Within the first month we had moved so far so fast; the relationship feels very comfortable and it just feels so evolved. We talk on the phone lots, and conversation is of that of many couples I would assume. But lately shes been telling me that she cant live off hope and that it hurts her when I say that I want to hold her or hug her, etc. This hurts her because I cant drive so the time we physically see each other is limited. She knows I mean what I say but it hurts her for me to say it and not be able to do it.
She considered taking some time apart for this. No phone calls what so ever, but if any contact writing letters to each other. (to kinda spread out what we have to say over time) I believe that essentially she dosent want what we say to lose meaning. I understand where shes coming from but I wonder if its being pessimistic to the future. I'll be able to drive within a month to a month and a half and Im wondering if we should have stuck through or stick with the plan we made
2007-05-31 12:24:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, we are 19 and 21 (almost 22) and she's older than me.
We've talked about how we have been through the really bad relationships and how this was a breath of fresh air.
I just dont see how something so well can end up like this. I believe it may wrap into the feeling that this feels so right its wrong. Since we've had all the crap we subliminally believe that its going to end up the same way. Its picking at the bone to find something wrong when everything seems so right.
2007-05-31 12:45:45 · update #1
Time off NEVER strengthens a relationship!
2007-05-31 12:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 10:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by aharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need time apart. If she can't live off hope then thank goodness you aren't wed, or off to war or really laid up for some time, what would she do then? Sounds like she needs a little growing up first.
2007-05-31 12:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by kittycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to date someone else. Any girl who really likes a boy can wait 4 weeks.
2007-05-31 12:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not going to work out and it wont last i dont want to seem pesemistic but you seem to offer a lot. Why would she not want to tlak to you ? Verrrrry awkward. Just end it
2007-05-31 12:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by HELP ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋