she's an old friend. she has boyfriend just for the sake of having 1. he's like her 10th boyfriend anyway. she just looks so slimy, like trying to look like she's so in love. Now could you tell me whats the point of it? why she's doing it? and this guy he looks like he would bash her up anyway.
2007-06-09 03:16:11 · 12 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to "chell bell": she's an old friend. i hadn't met her for years until yesterday. read before you say. she was a good friend, but we lost contact. I only "bumped" into her and we talked for less than 5', with her boyfriend there. Now how the hell could i help her? i couldn't even get her number! :-S and her boyfriend was there, what could i say? can you suggest me??
How can i review her insecured side to the world ? THe world probably HAVE seen it anyway! plus I didn't mention her name. even if i did, how many ppl have the same name? :-S
Be real.
2007-06-09 03:54:04 · update #1
How old is this girl? There are a lot of people (female and male) that feel they just HAVE to be in a relationship. It's as if it defines them as a person, that just being whoever they are isn't enough. Yeah, I'd say she's 'insecured'. Low self esteem, etc. It all factors into people like that who just HAVE to be in a relationship. Myself, I'd rather be alone that just be in a relationship for the hell of it.
2007-06-09 03:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by smallweed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely insecure. She finds reassurance in the fact that men are attracted, no matter that type of a guy it is. At the end of the day even though she might not say so she stills feels alone, as a friend you need to let her know that you love her for who she is. That’s all she needs is reassurance from people who actually care for her, eventually she’ll discover what a great person she is and be happy being single.
2007-06-09 10:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by x8Jaded8x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Projecting a false image is definitely a sign of immaturity and insecurity.
2007-06-09 10:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm with friends like you, who needs enemies?
Is she a friend or not? You should be helping her be the best her she can be. Arent you bashing her for all the world to see?
Shame on you.
2007-06-09 10:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She obviously has low self esteem.And she probably doesn't understand the value of a relationship,romantic or otherwise.
2007-06-09 10:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she probably is.if she really like the guy then maybe she does love him & but if she doesnt maybe she just wants a BF to fit in.
2007-06-09 10:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by <3 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is probably insecure, as you suggest. Good luck!
2007-06-09 10:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by krafty1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes,she sure sounds insecure to me, but its her life that shes screwing with, not yours, so dont worry about it too much!
she will eventually learn her lesson herself!
2007-06-09 10:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweetheart--xo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah definetly insecure
2007-06-09 10:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by loveyou 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-06-09 10:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by nightryder28 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋