so here's the thing.. i'm seeing this guy for a few months.. everything was great we text message and stuff.. but not long ago he text messaged me saying dat he can't text message me oftenly he gave me reasonable reason dat doesn't need to be displayed.. but since then he never text messages me.. i wanna call him but i don't wanna sound too desperate.. but if i don't call him this problem is really haunting me.. i wanted to ask my friends for help, u noe one of my friends ask hom what is going on but it will be too obvious.. i need ur help guys.. please...
2007-05-31 19:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you are in a normal relationship, you would actually be talking on the phone instead of texting. There could be many reasons for his actions such as he is two-timing you, or just got sick of you and now is trying to phase you out. My advice is to drop him and move on, and in your next relationship try talking on the phone and hanging out in person, instead of texting.
2007-05-31 20:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm a girl, but just make sure there's not somebody else he's spending time w/ that preventing him from texting you! O' and guys do figure it out really fast when you have your friends talk to him...i always wanted to do that too. Also sometimes guys get busy w/ work and stuff and don't realize how much it means to us for them to just take a couple of seconds to drop us a line!
2007-05-31 19:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Janet, if you want a relationship with anyone you have to be able to communicate with them. If they won't communicate...no relationship. So, if you want a relationship, call him, text him, email him, snail mail him. But communicate with him. Better to open or attempt to open communications and get rebuffed than to spend your time worrying what might happen if you did it. If he blows you off, then you know where he is. If he accepts your communication and responds, then you are where you want to be. Better to know than to be uncertain.
2007-05-31 19:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him if he finds an excuse not to talk to you theres a serios prlbem besides comunication
2007-05-31 20:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until he calls you then
2007-05-31 19:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋