So I know my friend really loves her soon to be husband, but she also loves the idea of getting married. Should I say something or hold my tounge?
2007-05-31 21:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by 123-123-123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she is young, and they will have to struggle through life, I would let her know how rough it is going to be before she makes a mistake. If they are older, it is their business, and nothing you could say would make a difference.
2007-05-31 21:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might depend on how long she's known him. If she hasn't known him for long, you might ask why they are getting married so quickly just to see what she says but overall, it's her decision and all you can do is be there for her and help her if things go bad later.
If you tell her she shouldn't get married, she's going to say you're jealous, it's none of your business, she doesn't want to hear it and/or you aren't a good friend and it may sever your friendship.
Even if you can see things aren't quite right, she has on rose-colored glasses and won't listen to anything you have to say. Most people close their minds off quickly, sometimes because they don't want to hear it and sometimes because they know what you are saying is probably true but they don't want to acknowledge it thinking they will make everything ok later (an immature approach but many do take it).
2007-05-31 21:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of that with in 4 days you could not discover and understand any something on the subject of the guy so tell her that and supply some examples on the subject of the relation that the subject has held so as that she would be able to be confessed and think of on the subject of the courting.
2016-12-18 10:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know of any reason why she shouldn't get married,
say so otherwise let her make the decision.
2007-05-31 21:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a reason to think they shouldnt get married (e.g about him cheating or taking drugs) tell her if you have no reason just give 1 or 2 hints you dont like th idea then its their own fault if it mucks up their life.
2007-05-31 22:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by woohootoodles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want them not to marry?
2007-05-31 22:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Prashant S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your tongue. She won`t listen anyway.
2007-05-31 22:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tom Sawyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "Wish you all the best"
2007-05-31 21:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by The one whom you are waiting.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, i think it's her decision.
your role is to be supportive and happy for her :)
2007-05-31 21:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something good and bless them ok.
2007-05-31 21:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋