my friend is like a little sister to me. she is 13 years old and hasn't started dating yet. she asked me what she should and should not do but I don't know what to say because I'm 17. I don't want to scare her into not liking guys from some of the bad experiences i have had.
2007-06-09 02:56:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that most guys in their teenage years don't really know what they want. Girls mature much faster. She needs to learn the word "no" and mean it. Once she gives "it" up, she's branded, especially being so young. After she finds the "right" guy, tell her to date him at least two years. He'll either wait with her or move on. Let him. Dating can be fun!
2007-06-09 03:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by floridagirl1261 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your are older she looks up to you and what you say and do yourself will be a big influence on her. Help her to see that she is smart and strong. Build up her self esteem, confidence will save her from the pressure to be some body she is not. Tell her about some of your regrets ex: that guy you hooked up with that you'll forever deny or cheesy lines that you fell for. Let her know that being 13 sucks its not easy and every body is not doing it. Help her find her comfort zone and stress that she shouldnt comprimise herself for anybody.
2007-06-09 10:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by m pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know where you coming from its hard and lot of people can be jerks i just tell her life with dating is like a box of candy you never know what your going to get no!!!!!!! just a opening joke tell her that if a man realy loves you he wait and that if a man ever heats u no metter what he says he not worth staying with know its a little hardcore but better to know then to get hurt
2007-06-17 00:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by butface2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better not to giv any advice to date at the moment.. bcoz her age is not suitable to date.. let her come to an age abt 18 or 19.. there she will know abt every guys .. bcoz cannot find out the mentality of any guy by looking at their face..
2007-06-17 03:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't nag the gentleman and don't be clingy.
Also i don't know what the hell some of you people are talking about because i didn't see a word about sex in the question...
2007-06-16 20:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Birdman72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to wait until 16.
2007-06-09 10:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go out with someone when she feels ready
tell her to make sure the boy loves her
tell her not to trust the boys words because the boy might be playing
tell her not to sleep with anyone until she feels ready and if she does tell her to have protected ***
i hope i helped!!!!
2007-06-17 08:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go talk to her mommy so she can get correct information.
2007-06-09 09:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋