ok i love my dad because hes my dad but he never calls me or never sees me what should i do
2007-05-31 14:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should tell him that you miss him and that it would be nice if he called. Tell him that you'd like to spend more quality time w/ him. Just be honest.
2007-05-31 14:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by michele a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're living with your mom, maybe he's angry with her.
Is there a chance that he thinks that you don't care about him anymore?
Maybe you did/said something that upset him that you weren't aware of.
Do you think your mom might have told him something that might be keeping him away.
To be perfectly honest, this situation is not for guessing games. Why not call HIM and let him know that he's important to you.
You might be at an age where he's not quite sure what you'd like to do.... so make a list of things you'd like to do with him and suggest ... you can suggest right down to the day and time, if necessary. Then there will be NO doubt in his mind.
2007-05-31 21:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by K In the House 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with mine
he hasnt really been in my life and actually has a brand new family with his new wife. it hurts doesnt it?
I am now 24 and still hurting from not having a father in my life and I envy people that have em.
I try to contact him once a week now and talk with him when I can - I evenmake the effort to drive out there where he lives 2 hours away just to be with him so taht we can at least say hi to one another.
try calling him yourself
make a date for you two - just you too-
and talk it out tell him everything that bothers you and how it makes you feel
I did that with mine and actually it helped us both
lots of crying and being sorry for both of us not being there for one another.
i'm sure he cares about you just maybe doesnt think about it as much if your parents are separated.
make time for him at least once a week even to just sit and wtch a movie if nothing else
good luck and let me know how it turns out!
2007-05-31 21:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should call him and ask if if he would like to see a movie or go to the park it all depends on how old you are
2007-05-31 21:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by imani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and ask him to plan a you and him day....
2007-06-01 07:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you could elaborate we could answer better.
2007-05-31 21:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋