I am 14 and have never had a bf b4. I am really outgoing when it comes to my friends and my family and some of my guy friends. But if I get around a guy I like it seems like I do NOT have a personality....i just get all shy and I don't know what to say. I am scared that I will NEVER get a bf because NO guys like me. I think that I am REALLY pretty though. I have never been asked out b4. Were you like me?
2007-05-31 15:41:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww don't worry hon.. you're 14 you have PLENTY of time. In my opinion no one should have a bf by that age! It takes time to get used to being around guys and how to act..don't worry it'll come with time. BUT it is also ok to be shy! Guys just want you to be yourself and the right one will come along one day and love you for your quiet self =)
P.s. I'm speaking from experience--you sound like me at 14
2007-05-31 15:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Miss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to be like that when i was in like middle school but once i got to high school i started to break out of my shell a little bit and become more flirty with guys. all you really have to do is be yourself around them and it'll be fine. especially if you are an outgoing person then just start by making small talk or just be really flirty and chill around guys you like and then next thing you know you'll have boys chasingg after youu lol. trust me it definitely workss
2007-06-01 00:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by brittanyyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE would like you if they could see you. Listen, don't be so shy. Start by smiling. People who are always smiling attract people to them. Say something nice. Not just anything - try to be sincere. Like their outfit? Speak on it. Nice hair? Say so. Are they looking blue? Why not try to cheer them up. Kindness is NEVER wasted. Show some concern for others and watch it returned back to you....
2007-05-31 22:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by bebop_music 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 3 times your age and don't want to go to jail so.....................LOL There will be lots of boys who like you. As you are shy around boys you like boys that like you will also be shy around you. Usually, the way a boy lets you know he likes you is by acting like a jerk and doing stupid things. That way if you don't respond to them favorably they can say they were just clowning around and didn't like you 'in that way.' This stage will last until they are about 40. You just have to pretend they are as mature as you are. Good luck.
2007-05-31 22:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by thesongfairy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah to be young. (jk. only 15 here) i used to think the same thing. but then out of nowhere i got asked out. Guys at this age can be asses. u have to be patient though. the time WILL come. trust in our good Lord and you will find the right guy.
2007-05-31 23:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by calf_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient.
Your 14 not 40. There is time. I had the same problem that you have, but when i saw Rachel, boom within a week all gone
2007-05-31 22:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. You sound a little cocky
2. FOR GOD SAKE YOU ARE 14. Serious issues if you think you will never have a boyfriend and you have barely gone through puberty.
2007-05-31 22:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello B.B. Hon you have many years ahead of you. You don"t need to put on a madeup personality. Please just be honest and true to yourself ! Have you invited Jesus into your heart? His holy spirit will come and dwell in your heart and see you through these rough waters.In Jesus name love Kenny
2007-05-31 22:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋