I know this guy named anthony for 3 days & on the third day he fingered me... i dont really love him but i "lust him" im 13 & dont biitch about it thanks. well he has a girlfriend who he doesnt see that much. i dont think he loves her and they have only made out... i cant be his gurl cuz i live 1 hr away. he wanted to have sex with me for his birthday but i wouldnt and then he was bragging to his friend that he was gonna DO me for his birthday.. n i was like noooooo i am not quit lyin.... wll the friend he was braggin to, his birthday was a few days ago.
So anthony has got this guy jassiel asking if i would screw him for his birthday and they are both askin when they are gonna gonna get their present. i told them i would kiss them 4 their bday tho but they are still askin bout their PRESENT.
what should i say to them? they are both soooo hot but how do i get it thru their heads i dont wanna screw them???
what would you do?
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2007-05-31 14:26:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell them to grow up! It's your choice if you want to have sex with them or not, and you dont. SO they shouldn't be stressing the fact that theyre going to have sex with you if they arn't. Tell them if they keep it uo you'll quit speaking with them both all together.
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2007-05-31 14:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the bottom line is he has no respect for you.... this is reason enough for you to not even be friends with him let alone having sex with him. I know that the attention is nice, thats what drives us as teenagers.... but bottom line, he DOES NOT RESPECT YOU!! End it now...
As far as having sex when your 13, Biologically I think your ready, but the biggest problem I see is that most men aren't responsible enough to respect you, and do the right thing. So if you could find a respectful man, he will want to wait til you want it, and then it will be good.
Its not the age, its just the maturity level that I worry about.
Good luck hun. You should learn how to do some of the stuff on your own..... so maybe it will help you wait 4 Mr. Mature.
good luck.
2007-05-31 21:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by cody o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all - NEVER end up alone with either of these two perverts. God knows what they might do if they won't take NO for an answer...
If you ever do end up in that situation (let's hope not!!!) - a swift kick in the family jewels will let you get away long enough to get someplace safe, and the chance to call the police to press rape charges.
It doesn't matter how hot they are - their behavior will NEVER change if you give in to their wishes. Give them both the birthday present they deserve - to spend it ALONE with the "palm sisters" ;););)
2007-05-31 21:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, fun stuff. Just keep saying no. But say it in such a way that you keep their interest. If you like them, then make it seem like maybe at some point in the future you will screw them. Be a tease, if you want. I totally know what you are going through. I'll IM you and tell you what happened to me and how I dealt with it.
2007-05-31 21:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they keep pushing for that, get ur parents involved. Don't give into looks, a lust relationship usually will not last. Otherwise if you live near IL, I can come over with a shotgun and scare them a away.
2007-05-31 21:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by shattereddestiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them no, and if they pressure you, tell them you will report them for attempted rape. I know you are only 13, but that is horrible. You have only known him for 3 days. Honey, that is not good. You are in a very bad situation, and by letting him finger you, that led him on, and that gives him permission to think he can do many other things to you. That is not good! Whatever you do, don't do it! By telling them you'd kiss them, that leading them on also. Tell them you hardly know them, and once you get to know them better, maybe some sparks will fly. But for now, tell them no! [Wait till you are old, hun!]
2007-05-31 21:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by Caiti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a looser,only 13 and already guys are talking to you as a hoe. Stop chasing guys,find out your worth first,if not you'll go thru life being a LOOSER.
2007-05-31 22:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. No only are you too young (lots of time for that), but they are too young to respect you--especially if you do. Early girls tend to be very much disrespected and it's remembered forever.
2007-05-31 21:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by imgma2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13?what would you be doing at 25?Your language is foul and so is your behavior.I would wait till I grow up,
2007-05-31 21:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you think they are hot, but you dont want to screw them for whatever reason(AGE, ect....)
2007-05-31 21:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by sweetone11211 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋