hate mom, what do i do?

Answer 1

grow up??

Answer 2

You need to figure out why you hate your mom and talk to someone about it. If you hate your mom because she won't let you do things that she thinks aren't in your best interest it is because she loves you and cares about you.

Answer 3

You know, I lost my Mom at 11, and I swear I used to go crazy on people who would say they hate their Mom. I would lecture them about how they had no idea how lucky they were to have their Mom while some people cry everynight for her. But when I was in the 8th grade I met my very best friend, Heather. We grew up together, we shared everything, even the dislike of her mother. Her mother would drink and hit on her and cuss at her, never cooked her dinner, would send her to our house for days on end.

When we graduated high school, I cried so hard, Heather cried too. I cried because I missed my Mom, Heather cried because she missed her Mom. Two daughters weeping for their Mothers and neither one were there. My Mom because God called her years ago, Heather's Mom because she just didn't care. Ironic huh? Heather always loved my Dad to an extent that she stayed with us at his bed side when we were 18 and he passed. My Dad had become her Dad. He loved her like he loved me.After my Dad died, Heather realized that she needed to get to know her Mom, or at least understand her so that she could forgive her. If not for her Mom's sake then for her own.

She has since told me that she feels so guilty and selfish for using those words "I hate my Mom" in any way around me, even though she knew I understood. She knew that I would never again have the opportunity to feel any emotion toward my Mom ever again, and she should be greatful that she still had time to mend her broken relationship. Heather and her Mom have a much better relationship now, but it took a lot on both parts.

You need to realize how lucky you are to have the option of turning things around and give your Mom a chance. Mom's aren't like husbands, you can't divorce them and find a new one, you are given one and you just have to make it work, no matter how hard it is. Your Mom gave you life my dear, she can't be all bad.

Looking at people like you, who feel this way though does make me grateful. Even though I only had 11 short years with my Mom and 18 what seemed even shorter with my Dad, I wouldn't trade my life and it's series of events for anything in this world. My parents were amazing people, and I couldn't have been any more blessed to have them. Truly, they have enstilled so much of their love in me to last a hundred life times.

Good luck and I hope you get a chance to work things out with you Mom before it's too late.

Answer 4

You don't hate your mother.I am sure you love her very much.Your mother probably just did or said something you didn't like.Get yourself together and calm down.After you have done that sit and really thing about what happened.Look at both sides of the situation.Then go ask your mom if the two of you can have a talk.Talk to her about how you feel.Don't get mad and start screaming just talk.You will feel better in no time.

Answer 5

why do you hate your mom? when I was teenager I hated my mom too...but time and life changes your view and you see things in another way that you could not see before. I really regret harboring those negative feelings because it only hurt me more for doing so. Eventually I asked her for forgiveness. I have peace about it all now although she has not changed much for why I hated her.

Answer 6

There is nothing to do but find a way to rekindle the relationship and love your mother, after all she brought you into this world and blood is always thicker than water. So ask your mom out for a date and talk things over.

Answer 7

Any explainable reason you feel this way?
Do you just feel this way because she's butting into your personal life, which is natural. Meaning they CARE! or because she disciplines you and you hate it when she does that? Mothers are tend to be that way because they care about their kids....but IF she is abusing you, not fulfulling her responsibilty as a mother, ex. an alcoholic or doing any sort of drugs, I see why you feel this way towards her.


Try to talk to her before it's too late. Tell her how you feel, but in a respectful way. Arguments won't solve anything.

Answer 8

You get over your hate, Take it from someone who has perhaps missed a chance with their mother.

Your mother is the most important person in your life, Get passed your hate and make things work.

Answer 9

The question is, why do you hate her? She has done a lot in your life, and you should be grateful for that. If she didn't exist, neither would you.

Communicate with her, and tell her how you feel, as well as why you feel the way you do. Hopefully you can resolve this.

Answer 10

Hate is a very strong word. Either you define what it means to you and your mom. OR you seek couseling to determine why you would feel this strong emotion with another human being........Especially your mom.

Answer 11

you hate the perosn that...

1. carried you for nine months
2.went thro pain to get you into this ****** world
3.cares about you soooo much
4.would never let anything bad happen to you
5.never means any harm just wants the best for you

i bet all she did was tell you no or something...well grow up you prissy brat!!!
you and your mom are always gonna have mother daughter wars....we all go through it...but what if your mom died tommorow...or tonight???
or what if your daughter ever said she hated you...someone you love sooo much and care about sooo much hating you...

think about that before you say it!!!