2007-06-09 03:00:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can do whatever you want when you want. you dont have to do something just to make someone happy. you dont constantly have to have someone around. you can spend all your time on hobbies n going out with friends without having to explain a thing to anyone.
you'll get used to single life but if you really dont like it just go out n find someone interesting.
just having good friends takes care of your loneliness too.
Be happy with yourself. You dont need someone else to make your life worthwhile but you do need to live your life without wasting it by thinking of what you havnt got. xx
2007-06-09 03:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by moi84 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well nothing is perfect. You do have independence, freedom to do what you want when you want and more financial stability. Sometimes one can feel lonely when not single as well. In other words, some people are lonely in a crowd and some like to be alone to pursue interests. I hope you can find something so you won t feel lonely
2007-06-09 10:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's quite a loaded question.
A lot of folks are perfectly happy being single, and enjoy having "me time."
Some folks can't ever be single because they're co-dependent, and that's not a healthy mental condition.
For a little insight, why don't you check out these two great songs, written from a perspective of someone speaking to a person who might have asked a similar question:
"Alone" by Suicidal Tendencies (don't take the name of the band to be like the content of their tunes)
"Lonely Christmas" by Sloppy Seconds
2007-06-09 10:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by probrucer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're single you have freedom, and you don't need to always check back with someone before you do anything. You can flirt outrageously, and go on trips all alone, or with friends, without your 'significant other' in tow. But, yeah, if you measure your self worth by how many people you have pursuing you, then being single sucks.
2007-06-09 10:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think loneliness will fall under the basic feeling of sadness. I need to first see what is making me sad. Then i count my blessings. I try not to hold on to my sadness too long and deal with it is quickly as possible. This i do by sharing my sadness with friends or people i trust.
2007-06-09 10:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Andretti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not using your time wisely! Get up off your azz and party it's penty of people to meet.You just making life boring! Go out tonight and celebrate being single you might have a good time!
2007-06-09 10:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel lonely all the time then maybe you shouldn't be single...
2007-06-09 10:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Athena 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your lonely go & find some one to share your life & Good Luck.
2007-06-09 10:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obviously not dating or having one nighters or not even trying to date, that's why your single life sucks.
2007-06-09 10:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single is great to find who you are.
Once you learn how to be happy alone - emotionally and mentally, then you can let someone else in
if you are happy within yourself alone, then there is no reason to stay single if you dont want to. its natural to feel loney
2007-06-09 10:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by KS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋