Last year, there was this girl in my English class and I really liked for ever since junior high. Then I was doing this public speak thing and I confessed to her at the end in front of the class. Yaya the whole class was like laughing and **** and this girl now knows that I like her. From that day on, her and I talked about stuff whenever we met in the hallways but I was just too retarded back then and I was afraid to ask her out
It's been a year and 5 month. Ever since this school year started, we havent talked to each other at all. Whenever we meet in the hallway, we just walk past and pretend not seeing each other. She's in her senior year and I'm in my junior year and she's graduating high school in 11 days.
I need some tips guys I'm gonna ask her out but I just dont know how >_< help me...
2007-05-31 15:35:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out. Go for it. It's probably your last chance. You've got nothing to lose. Good luck! ^_^
2007-05-31 15:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before making a fool of yourself, see if you can find out if she is already seeing somebody. If a girl really likes you, she would at least say hi to you in the hallway and try to find excuses to talk to you (even if it is something not important). But she may just think you are not interested. You might try getting a couple of your friends to join you with her and a couple of her friends to go to out for dinner for an end of school year party (or some other excuse); this way when you invite her it doesn't sound like its a date. Make certain you sit next to or across from her, and dude; pick buddies that are not interested in the same girl! If you get allong well with her and she seems to really like you, you could be fairly safe that she would accept a date from you. If things don't go well, you don't ask her out, and she will never know the real reason for the get together. Life would be so much easier if girls weren't so shy about asking guys out; I bet they'd hardly ever be turned down.
2007-05-31 16:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lame.
Be a man and talk to her. What's the worst that can happen? If she says no, things will just remain the same as they are now - no big deal..
Anyway, it's pretty rare for an older chick to be interested in a younger guy - especially at your age. A tough fact to acknowledge, but you'll get over it. Chase something else and don't waste your time dreaming about one girl. Many more fishies out there.
2007-05-31 15:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date somebody you have to ask. Sitting around sending put signals is game playing and very few people get far in love by playing games. Take a chance, at this point you have little to lose except the happy feeling of having a crush, and you have everything to gain including, maybe, love!
2007-05-31 15:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by hartbreaker00003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man...what do you have to lose?
The worst that can happen is she's not interested and says no...boo hoo...I think you can survive that...but to not ask and let her walk away and to be snatched up by another when she really would have liked to gone out with you....but you never asked so she had to move on. Come on man...you're not a little boy anymore...get a spine...you can do it.
2007-05-31 15:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, apologize to her for your public confession years ago. Then tell her that you still have feelings for her and would like to see if things could progress. I'm sure she'll appreciate your honesty and straightforwardness, she may just be nervous since your confession.
2007-05-31 15:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should write her a letter explaining urself. Then get back to the 'friends' stage, and THEn ask her out while u go out with hers and ur friends.
Wish u the best!.
2007-05-31 15:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest and brave and go ahead and just call her up or walk up to her and talk to her or you'll regret passing up the chance. you guys aren't strangers so maybe just revisit some old memories to get you started in a good conversation.
2007-05-31 15:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAR BOOK!!! its corny but a great way to talk to her. Either write it in her book or attached a card or something. You have 11 days... so go on and make your move.
2007-05-31 15:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
daaam homie u waited too long. Most girls i kno dont wanna start new relationships when sku's almost out. But trying wont hurt u so yea, go for it.
2007-05-31 15:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by SplitSecondz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋