I wanted to bring flowers for my date, but since were meeting at a restaurant i didnt know if that would be a good idea since there would be no where for her to put them, the resturant also has a dance club for after dinner. Any other ideas would be appreciated too.
2007-05-31 15:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by nickyblinds 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i guess i should say we met online and have only talked on phone a few times so were going to meet at the restaurant.....I think she'll feel more secure that way
2007-05-31 16:04:48 · update #1
Hmm. How about a single rose? She can put it in the car after you guys eat?! Very thoughtful, BTW!
2007-05-31 15:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers are always a good idea but for this particular occasion, I'd say buy a nice wine at dinner but, if you really want to show up with something in hand hmmmmmm......that is a toughy.
Definitely not a single rose. Women hate this cause it says "I'm too cheat and/or broke to get all 12."
And definitely not carnations. They are the cheapest flower there is. And we know this.
Wow! I'm actually stumped since this is a first date. I'd just go with the bottle of wine and as soon as you sit down just explain to her what you think. That being, "I really wanted to bring you something but I couldn't think of anything since we're going to the club afterwards."
Or you could just get the flowers anyway and I'm sure the waitress could find a vase for you to use during dinner. I worked in a restaurant and we did that for people. Then after dinner just suggest bringing them out to the car and then go back in to the club. Hope this helps. I'll get back to you if I can think of anything. For a "first date" that is.
2007-05-31 15:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by manybagolike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a nice gesture, but I don't think you should. I normally give one rose, but in that situation, I don't think you should bring anything. I've never given flowers on a first date and I've dated many, many women.
Some women have told me that they think it's unoriginal to get flowers on a first date. They say that it seems like the guy is trying hard to impress them.
My point is that lots of guys give flowers on a first date. Surprise her when she doesn't expect it. Don't do what everyone else does. I'm completely against the flowers for this date. Don't do it.
2007-05-31 15:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how old you are- it's hard to say. Youcould bring one single flower- she could just set it on the table and bring it to the club it you go there.
OR... leave the flowers til the day after and drop them off if things go well. I awoke one morning to find flowers on my car after a first date. So cool.
2007-05-31 15:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should save the flowers for a second date at the park or something, because at a restaurant.. it's not that handy. Good luck!.
2007-05-31 15:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, depends on the sort of restaurant, but I'd say no. If you want to bring flowers, bring a corsage for her - if the restaurant is a fancy one. If not, maybe a different token of love? A bracelet or other jewelry? I don't know the girl like you do. :)
2007-05-31 15:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not on a first date. You'll come off as wimpy, trust me. After a few dates, its cool to give her a single rose.
Oh and dance club = dance with her, man!!
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2007-05-31 22:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls love flowers! nice idea. But like they said.. might be a little tricky. BUT one thing.. you should pick her up! It would show her you're a true gentleman like it seems you are! and then the flower dilema would be solved =)
2007-05-31 15:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a single flower
2007-05-31 15:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥LOVE♥♥Facebook♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋