I get paid my SSI & Social Security checks tomorrow, & now he wants my money. I was in a terrible living situation, & he just suckered someobody gullible & easy in his home so they can pay all his bills & rent while he lives off of me for free. I didn't ask to come live with him he offered. I don't mind helping pay bills, but the reason why I have a problem now is because at first, he told me I didn't have to pay anything, & now he waits until I get my money to start asking me for rent money & bill money & stuff. & I'm trying to move out, but he doesn't want me to because if I do, then he can't pay all his bills alone. & I just found out that I'm not even on the lease for this apartment, so we can he headed for grounds for eviction any day.
Also, he's beginning to become abusive & treating me like a slave. He yells at me, steals my things, he started beating on me again, & he's only here twice a week. He lives by his friends for free more than he lives here. I don't want to pay him
2007-05-31 16:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When I get paid tomorrow, I'm straight going to a battered women's shelter before things get worse. I'm not paying him a PENNY!
2007-05-31 16:19:31 · update #1
CORRECTION-We can BE headed for grounds for eviction any day.
I'm so scared & feel uncomfortable living here.
2007-05-31 16:20:40 · update #2
heres a hug sweetie..this guy is taking advantage of you and beating on adisabled person is sick an wrong..you take you money and fgo tot he shelter sweetie they will help you and keep you safe...get your own place and never let him come around..ok hugsss n good luck..and if he beats on you again call the police..have him arrested...you dont deserve to be treated like that..and dont give him a dime!!
2007-05-31 16:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by bettym 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea I answered your question yesterday but I think you should give him something life isn't free my friend friend just give him a little something then move to the shelter...SMILE...and your check comes on the first so did my granny...just wanted to add that...so you should give something at least a penny if anything...
2007-06-01 00:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, But if in the SF Bay Area CITY TEAM MINISTRIES! Any shelter will take you. I would GO tonight ! Have some one go with you to pick up your check. But I would leave NOW!!. You don't need that! God bless you. My Prayers are with you!!
2007-05-31 23:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU! You don't need that in your life! He sounds like a real jerk! Why doesn't he get a job and pay his own bills? Even though he's your brother it seems like he treats you like dirt and you don't need that from anyone, especially not if you're trying to help them out! Don't give in to him!
Good luck to you! I wish you well!
Peace and Love â¥
2007-05-31 23:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by <3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! PAYING THE BILLS IS ENOUGH IS INVADING YOUR PRIVACY AND HE IS ABUSING YOU AND HE IS TREATING YOU LIKE #%$@! AND DOSE NOT RESPECT YOU. GET OUT YOU DONT PAY HIM. GET YOUR MONEY AND GO. ASK ANOTHER FAMILY OR FRIEND TO HELP YOU OUT UNTIL YOU GET YOUR OWN PLACE. MS D . DONT LET ENYONE STEP ALL OVER YOU STAY STRONG AND ANOTHER THING THERE IS A LOT OF PROGRAMS THAT HELP OUT THERE . YOUR BROTHER CAN GET IN A LOT OF TROUBLE. DONT BE AFRIED TO LET SOMEONE KNOWS THAT HE IS ABUSIVE.AND HE HAS HERT YOU. MS D. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND AGAIN. NO!!! GOD BLESS AND TAKE CARE .BYE.
2007-06-01 00:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by yiselmaribel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you answered your own question by deciding to go to the battered women's shelter.
He sounds like a fool. You're right! Keep your money. Don't give him another penny.
2007-05-31 23:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what to do. Good luck.
2007-05-31 23:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out, take your money & run !
2007-05-31 23:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋