you havent been in a relationship for 8 yrs since you got divorced in which left you heartbroken, time goes on and you meet someone you fall in love with but she is very insecure, do you help her or walk away
2007-05-31 20:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend is 46 and i have been that needy one thats insecure- fortunately he has helped me because he loves me and he promised to help me, but i think if he could turn back the clock, given how difficult it has been at times he would have probably walked away. I feel sure he would never go that road again and i don't blame him. You need to learn to love yourself first and gain the confidence you need to find a man who doesn't need to pull you out of the mire- i wouldn't want to rely anyone again to get me out of that situation- its far better to say you have done it alone then need a crutch.
2007-05-31 20:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Almost 46 y/o Female :) >>>I'm not sure why you only wanted men to answer this..I say that b/c some women have been thru the same or a similar situation........k..=) In my opinion..I am not positive if you are a male/female...plz forgive me...but if you are the friend or the person you are in the relationship with...It not a bad thing to want to help someone that is insecure..as long as it doesn't bring you down w/them...we all want to be supportive..*& I am saying this with much love*... but some ppl can suck the life right out of you if you allow them to...ok I know that is not what you were asking for.....hmmm... I went off on a tangen.......is it a full moon? :p lol.....best wishes with any situation...and for the future :-)
--"Value Our Difference!"-- Nelson Mandela
~peace~
2007-05-31 21:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 40, (not 46) but I guess you wont mind if I answer.
"She" is very insecure??
Men in their 40s are MEN. They don't have the time nor the interest in getting involved with "very insecure" women - regardless of their age - and I am confident I speak for all MEN in their 40s.
They are not remotely interested in the CRAP that goes along with dating women who don't have ALL of their sh-t togteher.
MEN in their 40s want a woman who is well worth their effort and time and they have learned LONG AGO that a man's TIME is the most valuable thing to him. Don't even THINK ABOUT getting away with wasting it on YOUR petty insecurities.
He would rather WALK.
2007-05-31 20:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-09 05:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither 46 nor male, but what the hell!!!
Open yourself up to love and take the plunge.
Life can only be lived once. Why lose the chance of wonder because their might be pain?
2007-05-31 20:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Christine H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eight Years is long enough. Get it a chance you may find out she is just what you need.
2007-05-31 20:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out not to get broken again and forever.
2007-05-31 20:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This 44-yo says: don't walk away..... run as fast as you can!
2007-06-02 07:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Micky C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in love all you can do is try to help her
that's what love is
2007-05-31 20:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is worth is, help... if she is really hard work, walk away... if possible, get some sex out of it!!! :D
2007-05-31 20:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋