i'm friends w/ this girl, who use to know i had a crush on her. i really love her now, but she has a bf, who isn't very supportive of her so she comes to me with her emotional issues. i asked her for advice about this girl i found out likes me. the girl i like said
"go for it, just make sure u aren't involved with anyone else first. It's amazing how much someone can like another person but not be willing to make the move. It's amazing how many people you might be able to get with who you won't get with because you think you have no chance. But actually you do have a chance. Take those chances :)"
then i said what if u like a person who is inv. with someone else, she said "so what if they are in a relationship? maybe they aren't happy. u should at least tell her."
does she know that i am talking about her? what should i do?
2007-05-31 10:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by the w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her how you feel. Maybe she does know and she told you what she did to give you hints and stuff. Maybe she is not happy with her relationship.
2007-05-31 10:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Chicana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she knows. I am sure she's clueless. I say go for the uninvolved girls and have a reciprocal relationship. If, in the future, this girl is single and you are too, go for it!
If you go for it now, you have to contend with the (ex)boyfriend, her wishy washy feelings, and never being on even footing with her. If she was so unhappy with him, she'd dump him without the assistance of a third party! Who wants that in a woman?
2007-05-31 10:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by pola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been in this similar situation . . . when a woman thinks of you as her best friend, you MIGHT have a chance, but if she says you are like a brother to her, then you can hang it up. If she's not "catching on" to your advances, then, I'm sorry, but maybe she's just not that into you.
2007-05-31 10:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by claimsadjuster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sit down and talk to her, be more supportive than anything. Tell her that you will be there for her every step of the way. Telling her that you want to be with her may impose to her that you are impatient, jealous or anxious. Don't portray that message, trust me, just tell her how you feel, tell her your there for her, and if she has any troubles at all, for her to call you ANYTIME. Hope this helps.
2007-05-31 10:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by boychuka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should take a chance with her if you are in love with her, even though she has another boyfriend. Relationships come and go; they fail, they erode. You have a chance, believe it. Make your move.
2007-05-31 10:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she takes her own advice, she seems very open to the possibility of taking things further with you. But she has to break up with her boyfriend, it's only fair and respectful to you and the other guy.
2007-05-31 10:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she know.? From that conversation, not only would I say YES, but she's also saying if you were to get around to actually asking her out, she would say OK.
What are you waiting for? If you truely feel you love her, you need to do something about it.
2007-05-31 10:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dosen't have a clue. Stay away from chicks in relationships unless you want all sorts of trouble.
2007-05-31 10:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by EDizzle03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does know. Let me tell u something....SOMETIMES US GIRLS ACT DUMB CUZ WE WANT TO SEE IF UR MAN ENOUGH TO LET US KNOW U LIKE US, WE WANT U TO BE THE ONE WHO MAKES THE FIRST MOVE. THATS WHAT SHE WANTS SHES NOT HAPPY W/ THAT ONE OTHER GUY THATS Y SHE GOES TO U. tELL HER U WONT LOOSE NOTHING
2007-05-31 10:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by blush3110 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just tell her, but let her make her choice of to break up with him or not
2007-05-31 10:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋