ok this girl last year in seventh grade started spreading rumers about me(very bad rumers).I was told that I could never be friends with her again.The rumers ruined my life.Should I forgive her?
2007-05-31 14:08:39 · 25 answers · asked by rain<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, forgive and forget.
2007-05-31 14:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man Don't Even Worry About That Chick. Yeah, Forgive Is A Really Good Thing To Do. But You Don't Have To Forget It. And Never Let Rumors Put You Down. You Don't Have To Be Her Friend At All But You Have To Forgive Because We All Make Mistakes.
2007-05-31 14:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in a year's time you can grow up a lot, use this opportunity to show that you are a good person. It'll confuse her, but forgiveness is something one should practice all through life. Especially at such a tender age there is so much growth, by forgiving her you're also showing her that you've believed that she can grow up and away from those vicious tendencies. Just be very careful girl and only let her in on the basics of your life, mean girls can go wild with just a little bit of information, twist it and make it into something so very ugly. Trust me, girls like that will always be in your life, but it's your boundaries and maturity that dictate what they can hold over you. Good luck!
2007-05-31 14:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Color Me Fatigue 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-05-31 14:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Muffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would forgive her, but I would always keep my guard up around her and wouldn't trust her. You could hang out with her & stuff but don't go telling her any secrets... Just remember:: "Keep your friends close & your enimies closer!"
2007-05-31 14:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to forgive her to get the bad feelings outta your system but never *forget* what that biotch did to you!
2007-05-31 14:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jane Z. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yez you should forgive and forget...you should never hold a grude against somebody...but that dosn't mean that you have to be her friend or say anything to her at all...you dont even have to look her way just make sure you dont hold that against her....
2007-05-31 14:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kay Kay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't lose if you forgive her. But if you're really that mad at her, then maybe just don't be friends with her but forgive her, still.
2007-05-31 14:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would call her and talk to her about it and ask her is it tru that she was spreading these rumors about you. it is your choice if you want to forgive her because these were rumors about you and no one else so it is your decision.
hope you take my advice!!!!!!!! vforgive her but that would be something to never forget though
2007-05-31 14:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by T0p N0tc# Gl@m0ur C#iick!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may forgive, but you should not forget. Do not hold hatrish in your heart, but you don't have to relate to her at all.
2007-05-31 14:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋