Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

My mother's funeral was yesturday, and i was wondering if there was any possible way to reach the dead? She meant the world to me, and i feel so lost without her!

2007-05-31 14:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What I Feel


Happiness has just become a wish
Because I miss your kiss
ive gotten used to being blue
ill simply say I need you
And every time I hear you’re “hi”
I can’t help but wonder “why”
I guess you can say we’re friends
But why did it have to end?
I thought we were meant to be
But you don’t even think of me
And now you’ve moved on
What can I say…you won?
Yes and I know in time this pain will heal
Though I can’t help what I feel

2007-05-31 14:45:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i was six my dad was put into jail for SIX YEARS. He's been clean the year he got out (about two years ago) Now he is using drugs again. Meth. We barely talk, i live with his parents and i don't get treated well. I miss my dad so much, i dont know what to do. I want to plan an intervention. Please help.

2007-05-31 14:45:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. One month after our three year anniversay, he left. He said that he just did not believe that he wanted to be married anymore. We have had our fair share of "arguements" but nothing that horrible. His problem is that he has lied to me since we've been together about little things. I did find out that he cheated (supposedly an isolated incident) about two years ago. He asks me to wait and just give him time, but he has been gone almost 2 months, but still makes daily contact with me. I am not sure if I should just go ahead and throw in the towel.

2007-05-31 14:44:28 · 15 answers · asked by cathy c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Las Vegas where people generally decide on who to marry based on 95% for looks and 5% convenience (who is there at the moment). Many marriages here end in divorce.

I believe that you should know you're in love based on 75% for looks and tone of voice, 10% for personality, and 15% for family background, ethnicity, and religion.

How do you think that you can tell that you're in love?

2007-05-31 14:33:55 · 13 answers · asked by Rupert 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-31 14:31:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this guy named anthony for 3 days & on the third day he fingered me... i dont really love him but i "lust him" im 13 & dont biitch about it thanks. well he has a girlfriend who he doesnt see that much. i dont think he loves her and they have only made out... i cant be his gurl cuz i live 1 hr away. he wanted to have sex with me for his birthday but i wouldnt and then he was bragging to his friend that he was gonna DO me for his birthday.. n i was like noooooo i am not quit lyin.... wll the friend he was braggin to, his birthday was a few days ago.
So anthony has got this guy jassiel asking if i would screw him for his birthday and they are both askin when they are gonna gonna get their present. i told them i would kiss them 4 their bday tho but they are still askin bout their PRESENT.

what should i say to them? they are both soooo hot but how do i get it thru their heads i dont wanna screw them???

what would you do?
feel free to IM...

2007-05-31 14:26:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i love my dad because hes my dad but he never calls me or never sees me what should i do

2007-05-31 14:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's 2 years older than her and know for a fact he has hit her on the cheek because she had a huge bruise on her face and instead tod everyone it was a sports injury. There's rumors that if she leaves him, he will hurt her! I've never met him and I don;t knwo why but even though I'm one of her close friends she doesn't tell me anything! I've been hearing all abotu thsi from someone she hardly knows on her sports team, and shes also has told her cousins and theyve told me also! I knwo I shoudl tell someone but should I wait until I have solid proof?

2007-05-31 14:13:59 · 17 answers · asked by Juls 2 in Friends

So this boy liked me, and I was too shy and so my friends defended me and told min to back off. Then there was this school dance. He asked me to dance with him. He then asked me if I liked him. I said "as a friend". Then, he moved, and in a few months, I moved. Know we are sooooo far apart from each other. We finally got ahold of each other's e-mails, byt I really wanna see him again!!! Help!!!!

2007-05-31 14:12:03 · 4 answers · asked by :] 3 in Singles & Dating

girl # 1
fillipino
long, black hair, moslty up in a pony tail
about 150-155
not too talkative, a little bit quite

girl # 2
chinese
long, black, straight hair. mostly left down
140 cm
a bit talkative and loud. not as shy.

2007-05-31 14:11:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you want a skinny woman, a pretty woman, a good cook, a good mother, someone with a good job, someone that is independant. What things are most important to you?

2007-05-31 14:11:41 · 4 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Singles & Dating

your husband/wife, bf/gf or significant other, would you EVER cheat on them?

If you're the one being cheated on could you.....
A. Forgive them
B. Stay with them
C. Trust them again

Would it matter to you and your decision to stay in the relationship if it was a 1 night stand or an emotional & physical relationship that lasted some time?

Upon discovering an affair would you want to know the depth of it or do you believe that any form of cheating is enough to end the relationship?

Thanks for your time & input

2007-05-31 14:10:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so lately it seems like my ex-bf has been flirting with me a lot. for example, at prom last weekend he came up to me, hugged me and as he was hugging me he whispered to me, "You look gorgeous!". then later that night he asked me to slow dance. i'm really starting to like him again but the only time i see him is at school. should i ask him to hang out this weekend and see if anything happens between us? or should i just tell him how i feel about him again? is it worth the risk of getting hurt if he doesn't feel the same way? what sould i do?


some extra info--we dated for six months last year and it was a really good relationship but we started drifting apart which is why we broke up

2007-05-31 14:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 14:09:34 · 13 answers · asked by sugarfree 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this girl last year in seventh grade started spreading rumers about me(very bad rumers).I was told that I could never be friends with her again.The rumers ruined my life.Should I forgive her?

2007-05-31 14:08:39 · 25 answers · asked by rain<3 3 in Friends

Isn't the basis of the family unit the relationship between husband and wife?


Thank you ...

2007-05-31 14:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

shes mean and fights like a man. at the same time she can be really sweet. will she ever find a man that treats her with the respect she derserves?

2007-05-31 14:03:57 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks before prom....he and i were still speaking after we broke up. I am16 years old and he is 18. we have been dating for what would have been 2 years this october. I have no doubt in my mind that i am in love with him. my mother decided that since i still wanted to be with him after the break up, that i was obsessed with him and he is now my "idol" because i say that he is amazing (and i have also called him perfect as in perfect for eachother..."you are perfect for me.") my mother says this is unhealthy and that spending almost everyday together means i worship him and care about nothing else. my mother forbade us to talk until i am 18 (my stepfather said to wait for it to blow over but i know my mother and i know that she was quite serious...)however we went against their wishes and now i am not allowed to leave my house for 6 months and i am not allowed to see or speak to him. i miss him and i feel like my parents are being completely unfair

2007-05-31 14:03:12 · 7 answers · asked by little pizzi 2 in Family

I have gone to the cops...they do nothing. I have gone to the local government...they do nothing. I went to local crime watch...they do nothing.

2007-05-31 14:01:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a big problem. when my bf and I have intercourse i dont orgasm everytime and i really feel like its affecting our relationship. because it seems like we both become so uncomfortable after we do it. I like him very much and he likes me, but i dont know how long we can keep doing this.

im 22 years old and still leave with my parents. he's 25 and also leaves with his parents. we only get to do it when his mother is at work. often i feel like im being rushed and sometimes his brother is in the next room. i need help. i think now i'm actually starting to avoid having sex with him, like i'm not looking foward to it because i know it will be another dissapointment. im not blaming him, i feel like it's most of my fault.
i feel so alone after we done doing it. and i often find myself being jealous of him because he's able to enjoy it and i dont

Am I a horrible gf?

2007-05-31 14:01:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 12, and I want a cell phone SO BAD. He is still not convinced. my grades in school are A's and B's so they're good.


HELP!!! PLEASE!

2007-05-31 14:00:46 · 6 answers · asked by snay94 2 in Family

I watched this guy do his and it looks kinda simple he took these springy things off and then the shoes came off but I don't quite get it.

2007-05-31 13:57:45 · 10 answers · asked by setfree 3 in Weddings

My friend got really PO'd at me because I quit the job that she helped me get. She works there and she thinks that I gave her a bad rep. She called me two days ago and pretty much let me have it... I felt really bad so yesterday I made an apology card, walked to her house and put it in her mailbox. Was this a good step to take? So far I haven't gotten a response from her.... Please help.

2007-05-31 13:56:27 · 21 answers · asked by Chris H 3 in Friends

What do guys likegirls to do when making out?. Just things that turn them on.

2007-05-31 13:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by Sada_Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

And they're not dead...just too far away......

2007-05-31 13:45:57 · 5 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Singles & Dating

I've been very unhappy since three months after our marriage in 9/2005. I've told my husband a number of times that I want a divorce. Last July I moved out when our lease was up and I had to sneak to do it. He reeled me back in by asking for help with getting an apartment and then a truck, because his credit is bad.
I eventually moved back in, because he's not as good as keeping up with bills. I feel trapped and manipulated.

2007-05-31 13:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do GUYS get SHY with me? like nervous?
even the most courageous guys, cocky guys, confident guys, they get shy once they get with me like when we start dating..they start off a little aggressive than they become like a little kitten from a fiery tiger..I mean they can't hold my hand, kiss me, hug me, without asking me or getting nervous and shy..


I mean I dont think I am intimidating..I am very sweet (i buy suprise gifts to my bfs, very affectionate and flirty..I treat them like king basically.)

2007-05-31 13:39:13 · 26 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

Here 's thing ,we got married frist time no big ceremony and celebration.So , we want to have family and friends celebrate our marriage. We are going to have wedding and cerebrate with friends and family.To do all the church thing we need marriage license, since we arealdy have one, I don't know if it OK to apply marriage license again but in another county? Some one help answer me? PLEASE!!!!

2007-05-31 13:34:47 · 6 answers · asked by millet2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

even the most courageous guys, cocky guys, confident guys, they get shy once they get with me like when we start dating..they start off a little aggressive than they become like a little kitten from a fiery tiger..I mean they can't hold my hand, kiss me, hug me, without asking me or getting nervous and shy..

2007-05-31 13:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating