ok well, theres this girl, funny how lots of my questions start out like that, ne ways theres this girl...ive known her since i was like 3 months old. her and i were best friends, then i moved. i didnt move to a different town just the compleat opposite side of town. well her and i lost contact after awhile and i thought that was it...i never forgot about her though...then 8 yrs later this wounderful thing known as myspace got her and i reconnected...well now her and i r friends again but its not the same...i know it wouldnt be like it used ot cuz we were only 8 or 9 last time we were friends...but still its not like i figured it would be. we have been talking for over a yr now and she says im still her best guy friend..but her and i have only hung out like 3 or 4 times in a course of an entire year....i dont know if its that im not the same or if its shes not the same...i wish we could be more of friends...she means the world to me but i fell like i dont really mean much to her...
2007-05-31 21:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she tells me im still her best friend....then that im still her best guy friend....but other times when talking to her about some of her other friends she calls this one guy her best guy friend...i dont know if im just being stupid her or not..i just want some answers...and any from yall would be good cuz when i just cant bring myself ot ask her cuz last time i tried to get something outta her like this about whats going on we kinda got into a fight...
2007-05-31 21:30:52 · update #1
at 8 or 9 years old and after 8 years..people do change...you might still be her best friend from a long time ago..we all have more than 1 bst friend ..best friends are sometimes best for different things...like you might be that long lost friend she will never forget while this other guy might be her friend in some other things you and her dont do togeather ..maybe like sports or things like that ...i have different friends that do different things or like to do different things...for example some friends like to shoot pool and those are my best friends for that while other friends might play sports ..and them are best friends for that
2007-05-31 22:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are jealous of her other friends. She is probably closer to her other friends because she sees them more often. It is not that she doesn't care about you, but it is hard because you don't hang out in the same group. Don't be so needy. Girls can not stand to see needy guys , no more than guys like to see needy girls. Time to realize that you both have grown in separate directions.
2007-06-01 04:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change you probably will always be her friend but no more than that you are like a brother to her she has a whole new life and people in it stop pining over her date other women and if you and her are meant to be it will happen so get over it and stop torturing yourself
2007-06-01 04:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Verna I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋