Why do GUYS get SHY with me? like nervous?
even the most courageous guys, cocky guys, confident guys, they get shy once they get with me like when we start dating..they start off a little aggressive than they become like a little kitten from a fiery tiger..I mean they can't hold my hand, kiss me, hug me, without asking me or getting nervous and shy..
I mean I dont think I am intimidating..I am very sweet (i buy suprise gifts to my bfs, very affectionate and flirty..I treat them like king basically.)
2007-05-31 13:39:13 · 26 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must be drop dead gorgeous
2007-05-31 13:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
My first thought was the same as bouncybaby's: You must be "drop-dead gorgeous," to the point of making your guys fear that they're playing out of their league.
And then I saw another possibility: There really are "sensitive New Age guys" out there, and a lot of others that hope you'll think they are. So maybe they're trying to be polite, while internally salivating. You said in your other version of this question (see link below) that they back off "like when we start dating," which would tend to support this; they've got things started, and don't want to mess it up.
In either case, let me offer you a few lines of dialog: "You're ASKing me if you can hold my HAND, Mike? [Smiling broadly:] I'm insulted; I really thought you couldn't keep your hands off me if you tried. [NOT smiling:] Don't worry--I'll let you know before you go too far!"
If at that point your face is close enough to be kissed, he'll almost certainly kiss you.
2007-05-31 14:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't you think you're getting a little too obsessive about how others perceive you?. Every good start begins in oneself. Don't judge an entire nation just by a few citizens. Give yourself the time to look and review the aspects of your persona that may need a little re-adjustment, in order to eliminate the sensation of shyness you get from the boys you date.
2007-05-31 13:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are really nervious around there girls. Most of the time they don't want to make a mistake to make you break up with them. If you feel this way tell them that its ok hold my hand, kiss me, hug me, without asking me or whatever they are really shy about.
hope that helped,
chocolatehead7744
2007-05-31 13:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatehead7744 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a very sweet person, they may think that they have to ask permission so that you do not get offended. Also, you have to think about their level of maturity. If you are more mature than them and they know about it, they will be intimidated. I do not know what to recommend you, but I am sure that if you try talking to those that want to listen to you, you may find what you want.
2007-05-31 13:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN never want to be aggressive and lose a girl they really like.
And you must be fine and sexy for guys to be shy around them
Just tell the guys who like you to be more aggressive if that's what you want
2007-05-31 13:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never met an intimidating girl in my life.. you would be quite an experience..
2 of my exs were business women ( fierce ) , I see all men acting submissive in front of them. I feel bad for those men..
2007-05-31 13:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Is it ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way it is respect. A guy who does that respects you.they want to know it is OK, your body language might give them different answers. mix signals if you will, with your body. Is it really about respecting you. They must like you and want to treat you like a lady instead of some one they just want to jump in to bed with and leave.
2007-05-31 13:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by sassylassy2876 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't want to screw up the new relationship but looking like an asshole. This is the critical make or break phase of the relationship. Everything is riding on this so that you may ride on us.
2007-05-31 13:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're probably real pretty. That would scare me. Face it. Girls rule but if you are really friendly, cut up and give him a kiss every once in a while, who knows?
2007-05-31 14:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Michael A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooo la la.Girl you sound like you exude sensuality and sweat confidence.If only I wasn't into my likeness.hehe.You must be to much for most men!
2007-05-31 13:54:37 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋