Would you marry someone from a different country?

Question

I know love can come from any where around the corner(In this case,the world) ,but many people marry people near by.But would any of you marry someone from a different country of the world?Personally,I don't believe in segregated marriage,I think love can happen between any 2 people from any where with different backgrounds and religion as long they're from the same planet,but I'm wondering if any of you feel the same way.It also gets everybody closer.So....What's your opinion...Thanks for the answer!

Answer 1

yes I would

Answer 2

There is no direct yes or no to this question for it depends on the two married couples. You can find people who would never go for a marriage outside of their society as well as people who would never see any difference. The factor that drives these two set of people is how sensitive they are to cluture, faith or any other variant. Some people are not so sensitive and have the you-and-me relationship while other people have the you-and-us (Society centered). Most of the time, people from the former category who marry from outside enjoy the best of the two worlds (Taking the good sides of both cultures).. Such relationship grows very strong. Think about someone who crossed all his social barriers just to be with you. But for the latter category, such marriage will inevitably fail. If the spouse treats the other unrespectedly one night, the victim blames the outside culture or faith. In that case, he/she does not think any thing can be done because it's outside the two couples.

The best way is to identify which category to which you both belong. Is ANY of you very sentisitive to his/her cultural differences? I would rather always think about the worst case senario when I am making a marriage decision. It is a decision that you will always be proud of or regretful for the rest of your life. Take it seriously and if you believe you can make a good life with that person the way he/she is, then take the social or religous differences out of the equation.

Answer 3

Does Canada count? 'Course she was raised in the US....

I have lived over seas and know many couples where the partners are from different countries. I very nearly married a French girl. It didn' work out because I needed to mature a bit.

I think that any two people can make a marriage work if they love each other and are willing to sacrifice. This hold true no matter whether you marry the person down the street or somebody from another continent.

It is probably harder, though, to make a marriage work when the cultural backgrounds are very different. Every couple has differences in background, but when the partners are from different countries, their cultural backgrounds and differences in way of life can create issues that require more understanding and patience to work through.

Even after adapting to a new culture(s) the fact that one's family is out of the country can be hard because they don't have the opportunity to see them very often.

Answer 4

I believe that having the same faith though is the most imprortant thing. I would never marry anyone outside of my faith.

As far as where one is from, I can care less. However, there have been some instances where a woman marries a man from certain countries, lies to them and says I'd like for us to visit my family, and then by the country's law, she is stuck and nothing can be done to save her.

Now you have to wonder, is the person from that country and now is a resident of the country you are from or are they here on vacation? illegallyl? The ones here illegally can cause a lot of problems, especially if children are involved.

True love is in the heart. It's not about skin color, backgrounds, etc.

Answer 5

i could marry somebody from a distinctive united states and non secular history. i'm from the U.S. and replaced into raised without faith (on no account baptized). My boyfriend is Peruvian and replaced into raised Catholic. there is actual yet another distinction: language. i think of that the transformations between human beings could be effective interior the long-term. because of the fact of them, I stay in Peru and am able to journey a clean, surprising custom on a daily basis. I actual have additionally grow to be fluent in Spanish, that's a diverse plus as i will truthfully locate a job translating or coaching. you're making issues artwork by means of having various love and staying power for the different person. There are a extremely some problems whilst starting to be a member of two human beings from very distinctive backgrounds and social-structures, so verbal substitute and a willingness to unravel problems at the same time is needed. happy endings do exist - it`s all a count of ways plenty attempt you place into making your existence effective.

Answer 6

My dad was a G.I. stationed in Germany when he met my mom. The key is, they got to know each other. They dated for almost a year, something like that, before they got engaged. They got married some months later. Yes, she got pregnant, but he was man enough to marry her before my brother was born. I always tell people to date a year or so first, no matter where they are, but live in the same area for that year and not shack up and no sex until your wedding night. My parents struggled thru so much being they weren't married and pregnant. You don't get to enjoy honeymoon time when you get pregant before you get married.
She became a citizen sometime in the 1970's, as soon as she could. They got married in 1967 in Germany.

Answer 7

Sure, why not. Skin color is pretty shallow, and beauty is only skin deep.......
Its what is in the heart that counts. You have to live with whats in their heart, not the outside.
Sure attractiveness is nice, but ugly goes clear to the bone.
Learn to listen to what people say and you'll get to know them a lot better than what you SEE. You should observe body language when possible. It does have clues as well.
Show me in the Bible where it talks of race......that's a man thing. We are all God's children of creation.
I try very hard not to see a persons "color" etc., but if they act out the stereotypes the world has labeled their "color" or "race" with, then it becomes a lot harder to separate the old adages. People just need to be themselves.....really.
I don't care if you like me or not, I'm just being myself. That's what most people seem to like about me, no phony baloney stuff, just plain ol' me....

Answer 8

I think love is love...if you love somebody it shouldn't matter where they are from, what religion they are...sometimes being from different backgrounds and different countries can make a great marriage, a great relationship because you can learn so many different things about the world...and you can't help who you fall in love with....I think its sad when you see families that dont accept others because of certain aspects like that....I would definately marry someone from another country if I had fallen in love with them...I think it would be fascinating to learn about another place and to learn it from someone you love and care about so much.

Answer 9

I did marry my wife she is from Philippines. I am amercing. you can find love . And the marriage has many parts to it. And as long as that person is your friend also and you to get along and love each other and you are attracted then you can find love in the way you say. Many times that is a good thing. It leaves you 2 areas to grow together. you have to grow in your relationship for the marriage to last. Good luck on the ques ton.

Answer 10

I'm already married, but I would marry my husband if he was Pink with Orange stripes ! I really don't think it matters if you Truly Love someone what color , country or religion they are.
Myself, I been to Germany and Ireland, I could see me marrying someone from there and living there, I loved both places ! Europe is Wonderful !!!!
Also, my grandchildren are half Korean, people will come up to us, and ask us if we adopted them? They are 10 & almost 7, people just don't think.... We are both Irish, so right from the start we have told the kids they are Irish too, so our little grandaghter says she's Irish. And she looks Korean thru and Thru, well that gets PEOPLE to Stop and THINK. AND i lOVE iT. TRUE LOVE CONQUERS ALL!!!!!!

Answer 11

i'm married to someone now! i feel in love with him, not where he's from. it can be difficult at times, but any marriage has difficulties too. he and i are both willing to work at the differences and that's what makes it better. cultures can be different, but when your willing to talk and work things out, it can and does work! we are very much in love and he's very good to me, as i'm am to him also! this is what works too...not, where we're from!
so, no i don't feel the same as you. but, that's ok too...if we were all to think the same way, then what a boring world that would be! it's when people try to shove their opions down someone that it's wrong...not that i think you're doing that either!!!!