everytime I find a man, he usually is a meanie. I just want to be happy and my son to have a father figure in his life... But I was just wondering why cant i find a good guy? Is there that many good men out there anymore?? Please help me!!!

Thanks

2007-06-09 00:39:11 · 3 answers · asked by i♥holio 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

The Man is christian he were married to an christian and both got a 2 years old child. Now they are divorced ann he is making hisself muslim to get married to the muslim woman.What is gona happen to the child he had with his ex wife. Witch are the right he gon on the child?? The child have to be Muslim like his father is getting?? Does he have the right to take my child away?? does the child remaning christian as she were because she were it before ?? What are the consequences for the child? The child is a girl.

S.L. Luxembourg

Thanx

2007-06-09 00:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by saraswati106 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-09 00:28:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It never fails...they talk a lot of shite before they actually see what's coming to them, then all of a sudden it's "Take it easy! That's too hard!!"...

2007-06-09 00:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am a very descent and good looking girl 28of age and married.the problem is where ever i go wether with my husband or alone a lot of men would turn and really want to talk to me some they complement me on the way i look .am so scared cos i dont see this happen to all women is there something on me that makes them admire me and even some women always give a glance at me.i always put on something very descent when going out

2007-06-09 00:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by chiko 2 in Singles & Dating

do u prefer thin , normal , fat, average girls?...eheh what about the stomack ?.... what if its not flat?...

2007-06-09 00:11:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im horny as hell by the idea that i can have my partners ex-lover involved in our sex life. iv been with my partner for 18 months and we both want to have another person involved in our bedroom play... am i out of my mind with frustration or just out of my mind? i get guilty at thinking that i want this as much as (if not more than) my partner. our sex life is far from dull but the thrill of another is so intriging that its incomperable.
I am desperate to resolve this as soon as possible... help me with your thoughts on this.. im up for all judgement as i know this might not sit well in some peoples concience...
i am more in love with my partner now than the day we first met so im not trying to find a new partner i just want some fun.

2007-06-09 00:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by helpimafish 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I, we have a about 6 girls at our school who are a bunch of bitches! and there just mean and cruel to everyone, does anyone know a way to get them back with out anyone knowing it was me?

2007-06-09 00:08:14 · 16 answers · asked by brycem732 1 in Friends