I am going to get married in Vegas but don't want to hurt my families feelings, they will be there but I dont want them to think that our marriage is a joke. (we have been dating 2 years) and are pretty much already married. Thank you in advance
2007-05-31 12:25:36 · 17 answers · asked by smartguy7907 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think it is only as much of a JOKE as you make it. I mean, if you get married by Elvis in some cheesy chapel then yeah....your family might think it's a bit of a joke. There are ways you can still make it sacred, wonderful, and representative of you & your fiance. to me, a wedding in vegas is no less special than a wedding in a big church. It's about what YOU make it and how special you make it.
2007-05-31 12:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only a joke if you make it a joke, a wedding is a special day for two people who love each other to promise to share their lives forever.
The fact that your family will be there already shows that it's not a joke.
The place means nothing, it's what's in your hearts that make it or break it.
Yes Vegas does have the trashy reputation for some of the drive through chapels but it also has some very respectable places you can be married in.
Just make sure your getting married because you both want to and not because it's what your family wants. Marriage is an important step that should not be entered into lightly.
I lived with my first hubby before I married him and figured why not get married, its the same thing, but I found out afterwards its not.
Basically while your just living together, when you have a fight, in your mind you think, I can always leave we arn't married. But once you make that committment and sign your name on the licence it's different, the next time you have an argument you are thinking, OMG, I have to make this work and it takes it to a whole new level.
So make sure it's what you both want, I never lived with my current husband before I married him and we have now been together over 25 yrs. because I new when I did it this time It was forever and I meant it that way.
I hope it all works out for you both and congrats.
2007-05-31 12:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know Vegas conjures up images of Elvis walking Britney Spears down the aisle, or drunkards tying the knot at the drive thru, but I've been to some truly beautiful weddings in Las Vegas. My favorite place has to be the Flamingo's garden chapel. It's so lush and green, the pictures always turn out stunning. Caesar's Palace is another beautiful wedding site.... and their nicer packages are no joke.
Do what makes you happiest. Families may have some reservations at first... but in the end everyone's just thrilled to celebrate your day.
2007-05-31 12:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter where you get married. As long as you guys are together and happy and having a great time with great family and friends. People who will be there are ther eto support you and want to be there for your special day. That is the most important thing. I wanted to get married in Vegas but we just couldn't plan to have a vegas wedding from a far distance.
2007-05-31 15:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a classy, traditional and serious wedding in Las Vegas. It's just another destination wedding. However, it's all in how you do it. If can have a tradional ceremony with a clergly man or JP at a respectable location followed by a reception at a hotel, nice restuarant, etc. That's fine.
Now, if you run away with out your families. Go to one of those roadside, 5 min quicky chapels, than of course no one is going to take you seriously. Take your time and plan a classy affair.
Vegas sounds like a great backdrop of a nice wedding/honeymoon.
2007-05-31 12:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still have a beautiful wedding in Vegas....I dont think it will hurt anyones feelings...its your big day, and if you want to get married in vegas, it shouldn't make your day any less special. Explain to your family that you would love to get married there, and you want them to understand that you don't want them to think of it as a joke. I am sure your family will support you in your decision....and theres plenty of people who actually live in vegas that get married in vegas because that is there hometown and it doesnt make their wedding a joke...so why would it make yours one!? It will be fine....just enjoy and have fun on your day!
2007-05-31 13:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently got married in Vegas....a destination wedding. We did not get married at a Vegas Chapel, but at a hotel off the strip. I have to admit that it turned out really nice....I was a bit hesitant at first too.
2007-05-31 12:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. If this is what you guys want to do, you go ahead and enjoy. Dont worry about what others think, as long as the two of you are happy about it.
A marriage isnt all about the fancy dress and swish party.....really, what is all that if you dont have the right outlook on life. The wedding day is just the beginning....you have the rest of your lives together, that is what is important.
Good luck and you have a wonderful time.
2007-05-31 19:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with ZiggyMa (mainly because I'm getting married in September at the Flamingo in the Garden Chapel!) Vegas can be as elegant or as tacky as you want. We chose Vegas because I didn't want the pressure of my family "expecting/wanting" me to get married in a certain way. This will be our special day (and yours too!), so do what makes you happy. This solution is perfect for us and will be for you too.
Congrats!
2007-05-31 13:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by bg918 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great but think classy not trashy. Make sure that elegance is a big part. Vegas doesn't have to be a joke. I've seen some lovely weddings in Vegas.
2007-05-31 12:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Christina D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋