rather than catching up with their girlfriends, why do most of the times they choose hanging out with their buds? but they tell their gf's that he misses her and etc., isn't that just ironic?
2007-06-09 00:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by kaatje 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess they have more fun with they budds. being with they girl their limited of doing things ask them about it they dont see it happening, but what i do i switch it up and do them the same way. then he realizes wats up then wanna spend time with you and be around you all the time you cant just let the dudes do what they want no way no how cus im da boss
2007-06-09 05:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Rio G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not agree more. I just say this , if you will not spend time with me and and want to hang with your buddys , get your pjs because you will have to get it from them from now on . Since ya'll are so tight and all . On the serious side , I will not put up with a man who dose this . If he really misses you and really cares for you , you will come first ,not his friends ,because after all in serious relationship and Marriage you should be best friends ,,but you must respect this too and not put your Girlfriends before him as well. Two way street.
2007-06-09 01:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda_that_who_ib 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that in a lot of ways, gfs put undue pressure on guys that they can't even see. Also, a lot of times, guys are under the "macho" pressure that says if they spent too much time with their girlfriend, they are "soft". It is emasculating in a way. Also, most guys can't seem to get it out of their head that girls like to be ignored, and that to spend much time with a girl will turn into unattractive clinginess, which can be true. They most likely do miss you, its just that they are torn between spending time with you (unestablished relationship) and with the guys (established relationships). In time, usually guys can learn to manage this balance with trust and maybe a little helpful pushing from you.
2007-06-09 01:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are more fun, and less demanding. They dont complain as much, and fill your head with minor, uninteresting details. All of this is generally speaking, of course, cause there are a few (and I mean just a few) exceptions.
Women are generally more honest than men. That's a great thing about female friendships.
2007-06-09 01:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Goodness !!! Tell me it isn't so !! You need some attention from a real man who appreciates you. Now, about that sunset walk on the beach......
2007-06-09 01:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are like that~ only the immature ones are like that
it means not ready for a real relationship yet
2007-06-09 01:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by EasilyAmused 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are unmatured dudes who like to have fun with guys and also keep their g/fs happy.Its the way they are,you cant change them.
2007-06-09 00:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I DONT MY GF WOULD BE NO 1 IN MY LIFE. I WANT TO BE WITH HER NOT MY BUDS.
2007-06-09 01:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's known his friends longer than he's known his girlfriend. And his friends will be there after she is gone.
2007-06-09 00:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree..my fiance does it sometimes and it drives me cRAzY!! but what can you do?! alll guys are this way--sometimes men are such id!ots!--but thats why we love them!! completely ironic and lacking sense--especially common!!
2007-06-09 00:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by leanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋