Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

2007-05-31 11:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by kc_fan06 1 in Singles & Dating

she's married. We talk more than once per day and found that we have lots in common. We talk are also very attracted to each other and think the other's hot. We seriously want to act on our feelings and desires but feel we shouln't. Her husband does know about me and also allows her to see me but really isn't ok with as it as you would expect . I feel like a horrible person for possibly hurting a couple's marriage. Any comments and/or questions? Please be honest.

2007-05-31 11:06:45 · 23 answers · asked by Bones00 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My reception site only holds 600 and at the moment we have a 700 person guest list. My father hasn't even added his list to the master list and I am beginning to freak out. I have some time before the wedding, but I have no idea where to begin cutting. Any ideas?

2007-05-31 11:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by SMLB78 1 in Weddings

I work to pay for school and ever since I have started school It feels like my social life has come to a stop. I have a couple girls in mind who I would love to take out and have a good time, but everything I can think of cost money and more than I want to spend. Can any one give me some cheap but nice date ideas? Thanks

2007-05-31 11:01:04 · 22 answers · asked by zakd55 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a super girly girl but I don't like any of the other girly girls in my class. all of my friends are like tomboys. But they never like what I really like!

What should I do?

2007-05-31 10:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm wanting to get about 100 glass votives for my wedding and needing a good price. Does anyone know of a website or store that might have what I need? If you've ever bought from a place online let me know how satisfied you were with your purchase. Thanks!

2007-05-31 10:58:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

When my ex guy had gotten his cell phone, he did the same thing. I found out he was meeting these girls from myspace at the local gas station and screwing them in their cars down the street. I called the wedding off after I had had enough og him leaving me and my daughter at home so he could "have fun".

2007-05-31 10:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boy friend who am engaged to cheated and i found out. he finally told me the truth. I have chose to stay and try and work this out. but dont know how? Help!

2007-05-31 10:52:51 · 31 answers · asked by Heather P 1 in Singles & Dating

im serious im 18 and she 14 and we've been together 2 weeks, and alla sudden she out of the blue started asking me these sex questions on the phone, and at first im finding this weird and then shes like I wanna have phone sex...and im like"this is weird" she like i wanna hear u moan

okay i kno this sounds like a load of bullshit but i really like this girl and i feel like shes messin with me, i mean we havent talked in three days and then shes on the phone wanting phone sex...does anyone kno why??? or even kno if shes serious???

i need an explaination

2007-05-31 10:52:36 · 28 answers · asked by That guy 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyone treats me as if im a cute little girl just cuz i like to smile a lot.
i want to be treated differently like im a mature teenager that way everyone takes me seriously.

i admit it, im not indpendent most of the time cuz i dont know a lot of people so i follow my friends but i want people to take me seriously and like me, i dont know how?

2007-05-31 10:50:16 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-05-31 10:47:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm friends w/ this girl, who use to know i had a crush on her. i really love her now, but she has a bf, who isn't very supportive of her so she comes to me with her emotional issues. i asked her for advice about this girl i found out likes me. the girl i like said
"go for it, just make sure u aren't involved with anyone else first. It's amazing how much someone can like another person but not be willing to make the move. It's amazing how many people you might be able to get with who you won't get with because you think you have no chance. But actually you do have a chance. Take those chances :)"
then i said what if u like a person who is inv. with someone else, she said "so what if they are in a relationship? maybe they aren't happy. u should at least tell her."
does she know that i am talking about her? what should i do?

2007-05-31 10:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been having trouble for years. I have cheated on him 3 times (same guy). He knows about 2 of them and still wanted to stay and work things out. I love the other guy and we have started "seeing" each other again.
Hubby is very possessive and I feel like he is smothering me. He always has to know where I am going and when I'll be back. He calls me 4 times a day just to check on me. I haven't worked in over 10 years because he says he is the one who is supposed to bring in the money.
I just want to be happy is there anything wrong with that?
Any ideas?

2007-05-31 10:45:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok my ex has my son for the school year...now i will be getting him for the summer...this is the first year of this arrangemet...previously I had him on the weekends and she had him during the week...my question is..should i still pay child support during the summer when i have him full time?? I'm not even asking for her to pay me during this time... I just dont think its fair to pay her when i have my son. What do you think?? And how should I bring this up without sounding like an *** to her?

2007-05-31 10:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by drbramucci 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok short version my son is about to be 15, he is pretty mature for his age and had a relationship with a girl for 8 months. in that time she cheated on him and twisted his head until he fell into a huge depression, threatened to commit suicide and ran away. when i could not find him , i called the police to help me look, i was scared he did something to himself and didnt want to find him that way. anyway he recieved help and months later met another girl , whom i like very much , yesterday she was supossed to come over ,. when we arrived to pick her up she had left with her sister. that was at 10 am, later that day around 2ish she was still off and called and said her sister and her were fishing...long story short we went to town and when we passed her house she was with another guy, my son talked to her she assured him the guy was with her sister and come 10 thirty at night she is alone with this guy and at his house watching movies.she cried said sorry and he is ready to .....

2007-05-31 10:38:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so i want to somehow trick my girfriend into cheating on me so i can dump her ***. I cant just break up with her because that wont make her look like the slimey piece uterus she is. I want everyone to know what a dirty dirtball she is. I was thinking of hiring a french guy to woo her with a stupid accent. Please give me good ideas. i want to watch that ho squirm. Oh yeah, if i can somehow get it on tape..BONUS POINTS!!! then i can show her family and my grandma

2007-05-31 10:38:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think i am a bit down in the dumps!!

2007-05-31 10:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by bornagainandy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is marriage supposed to be like?
I feel so miserable, remembering the past and present issues, and even just the issues with him.
I feel like I can't talk with him, especially when he walks away when I'm trying to explain how I feel about the things that upset me. It's like I'm not supposed to get upset, sad, or mad at his **** all these years.
He tells me things and does things that really upset me and acts like he doesn't care, and like I'm supposed to get over it (all the stuff he says and does).
I don't want to see a counselor with him, because I've been there done that and I don't want to go through a third or fourth party taking sides anymore. I don't mind so much me going to mine and him going to his, but not together.
If I call it quits, how do I go about gaining control of my life, self respect, and some dignity?
If I stay, how do I get him to understand and respect me? And is there anything else that I can try (that I haven't already)?

2007-05-31 10:38:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-31 10:37:39 · 11 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 10:37:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

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2007-05-31 10:34:59 · 34 answers · asked by Megan N 2 in Singles & Dating

These are t-shirts for my single girlfriends.

2007-05-31 10:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by Renee W 2 in Weddings

2007-05-31 10:33:02 · 10 answers · asked by richele152 2 in Weddings

Since I was a child I wanted to be a pro chef. I loved cooking since I can remember. I just don't want to impose it on my wife. She hasn't said anything and seems to like it but I do wonder if it makes her feel any less "womanly" (not trying to be sexist).

Should I give up the pans sometime? She does seem to smile a lot at what I cook.....

I just need some anonymous female advice.

2007-05-31 10:32:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some serious help...I am about ready to call a 9 year relationship off and cut me losses...Here is the case: He is 26 I am 33.. we have 2 sons together..during our first few years we had sex maybe once a week then it went to once a month. I belived something must of happen in his childhood that made him maybe resent sex but all that changed the day I found out he had been having an affair with the town Slut! I was devestated to say the least. I have trusted and belived in this man and now 2 kids later...I couldn't accept the fact that he left me and I did everything right...I waited his affair of course did not work out..We have tried to get things right but its just impossible...I cant forget the pain he caused and the betrayal and not to say we have NO SEX Now...I have to practically BEG!!! I have asked him several times if he is still cheating he says no. I am a very attractive, educated person with a man who thinks I am nothing but his kids mom!!! Do I leave? Do I cheat?

2007-05-31 10:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by r_greeneyes_2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wan to know if my freind got put in Juvie where can i find that out for free besides him, his fam. or freinds?????? and if he is in Juvie is there anyway to get ahold of him there?????

2007-05-31 10:27:53 · 4 answers · asked by got.to.get.over.him. =] 2 in Friends

Is it normal to continually help your ex-wife? (i.e. lend her your car, fix her car lend her money) and let her treat you like sh*t. Every two weeks he is doing something for her and then tells her he’s not going to help her with it again yet he always does. He’s not really nice to her or anything. She'll be rude to him and has to have things her way there is no compromising with the woman. The relationship ended because she cheated on him and he gave her another chance and she continued to cheat on him. So he got a divorce. And she tells her friends she want's to have another kid with him. He doesn’t want anything to do with her like that. They have one and he has full custody and I know the custody thing isn’t an issue. He says he hates her. Being nice and letting her take advantage of him is just easier? I just don’t understand.

2007-05-31 10:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by sugar_lumpkin84 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy kept telling me how domestic he was. Just things like he can cook and cleans. Why would a guy keep saying that?

2007-05-31 10:24:19 · 40 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

It used to be 3 of us, always together everywhere we went. Then I started dating a guy neither one of them thought was good for me. (BTW, this was 5 years ago and I am still with him) They both alienated me and I ended up cutting them both out my life. One of the girls I have known since I was 12 and the other I just met in college. I could care less about the college friend because the things she has done but my best friend, I miss. I introduced them and they didn’t even like each other at the beginning, I had to practically beg them to hang together. I think maybe the college friend did some brain washing and turned my best friend against me. I have heard tons of rumors on things they’ve said about what actually went down and I’m over it. I really want to know if there is a way I could mend my friendship with my best friend. The only problem is that she is now best friends with the college friend. How do I mend one friendship and not the other?

2007-05-31 10:22:54 · 7 answers · asked by SexyMommy2B 4 in Friends

My husband and I have been maried for 2 1/2 years. I love him very very much but lately I feel like he may be up to something. In Feb. of this year he was beat up in a bar pretty badly and swears that he did nothing to provoke and has no clue what could have happened but then he admitted that he was drunk and was dancing with some girls. Last week he didn't come home and at 3 in the morning I called the cell and I heard some chick in the background yelling "he's with his F***ing friends". When he got home I asked him who that chick was and he said that she was some girl in the parking lot who was really drunk and the cops came to take her away. Then today he left a note saying that he was going to a friends house but when I stoped to see if I could get some money from him he wasn't there. He said he would be home by 3:30 and he's not home a hour later.
Would any body else suspect that he is cheating and how should I go about aproaching him? thanx for the advice.

2007-05-31 10:21:51 · 19 answers · asked by Alicia G 5 in Marriage & Divorce