2007-05-31 19:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure he knows you aren't his property. This is a control problem and you really shouldn't tolerate it.
2007-05-31 19:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Eric G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk and ask him why he thinks he has the right to tell you who you can and cannot talk to and let him know that is childish behavior and you find it offensive (do this in a kind, calm voice, to let him know how you feel, not in an accusatory way).
If he isn't willing to change and trust you, you'd best move on because it isn't going to get any better. And you can bet if you marry him, it will be 10 times worse.
He might even eventually isolate you from your family and all your friends and will always be accusing you of doing things and seeing and talking with others when he isn't around. When things go wrong between the two of you, it's always going to be your fault, not his.
Give this relationship some serious thought. Life is supposed to be happy and loving ~ this isn't it and isn't headed that way.
2007-05-31 20:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant share u, he is either:
A. in so much luv w. u that he cant share u
B. wanting 2 keep u 2 abuse u
C. he knows his friends r bad news and he is protecting u.
depending on why the reason:
A. just get over it. it is just a natural response from the male gender, and he truly is head over heels for u. take it as a compliment, but feel free to speek ur heart and still communicate with his friends.
B. get out of the relationship calmly and peacefully!!
C. if he cant choose the right friends, he probably cant be smart enough to choose the right girl (no offense, its his problem... ur probably 2 good 4 him). get out of the relationship.
2007-05-31 19:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Smile_Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Kelly, you recognize this is unreasonable behavior. I would guess he is a controlling kind of guy and possibly even gets violent occasionally. He has some problems but probably is not willing to explore them. He may be wonderful in many other areas but if he has control issues and is violent, stay away from him. Another thought...is he something like your father?
2007-05-31 19:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first about it, and let him know that it bothers you. If he doesn't care, then move on, girlie....You should be allowed to talk to whomever you please (be it innocent and on a friendly level)...This is a sign of a jealous controlling natured person, and it will only escalate from here.
2007-05-31 19:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb and find someone who treats right.
2007-05-31 19:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by Big Daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are a free spirit & he is too possessive.
2007-05-31 19:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being jealous can ruin a relationship, perhaps you should tell him that.huh
2007-05-31 19:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋