My mother's funeral was yesturday, and i was wondering if there was any possible way to reach the dead? She meant the world to me, and i feel so lost without her!
2007-05-31 14:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is always with you hun
you cannot talk with her
sorry for your loss but the only thing you can do now is remember the good times you had with her
cry it out because if not you will get sick and you dont want that to happen
she will come to you in your dreams and let you know that it will be alright
2007-05-31 15:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I lost my father when I was 6 months pregnant. I was completely lost. The night my son was born was a very hectic and scary one. He was a preemie, and had some complications during labor. I ended up having an emergency c-section. I was scared to death. When all was said and done, he was fine (he's a very healthy, active 5 yr old now). The point is, my father never even entered my mind, only my son occupied it that day. When I finally went to sleep that night, my dad came to me and was smiling and gave me a big bouquet of red roses (my favorite). After that day, whenever I felt like talking to him, I just did. It's strange the ways they let you know they are around. Some will call it coincidence, but until they can prove me wrong, I will always believe it is him letting me know he's watching over me.
I'm so sorry for your loss, but in my heart I believe they never really go away. Just talk to her. It may seem weird at first, but it does help.
2007-05-31 22:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always be with you, but sorry, no you can't have anymore conversations with her. For now, if you need to - go ahead and talk to her - it may make you feel better. My father passed away 4 years ago. I don't dream of him often, but I cherish those dreams I do have -- It is the closest I will ever have to "new" - sometimes so real - memories of him. I understand your loss and pain. I can only say that it does get easier with time. Yes, you will always miss her and feel pain for her passing, but eventually breathing and living without her will become easier. Take care.
2007-05-31 22:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by KaseyT33 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never stop talking to her. Trust me, she hears every word. when the time is right and she knows you are ready to accept her she will show herself in ways such as.....her favorite scent you may smell, you may see her favorite animal appear for no reason. - After my Aunt died ( a lover of dragonflies) every now and again when I may feel down or need a lift in spirit, out of nowhere a dragon fly will appear. similar things have happend with others I know as well. but I think you have to be spiritually ready to handle it. Just keep your eyes, heart, and mind open. Her energy is all around you.
2007-05-31 23:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely believe you can still talk to your mom. Her spirit will always be with you. A part of her will always be with you in your heart. You can also write in a journal and write down things you would like to tell her.
2007-05-31 22:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by tennis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is with you this very second. Talk to her and she will send you little signs that she is listening and that she is there for you. You still have your mother with you even if not the way you persieve it.
2007-05-31 22:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by lauralee29 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your mom will always be in your heart.she Will never leave you.if you search inside your heart you will feel her.trust me.
2007-06-01 09:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by JLT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure... but u gotta give her some time... she must be very tired of the funeral...... she just died.... she could use some peace now..... don't think she wants to talk now.... just leave her alone
2007-05-31 22:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mia_Wallace 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. There is no way to talk to some one who has died.
2007-05-31 21:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋