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So I know my friend really loves her soon to be husband, but she also loves the idea of getting married. Should I say something or hold my tounge?

2007-05-31 21:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by 123-123-123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

unprotected sex but not about the dangers of being overweight?

Just wondering.

2007-05-31 21:43:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-31 21:43:17 · 19 answers · asked by greatgal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now off and on but we got back together about 5 months ago and he seems a diiferent person. Hes 22 and im his 1st g/f and he didnt know how to treat me at the start. He just used to go out and do his own thing but now he involves me more. I know this is a good thing but when we split up he met a girl. He said nothing happened & I believed but now this girl has split up with her b/f im afraid he will run back to her because she is sucha flirt and every1 fancies her. Ive talked 2 him about this and he said he is happy being with me and weve booked a hoilday he cant wait til we get away together. Ive been hurt in the past by a few men and im scared he will do the same. The one thing that makes me think like this is because when he goes out with his mates they always end up at a house party & im scared incase shes there and one thing leads 2 another.

Am I just being paranoid?

2007-05-31 21:35:33 · 16 answers · asked by Jules 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well, theres this girl, funny how lots of my questions start out like that, ne ways theres this girl...ive known her since i was like 3 months old. her and i were best friends, then i moved. i didnt move to a different town just the compleat opposite side of town. well her and i lost contact after awhile and i thought that was it...i never forgot about her though...then 8 yrs later this wounderful thing known as myspace got her and i reconnected...well now her and i r friends again but its not the same...i know it wouldnt be like it used ot cuz we were only 8 or 9 last time we were friends...but still its not like i figured it would be. we have been talking for over a yr now and she says im still her best guy friend..but her and i have only hung out like 3 or 4 times in a course of an entire year....i dont know if its that im not the same or if its shes not the same...i wish we could be more of friends...she means the world to me but i fell like i dont really mean much to her...

2007-05-31 21:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

here's a senerio. me & my husband have been together for 2 years. but we've only been married for 8 months.mine and his past hasn't been the greatest.however, since i've been with him i've completely changed my life around.and no matter if someone calls or i run into someone. he always makes a smart comment.like if i'm cheating on him.he's the only one the has ever made me feel like i'm doing something wrong.when in fact i'm not.i'm constantly letting him know that i wouldn't do anything to ruin our marrige.but, i know it doesn't register through him.i am now asking him almost every conversation that we have.if you couldn't trust me why then did we get married?the only answer he gives me is because i love you.well i feel that if you really love someone and your married you should be able tpo trust that person.right? well some answer this cuz i'm getting to the point of isolation.

2007-05-31 21:28:13 · 8 answers · asked by # 1 wifey!!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

here's a senerio. me & my husband have been together for 2 years. but we've only been married for 8 months.mine and his past hasn't been the greatest.however, since i've been with him i've completely changed my life around.and no matter if someone calls or i run into someone. he always makes a smart comment.like if i'm cheating on him.he's the only one the has ever made me feel like i'm doing something wrong.when in fact i'm not.i'm constantly letting him know that i wouldn't do anything to ruin our marrige.but, i know it doesn't register through him.i am now asking him almost every conversation that we have.if you couldn't trust me why then did we get married?the only answer he gives me is because i love you.well i feel that if you really love someone and your married you should be able tpo trust that person.right? well some answer this cuz i'm getting to the point of isolation.

2007-05-31 21:25:58 · 12 answers · asked by # 1 wifey!!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In theory, it seems that everyone respects monogamy.
But in practice, sounds like most guys are having casual sex.
How many wait till marriage?

2007-05-31 21:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so pissed off today its unreal - Right my boyfriend is going out on a stag do tonight // which is perfectly fine with me - I'm staying in as someones coming round to fix the tv and do the wiring etc - right so getting to the point // I was talking to my neighbour and she said " look i'm not trying to cause any problems but TJ (my boyfriend) has asked me to keep an eye on u tonight case u bring anyone over the house tonight or u do anything with the guy who comes to fix the tv" - I was gobsmacked! - I havent said anything to him yet about this i don't no what to do - it's the fact he doesn't trust me whats made me upset ! He's made me feel like **** // my naighbour proberly thinks im some sort of sl*t if my boyfriend feels he cant trust me! Should i tell him after this stag do that i know or should i tell him now? ah what should i do :( ??

2007-05-31 21:10:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i got drunk in new years eve and my sister had a party cuz it was her birthday and invited all her friends wich it turned out to be all guys well anyway i got drunk and the next day it turns out that that nigh i was flashing all her friends. they even recorded it!!!! but know the problem is that they want me 2 do it again and every time i go 2 a party the try to get me drunk what should i do?

2007-05-31 21:03:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 8 kids won't say boo to me, they hate me and call me "DIRTY TRAMP" because their step father and I decited to try swinging!

I heard stuff like so if you get AIDS do you expect us to look after you after your stupid behavour !
This one really hurt we came through this world through that "HOLE" and now our fouling it!

Only 4 kids were her at house when I married their step father and most of the time they stayed at their fathers house but I really pushed to have my youngest son here with us!
When their step father hit him he told everyone and theeir step father recieved the a return on his hitting in spades! No one would allow him to hit anyone else so he knew better, until the day my youngest 16 at the time found out about us swinging!
We tried bribry, threats and husband finally through son against the wall and threaten him! Big mistake because my son had 3 Black belts at the time and he put husband in hospital cops came and we got outed and arrested for abuse on minor!

2007-05-31 20:51:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you havent been in a relationship for 8 yrs since you got divorced in which left you heartbroken, time goes on and you meet someone you fall in love with but she is very insecure, do you help her or walk away

2007-05-31 20:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and that he does no wrong, and that he knows everything better than everyone else, and keeps wondering why no one understands him (but strongly refuses to try to see other people's point of view because he thinks it's worthless).

He's been continuously giving verbal abuse to everyone close to him, including wife, kids, friends, and other relatives; and this attitude has seriously deprived his kids of confidence and self-esteem. These kids (and their mother) actually believe that they're worthless and can't live without their dad.

He's happiest among people who act as if they adore him no matter what and do anything he says without questions, although this doesn't necessarily mean he respects them.

No, this is not about my boyf or husband.

2007-05-31 20:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by ♥♥ Shaun's Mamma ♥♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you are fast asleep and he can't sleep?

2007-05-31 20:39:23 · 46 answers · asked by jaygirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

As the years went on, we wrote to each other on what was going on and how he had missed talking to me. On one occasion he never wrote back to me at all. I was getting worried as to why he hadn't written anything for a long time after I had already written 6 letters to him. Well, just when everything seemed hopeless and sad in my life, I got a note that said: "Meet me at the fence where we used to talk about things". I went and saw him there. I was happy to see him, but he was broken-hearted and sad inside. We hugged until we couldn't breathe anymore. Then he told me about the divorce and why he hadn't written for a long time. He cried until he couldn't cry anymore. Finally, we went back to the house and talked and laughed about what I had been going and to catch up on old times. But in all of this, I couldn't tell him how I felt about him. In the days that followed, he had fun and forgot about all his problem and his divorce. I fell in love again with him. When it came time for him to leave back to New York, I went to see him off and cried. I hated to see him leave. He promised to see me every time he could get a vacation. I couldn't wait for him to come so I could be with him. We would always have fun when we were together. One day he didn't show up like he said he would. I figured that he might have been busy. The days turned into months and I just forgot about it. Then I got a call one day from a lawyer in New York. The lawyer said that he had died in a car accident going to the airpor, and that it took this long till everything was settled. It broke my heart. I was shocked about what took place. Now I knew why he didn't come that day. Again, I was broken-hearted. I cried that night, cried tears of sadness and heartache. I asked questions: "Why did this happen to a kind guy like him?" I gathered my things and went to New York for the reading of his will. Of course, things were given to his family and his ex-wife. I finally got to meet her since the last time we met at the wedding. She explained to me how he was and how he always provided. But he was always unhappy. She would always try everything but she couldn't get him happy, as he was that night at their wedding. When the will was read, the one thing that was given to me was a diary. It was a dairy that of his life. I cried as it was given to me. I didn't know what to think. Why was this given to me? I took it and flew back to California. As I flew on the plane I remembered the good times that we had together. I started reading the diary and what was written. The diary was started with the day we first met. I read on till I started to cry. The diary told of him saying that he had fallen in love with me that day I was broken-hearted. But he was too afraid to tell me what he had felt. That is why he was so quiet and liked to listen to me. It told of how he wanted to tell me so many times, but was too afraid to say anything. It told of when he went to New York and fell in love with another. How the happiest time he had was seeing me and dancing with me at the wedding. He said he imagined it was our wedding. How he was always unhappy till he had no choice but to divorce his wife. How the best time in his life was to read the letters written to him by me. Finally, the diary ended when it said, "today I will tell her I love her". It was the day he was killed. The day I was going to finally find out what was really in his heart. So the moral of the story, If you love someone, don't wait till tomorrow to tell him/her. Maybe the next day will never come at all..

2007-05-31 20:31:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LOVE OF LIFE
It all started when I was 16 years old. While I was playing outside on my farm in California, I met a boy. He was an average kind of boy who teased you and then you chased them and beat them up. After that first meeting in which I beat him up we kept on meeting and beating each other up at the fence. That only lasted for a little while though. We would meet at the fence all the time and we were always together. I would tell him all my secrets. He was very quiet he would just listen to what I had to say. I found him easy to talk to and I could talk to him about everything. In school we had separate friends but when we got home we would always talk about what happened in school. One day I said to him that a guy I liked hurt me and broke my heart. He just comforted me and said everything would be okay. He gave me words of encouragement and helped me get over him. I was happy and thought of him as a real friend. But I knew that there was something else about him that I liked. I thought of it that night and figured it was just a Friend kinda thing that I was feeling. All through high school and even through graduation we're always together and of course I thought of it as being friends. But I knew deep inside that I really felt differently. On graduation night even though we had different dates to the prom I wanted to be with him. That night after everybody went home I went to his house and wanted to tell him that I wanted to see him. Well, that night was my big chance and all I did was just sit there with him watching the stars and talking about what I was going to do and what he was going to do. I looked into his eyes and listened to him talk about what his dream was. How he wanted to get married and settle down. He said how he wanted to be rich and successful. All I could do was to tell him my dream and cuddle next to him. I went home hurting because I didn't tell him how I was feeling. I wanted to tell him so bad that I loved him but I was too scared and frightened. I let my feelings go and told myself that someday I would tell him just how I felt. All through college I wanted to tell him but he always had someone with him. After graduation he got a job in New York; I was happy for him but at the same time I was sad to see him go. I was sad also because I didn't tell him how I felt. But I couldn't let him know now that he was leaving for his big job. So I just kept it to myself and watched him go on the plane. I cried as I hugged him for what I felt was going to be the last time. I went home that night and cried my eyes out. I felt hurt that I didn't tell him what I had inside my heart. Well, I got a job as a secretary and then worked my way to a computer analyst. I was proud of what I had accomplished. One day I got a letter with an invitation to a wedding. It was from him; I was happy and sad at the same time. Now I know that I could never be with him and that we could only be friends. I went to the wedding the next month. It was a big occasion. It was a big church wedding with the reception at a hotel. I met the bride and of course I talked to him too. I fell in love one more time. But I held back so it wouldn't spoil what should be the happiest day in his life. I tried to have fun that night but it was killing me inside watching him being so happy and me trying to be happy covering up my sadness tears inside of me. I left New York feeling that I did the right thing. Before I left on the flight, he came running out of nowhere and said his good-byes and how he was very happy to see me. I came home and just tried to forget about what went on in New York. I had to go on with my life.

2007-05-31 20:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. i have a problem. i want to get my life back together again, i've been slacking off, but it's hard. the thing is, i'm really really easily influenced by other people and when i'm friends with someone, i seem to get very emotionally, i don't know, warped or sth. no, i don't get needy, instead i feel like i'm responsible for the other person's happiness or sth, it sounds ridiculous i know but that's it, i just can't detach myself emotionally from the people i care about and i know others don't feel this way. i'm sick of feeling used. i'm sick of feeling responsible for other people's happiness. i'm sick of feeling responsible for everything. and i'm sick of getting all caught up and then finding out that other people don't feel as strongly as i do. i don't need them to feel this way either. i just want myself to stop! how do i do this?

2007-05-31 20:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by donna_pnctt 1 in Friends

ive always ben the tallest girl in the class, the artsy one, the anti-girly-dumb blone one, the funny chick w/ a great personality, and da crazy 1. i like b-ing diffrent, n now im not so diffrent any more.

2007-05-31 20:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A couple of months ago My daughter and I invited her "best friend" to go camping with us on the 4th of july. Lately her friend hasn't been talking or playing with my daughter at school. I told her to ask her why. The girl says she's not mad just that the kids call my daughter a "geek" and that she doesn't want to be a "geek" too so she hasn't been playing with her. It doesn't really bother my daughter at all but it bothers me. Basically this girl is telling my daughter that she's ok to play with outside of school away from the peer pressure but at school is a different story. Should I just let my daughter handle this or should I step in and tell her she can't go camping with us? I told my daughter that if she's going to be friends with this girl that she shouldn't have to hide it. Should I call and talk with her mother or just let it go and see what happens? Thank you:-}

2007-05-31 20:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Personality or circumstance?

2007-05-31 20:21:27 · 28 answers · asked by zail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think about this people.My husbands an introvert and I'm an extrovert. He hardly ever talks . I'm emotional and very passionate about anything that interest me. Whether it romance or doing arts and crafts.My husband gets annoyed with me when I start talking about things that's emotional or serious . Or when something is really important and exciting for me .I become happy, expressive and very talkative. I'm always talkative not just then. He tries to tells me that their is something wrong with me and how I behave. He's always sitting there quietly judging me.. For about a year, during arguments (like when I caught him doing a search for hookers in our area) he's say that the reason that we were and do argue was because I was Bipolar.So I'd be arguing about that defend myself.I knew I wasn't . I went had had my self diagnosed so he would stop saying that.I was right and I'm not .Now when we fight he says that I need to see some one because I have a chemical imbalance

2007-05-31 20:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want my niece and my cousin's daughter (what relation would her daughter be to me, btw???) to both be my flower girls. When I get married (December 20 2008), they will both be almost 3 years old. I'm not sure if they'll be up to the task of walking down the aisle and scattering flower petals. Will they be old enough to be my flower girls???

2007-05-31 20:13:48 · 16 answers · asked by Christmas Bride 1 in Weddings

Guys with long hair?Is anyone else attracted to that?

2007-05-31 20:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to my colleague's wedding in July. It is so called the duty wedding. I don't really want to stay there until the end. When is the appropriate time to leave?

2007-05-31 19:59:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She only loves you because of what you can give her then eventually either she's taking you to court to split you in half or leaving you for a man with a bigger wallet.

They seek men for security and are ready to put them down if they struggle instead of help along the way. She wants a wealthy man to spoil her so she can shop all day and look good in his money. The type that is only a good woman because of somebody else's resources. She sees a nice car and nice cloths and all of a sudden she's capable of doing anything for you. She wants you to have potential, yet she has none of her own. She'll make you drunk with sex to make you forget she's useing you.

Work so hard to have your heart betrayed.

2007-05-31 19:58:28 · 25 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he looks up at me then down at the floor then says hi to me smiles and watches me walk away, got into an arguement and acts like we broke up which is hard to do since we didnt date, says im smarter and better than most people im amazing at everything i do, said I WANT to hear YOU play and he never types in capital letters, when he first met me he froze and stared at me for 2 minutes my friends noticed this and him cranning his neck to look at me, after the arguement we havent spoken cause im stubborn and so is he. before we met in person my friend saw him look right at me point at me to his friend then talk to his friend then they both looked over, everyone says he likes me. now my question is does he like me and if he does why doesnt he just do something.

2007-05-31 19:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by lizbeth_lizzard 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't understand how everytime i try to avoid arguing she still presses me to the point where she knows I am going to argue with her. she had the nerve to tell me she will put me out and still make me pay bills, yeah right! (talking about my fiance and me, she already had a son and we have one together, and in the process of moving in together and we got in a fight), I admit I was in the wrong but was it really worth taking it to as far as "I won't talk to you then! we can just live under the same roof and, you can take care your kid and I can take care of mine!" I love her so much but I just don't understand why when she gets mad she says things that she knows will hurt me horribly, is this normal for women? (No offense ladies) I know she loves me but why does she say these things? I really want to marry this woman but I don't know how much longer I can take this verbal abuse

2007-05-31 19:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by helplessnlove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so here's the thing.. i'm seeing this guy for a few months.. everything was great we text message and stuff.. but not long ago he text messaged me saying dat he can't text message me oftenly he gave me reasonable reason dat doesn't need to be displayed.. but since then he never text messages me.. i wanna call him but i don't wanna sound too desperate.. but if i don't call him this problem is really haunting me.. i wanted to ask my friends for help, u noe one of my friends ask hom what is going on but it will be too obvious.. i need ur help guys.. please...

2007-05-31 19:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 19:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by salil w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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