Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

What do I do physically to get my boyfriend to want to go to the next level...?

2007-05-31 12:37:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 12:37:23 · 17 answers · asked by giggly33 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm naturally very pale. However, im not completely white, my skin is a pinkish whiteish pale. I have freckles.
My eyes are blue.
And my natural hair color is brown.
my hair is dyed black and red/brown.
I went to visit family and my cousin said pale people are ugly and gossiped about it with her friends, and then I said "Am I ugly?" and she said " No, you just need to tan!"
And now I've begun to think.....maybe she is right.....because where I live no one is pale.

2007-05-31 12:37:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi im heading off on a trip to australia next year stopping off in Singapore along the way for 2 weeks, I am travelling with 2 of my friends they are a couple(boy and girl), once we get to Australia we have a few friends over there so thats ok, my question is do
you think its a good idea to travel with a couple or should I go alone and meet them over in Oz, they are pretty cool and I dont really dig doin the stopover thing alone. im a male from NY

2007-05-31 12:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he works across the street from me , and i've had lunch with him twice. the second time he called me and asked if i would like to have lunch with him.i did. i'm very attracted to him , and we talk about once a week.he's smart , has beautiful eyes , and i enjoy being with him.we've never gone any place together other then having lunch in the work place.is that wrong? i would consider us friends that like each others company.

no hostile answers please, just honest opinions.

2007-05-31 12:35:35 · 15 answers · asked by pitbullmom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my friends keeps telling every1 who i like & every time im talking to him she comes over and makes a dumb comment. ive told her to shut up about it but she always says that im over reacting. what should i do?

2007-05-31 12:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

i need to know becuase i want to start dating need a good responds.

2007-05-31 12:34:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 12:33:41 · 15 answers · asked by topigirl010 1 in Singles & Dating

How should i start the conversation with the girl i like when im going to ask her out, give me alot of good answers please

2007-05-31 12:31:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you test a guys love for you? i wana test how much my boyfriend loves me, he doesnt show how much he loves me anymore now that weve moved in together. i miss how it felt when we first started i want to fall in love all over again.

2007-05-31 12:31:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the story. She has boyfriend but her parents found out and BEAT her really badly. When I tried to say it was OK and things will get better she would say "no it wont, I don't want to live in my house no more. I just want to die." I'm really worried because the day after her parents found out she came to school with a big bruise under her eye; then she told me that her parents beat her and her dad kicked her in the eye. I don't know what to do! If i tell our counselor they will tell social services then take her and her 4 year old brother away. Or, if i don't tell she will be continually beat by her parents. I'm really scared because the weekend is coming up and I don't know what will happen to her. (please give me advice)

2007-05-31 12:30:27 · 36 answers · asked by Dj Danger 2 in Friends

I am two weeks out of a horribly dysfunctional realtionship. It was absolute hell. I was madly in love with the woman, and she treated me like dirt. I never came first, it was always her family. And she is nearly 30 years old and still lives at home. She lived with me for a year, then had to move home due to controlling parents, who are religious fanatics..because they kept interfereing in our business and ultimately destroyed the relationship.
After this, she and I got back togther and then she would just text me and split, and the cycle continued for the last 8 months. Coming back, and splitting. It was horrible on me. I lost 15 pounds, and I am w seeing a shrink. I feel like I really believed this woman would change, and I feel like such a failure. Why would I allow myself to be treated so poorly and keep taking it? What is wrong with me?

2007-05-31 12:28:34 · 3 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-31 12:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well...my fiance loves video games, as do I. But he's always not wanting to go places or leaving places early because he wants to come home and play his video games. I feel like I'm taking second place to these damn games. And it doesn't help that my roommate keeps having video gameing friends come over and that's all they do! From 6pm until 11pm or later they play video games. What am I supposed to do? He doesn't seem to realize that he's hurting me either...how do I let him know? I'm so confused right now...

2007-05-31 12:28:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I kinda have these two guys that I like and they both like me and I wanna know how too choose wich one.... but guy A likes me a little bit more than Guy B.... But I like them both the same and plus.... Guy A went out with my best friend.... HELP!!!!

2007-05-31 12:26:32 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

well been married 6years now wife works away,am at home work partime and look after son of 4years,i get so bloody horny and lonley at times,wot do i do then help

2007-05-31 12:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to get married in Vegas but don't want to hurt my families feelings, they will be there but I dont want them to think that our marriage is a joke. (we have been dating 2 years) and are pretty much already married. Thank you in advance

2007-05-31 12:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by smartguy7907 2 in Weddings

My dad had surgery earlier this week and he will not be able to work for about 3 months. Is there any kind of program that my parents can do to help get their bills paid and get their groceries and stuff like that.

2007-05-31 12:25:02 · 5 answers · asked by Eric 2 in Family

Within the first month we had moved so far so fast; the relationship feels very comfortable and it just feels so evolved. We talk on the phone lots, and conversation is of that of many couples I would assume. But lately shes been telling me that she cant live off hope and that it hurts her when I say that I want to hold her or hug her, etc. This hurts her because I cant drive so the time we physically see each other is limited. She knows I mean what I say but it hurts her for me to say it and not be able to do it.

She considered taking some time apart for this. No phone calls what so ever, but if any contact writing letters to each other. (to kinda spread out what we have to say over time) I believe that essentially she dosent want what we say to lose meaning. I understand where shes coming from but I wonder if its being pessimistic to the future. I'll be able to drive within a month to a month and a half and Im wondering if we should have stuck through or stick with the plan we made

2007-05-31 12:24:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What exactly is this supossed to mean? Person with the most clever answer get's 10 points!!

2007-05-31 12:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night my husband came home and completly tore into me. I was told that the the house was to messy or in his exact words "You must like to live like a pig" They house wasnt perfect but it wasnt trashed. There was a few dishes in the sink from dinner, a load of laundry in the bathroom I hadnt gotton to and a few toys on the playroom floor. Thats it!!!! I was then told that I had let myself go and gotton fat since I've had our 2 kids. I stand 5 ft tall and where a size 2 for christ sake!!!!! No my tummy isnt as flat as it use to be but after a c-section with my last one it never will be short of having a tummy tuck. I mean I'm not one of those stay at home moms that run around in sweat pants day in and day out. I do my hair and make up , etc...... 90% of that time as long as my kids arent sick or we arent having a super crazy day. I dont get what his problem is???? I've refused to speak to him since this last night.

2007-05-31 12:23:13 · 34 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had a friend with benefits for about 4 months already. Ive had two prior friends with benefits before & this one is nothing like the others. The others where the basic "wham bam thank you ma'am" & I was happy with that. But now this guy likes to TALK! I mean we'll talk for hours ( I dont mind, I like talking to him a lot) But he's drama too. He tried to break up our little "friends" relationship b/c I told him my friend thought he was ugly & I accidently let it slip that I had been w/ cuter guys & sinces hes an aspiring actor he took it really bad & was mad & his ego got bruised. lol. So I accepted it & was fine with it. Later he decided he still wanted our "relationship" . Is this too much drama or what? Would it be healthier for me to stay away...I like him but....Any comments/suggestions? Im open to anything. I mean if he wanted to call it quits over something really petty, what does that mean? Confused!

2007-05-31 12:19:48 · 34 answers · asked by 456lily456 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 12:18:40 · 8 answers · asked by Elisia N 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 12:18:07 · 20 answers · asked by cassi blueni 1 in Family

2007-05-31 12:15:33 · 10 answers · asked by ladyp128 2 in Family

My mother has severe depression issues. She is also married to someone 20 years older than her. They have been married 20 years. He can be very verbally abusive. She lives in Houston and I live here with my 3 children. I am a newly single mom and I also run a daycare out of my home for 3 babies 5 days a week. I want to help her in any way, but I am worried about not getting along after a few months if she lives with me. She will have to live with me because her financial situation is not good. My sibling is newly married and does not want to help right now which I can understand. My mother put me in a parental role at a very young age and I have always been expected to take care of her. She is very codependent. Am I making a mistake for me and my kids by letting her move in?

2007-05-31 12:13:34 · 8 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Family

My boyfriend of 7 months and I just broke up a little while ago. Does anyone know ways to start getting over a broken relationship? He was the first guy I loved.. and my first everything, actually.. any advice?

2007-05-31 12:13:19 · 10 answers · asked by Jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had uncountable recurrent dream about my ex-girlfriend that i had dater for over 10 years. It usually goes like this... I meet her somewhere to see my son and she is there always trying to make me jealous. when I dont react with jealousy then she tries to get back together with me I refuse.. Then my son and her both vanish and I cannot figure out where or why they disappeared.. It's really wierd. She comes to flirt with me... Then tries to make me jealous..then disappears with the kid into thin air.. we have been broken up for 3 years...

2007-05-31 12:12:40 · 5 answers · asked by Robby R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have bin havin sex for about a year anyway i was with a friend and he was watchin a porn movie anyway a girl had an orgams and she had cumed it came out like a runny tap!
now im confused as that has never happened to me.. does that mean i have never cummed?? yer sex feels good. i no this myt be gross but yer i am wet wen we have finshed im soo confused helpp

2007-05-31 12:12:31 · 1 answers · asked by stacie p 1 in Singles & Dating

It will be his third marriage and my second. His children are all grown and scattered around the country. I have two grown children and three teenagers (2 boys and 1 girl and the girl has already said she wants to be in the wedding)

2007-05-31 12:11:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings