My love life is crazy. I am 24 years old and i have a 6 year old son. Well my son's father has not seen him in 2 1/2 years and he called one day and i let him back in my life and my sons life (which i never held him back from my sons life). I was with him for five years previous and yesterday he got mad and left because i told him i dont think i can love him like i used to and i am scared of love and it is just different now and he just kept bringing up the past 2 1/2 years. He was so close to his son and just never called or anything or didnt even wish him a happy birthday or nothing. My sons birthday was yesterday too and i bet thats why he left because he couldnt buy him anything. Everyone tells me i am an attractive girl, but everytime I find a man, he usually is a meanie. I just want to be happy and my son to have a father figure in his life... But I was just wondering why cant i find a good guy? Is there that many good men out there anymore?? Please help me!!!
Thanks
2007-06-09 00:39:11 · 3 answers · asked by i♥holio 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My first thought is really a suggestion.....Are you maybe looking in the wrong places, for a good guy? It's obvious that your ex is not the answer, so start looking in a different place for a good guy....maybe at work, the park, library,etc. Good Luck! I know how hard it is to find good people.
2007-06-09 00:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always looking outside themselves for happiness--it comes from inside you-if you think a man will make you sooooo happy you are wrong.
Start learning to love yourself get some great self esteem and then better men will be attracted to you.
2007-06-09 08:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by dove2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOur question begs another question: Are there any good women out there? YOu have to be what you want to get, and I suspect you are doing the same things and expecting a different result.
2007-06-09 07:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋