Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

I get paid my SSI & Social Security checks tomorrow, & now he wants my money. I was in a terrible living situation, & he just suckered someobody gullible & easy in his home so they can pay all his bills & rent while he lives off of me for free. I didn't ask to come live with him he offered. I don't mind helping pay bills, but the reason why I have a problem now is because at first, he told me I didn't have to pay anything, & now he waits until I get my money to start asking me for rent money & bill money & stuff. & I'm trying to move out, but he doesn't want me to because if I do, then he can't pay all his bills alone. & I just found out that I'm not even on the lease for this apartment, so we can he headed for grounds for eviction any day.

Also, he's beginning to become abusive & treating me like a slave. He yells at me, steals my things, he started beating on me again, & he's only here twice a week. He lives by his friends for free more than he lives here. I don't want to pay him

2007-05-31 16:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To make matters worse, my mom is not very supportive ( thinks I am "big"

2007-05-31 16:18:10 · 12 answers · asked by GG 1 in Family

Like if we take the innitiative to flirt and ask them out, would they be jerks about it if they don't like you? as in saying, if you were friends before you asked them out, then they stop being your friend and act mean to you or ignore you? i know im not like that at all, i treat friends who i reject normally as if it never happened.

2007-05-31 16:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by Colon 2 in Singles & Dating

SHE FOUND SOME SOME PICS OF ME DRINKIN BEER IN MY CAMERA...IS IT THAT BAD FOR ME TO DRINK?!? AND NOW SHE DONT WANT O GIVE IT BACK..I WAS SO PISSED AT HER U KNOW..IM ALL SAYIN WHY U GO IN MY STUFF..U KNOW IS MY CAMERA..THEN SHE SAYS NO IS MY CAMERA...THEN IM ALL LIKE NOOO MY DAD BOUGHT FOR ME! SO THEN IM ALL SCREAMING LIKE HELL TO HER TO GIVE IT BACK BECAUSE IS MINE...SO YEA!

2007-05-31 16:06:33 · 6 answers · asked by yesy_91 2 in Family

natural sex goddess or are going to be good in bed. I've hear guys want to hook up with black women because they've heard they really know how to satisfy men. I'm an African American women and although I would admit im pretty good in bed lol, this was the first time I heard this. I was curious to know other people's thoughts. Thanks! Please be honest but not disrespectful. Thanks! :)

2007-05-31 16:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a pimple on my butt and hope my guy isn't too disgusted. He's understanding and cool.

2007-05-31 16:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Singles & Dating

He just graduated from high school. His grades are very average and so he must attend the local 2year college before he transfers to university for his bachelor's degree. We are insisting he pay for the jr. college up front and we will reimburse him based on his grades (x amount for an A, x amount for a B and so on...). That way he will be motivated to do well if he wants his money. THe other reason is that he is a "party-er". Most teens think this is a rite of passage to drink under 21,etc. However, we still have a younger teen at home...
and he needs to abide by the house rules (regardless).
If he does not live by the rules - we want him to live - has anyone done this with their young adult and how did it work out? Thanks.

2007-05-31 16:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by what's up? 6 in Family

I don't understand how he can bold face lie about stuff and when he gets caught, he acts like I should just forget it and move on... It stays with me. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I don't even know why he stays with me if he feels like he has to lie about porn, where he is, etc... Why does he stay with me?

2007-05-31 16:00:03 · 25 answers · asked by sugar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a girl by the name of Fay who has been dating a married man for some time know. But the man did'nt want his wife to find out about it. ofter Fay have been having sex with the married man for a while he started to drift away from her. He has 2 boys and a girl by his wife. He promise Fay that he will never break her heart because he would'nt want another man to break this daughters hearts. What do you all think??

2007-05-31 15:57:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-31 15:55:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He thinks all of my little quirks are cute and likes to listen to me snore!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!

2007-05-31 15:53:24 · 49 answers · asked by Classical 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do some people feel compelled to write a novella when asking a simple question?

2007-05-31 15:53:16 · 12 answers · asked by Rocky 6 in Singles & Dating

I mean im no baby. But stuff like this happens everyday all over the world. I just wanna know how to handle my fear with it.

2007-05-31 15:53:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-31 15:46:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanted to bring flowers for my date, but since were meeting at a restaurant i didnt know if that would be a good idea since there would be no where for her to put them, the resturant also has a dance club for after dinner. Any other ideas would be appreciated too.

2007-05-31 15:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by nickyblinds 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have a date lined up with a Persian guy I just met and I was wondering if anyone had any experience dating african american females? Oh if it helps. He's a male capricorn and I'm a female aquarius. Thanks! :)

2007-05-31 15:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

They have not legally been divorced, and they have not talked since seperating.

2007-05-31 15:42:18 · 13 answers · asked by Carl G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 and have never had a bf b4. I am really outgoing when it comes to my friends and my family and some of my guy friends. But if I get around a guy I like it seems like I do NOT have a personality....i just get all shy and I don't know what to say. I am scared that I will NEVER get a bf because NO guys like me. I think that I am REALLY pretty though. I have never been asked out b4. Were you like me?

2007-05-31 15:41:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have a date lined up with a Persian guy I just met and I was wondering if anyone had any experience dating african american females? Oh if it helps. He's a male capricorn and I'm a female aquarius. Thanks! :)

2007-05-31 15:41:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gender? age?

(survey)

2007-05-31 15:38:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last year, there was this girl in my English class and I really liked for ever since junior high. Then I was doing this public speak thing and I confessed to her at the end in front of the class. Yaya the whole class was like laughing and **** and this girl now knows that I like her. From that day on, her and I talked about stuff whenever we met in the hallways but I was just too retarded back then and I was afraid to ask her out

It's been a year and 5 month. Ever since this school year started, we havent talked to each other at all. Whenever we meet in the hallway, we just walk past and pretend not seeing each other. She's in her senior year and I'm in my junior year and she's graduating high school in 11 days.
I need some tips guys I'm gonna ask her out but I just dont know how >_< help me...

2007-05-31 15:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just can't seem to grasp who I am alone....Anyone else go through this ?

2007-05-31 15:34:26 · 18 answers · asked by EvelynMine 7 in Marriage & Divorce

she uses all sorts of excuses for this and I try to tell her only to be ignored and then she invites me to go somewhere w/ her the next time and so I accept and try to be as nice as I can but eventually she ends up saying something hurtful to, me anyway and Ive tried to even stay away from her for days at a time w/ no contact what so ever only to go through to same thing a few days after we get together again Ive tried to think its all my fault and try to be better only to be dragged down emtionally but I cant get out anywhere w/o her because of lack of transportation where I live so how can I get through to her thats shes hurting me even when I speak up only to be ignored help???????????????

2007-05-31 15:31:59 · 20 answers · asked by tacsaszar 2 in Family

sorry if i spell it wrong ....any who so me and my guy have been toghether for longer than a year...im black he's white....well he got the tatto befor we meet a few years ago while in jail...he told my while in jail you have to belong some where or you will most likely be killed especially where he was sent which i guess has a huge problem with gang races killing each other...So any who while in jail he got this tattoo..
now when we first met he would never take off his shirt at least not for the first couple of weeks its on his chest and is completly hiddin , also so it on his chest....
he's not rasict or else we wouldnt be dating so i dont need comments about that ....

My question really is i kinda of have a problem with it and since i love him ive just put up with it.. so would it be wrong of me to ask for him to get rid of it...i have never asked he has never said anything about getting rid of it so im not sure if he is or not....

please advice...
thanks

2007-05-31 15:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by ilovesurga 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i get something good i mess it up i had a really good bf and i went and kissed a guy in front of him. and then i had a really good guy again and he told me not to do something and i went and did it. and i was in college but i started acting up and not going and then they kicked me out. what is it is it a fear of success. or a fear of commitment? and how can i get over it?

2007-05-31 15:29:19 · 14 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've been dating this guy 4 a week now & I can't tell if he really likes me or if he just wants sumthing from me,,what do i do? I really like him a lot, and i don't want to do anything to mess this up....Please help//

2007-05-31 15:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

2007-05-31 15:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by SkaterChika 1 in Friends

2007-05-31 15:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why would a online friend of 7 years lie about the country he is from ? we have been close chat friends for the past seven years . he knows everything about me and my life and i thought i knew him. but i recently learned and not by his own admission that he is not from the country he told me he was from . and when i ask him to explain he just refuses to do so. and i half't to wonder what else he has lied about. has anyone ever have this happen to them . please only serious reply's and no nasty comments please.

2007-05-31 15:23:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have a wonderful 8-month-old son and as you can imagine life for us has changed quite a bit since his arrival. I do understand that my wife must be experiencing a whole range of new emotions and responsibilities for the first time, as am I, but since his birth she has become a completely different person. It is like she has only so much love to give, and because most of it now goes to our son, there is hardly any left over for me. She is so cold to me, hardly ever asks how my day was, barely even greets me when I arrive home - doesn't kiss me to say hello or goodbye. It doesn't matter how much I do to help, it never seems to be enough and she seems to be always angry with me. Sex is non-existent these days, but that's not everything to me, I can cope. She barely talks to me at all. I feel like I'm doing everything wrong, it's like I can do nothing right. What hope do I have to resolve this? I love her so much, but now it's almost one-sided. Can anyone offer me advice?

2007-05-31 15:21:47 · 39 answers · asked by I'mInUrNet 1 in Marriage & Divorce