one of my friends keeps telling every1 who i like & every time im talking to him she comes over and makes a dumb comment. ive told her to shut up about it but she always says that im over reacting. what should i do?
2007-05-31 12:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
rat on her to guys she likes!
2007-05-31 12:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by spjp p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes having that control. Tell her you may be overreacting, but thats how you feel and its upsetting you. When someone doesnt realise theyre hurting you and they care, they tend to back down once you have said so. If she then dismisses your feelings then she is definatly in the wrong. She doesn't respect you and does not value your friendship.
Tell her. Don't let her control that converstaion, be direct and to the point, don't get cross, stay calm and do it in private, tell her if she ignores what you have said, you won't be able to share anything with her anymore. She just really likes the attention of knowing the gossip and being involved in it. Lots of girls do.
Good luck.
xx
2007-05-31 19:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she's being rude and immature. and when you're talking to the guy you like and she comes over and makes a dumb comment, just tell him that she has personal issues and to just ignore her. and both of you ignore her. when she see's that she's not getting the attention that she's obviously looking for, she'll quit!
Good Luck
2007-05-31 19:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop and tell her how you really feel and if she doesn't stop doing it then you should not be her friend anymore a real friend respects your wishes whether it is bad or good.
2007-05-31 19:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch her in the face. Joking
Why is she your friend?
Dont tell her who you like and maybe she will stop blabbing. She is probably just jellous and is trying to make you look bad.
If that doesnt work, punch her in the face
2007-05-31 19:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by satans_lollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stop telling her who you like and if she still makes those comments talk to her about it and if she doesn't take it serious then blow her off for a week or something
2007-05-31 19:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Garrette H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and be really serious with her. Tell her how you feel and that you told her about it before and that you'd appriciated if she'd take your feelings seriously.
2007-05-31 19:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Fefe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how much this upset you and that it embarrass you, and if she continues to tell people you will no longer trust her with anything and discontinue your friendship.
2007-05-31 19:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit telling her who you like.
2007-05-31 19:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell you friend how u feel
if you friend continues, maybe he/she isn't the right person you should be hanging out with?
2007-05-31 19:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Li Lian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is how you do it first apologize to the girls and tell them that hes and idiot and hes the one who likes you and tell everyone that he likes the girls he siad you like and that will stop him for sure
2007-05-31 19:38:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋