Family & Relationships - 31 May 2007

im really in love wit this boy he knows i asaked him out he siad no but 4 some reason i cant get over him i need help or some way 2 get over him. Cause me nd him will never get 2 go out!!!!!!!

2007-05-31 08:55:38 · 21 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

without looks being a factor, what can i say to make a girl feel aww, i love this boy!!!

2007-05-31 08:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want gift cards BUT ONLY from people that can afford it and want to give wholeheartedly with good feelings. I figured if I state "Please no gifts" then people who really want to give will give. Will that work? I am so confused. I am still a student and I can really use money or gift cards. But, at the same time
I don't want anyone to feel obligated.

If I don't state anything on the card, many people might give me recycled gifts and I will be under their obligation. If I state "Please no boxed gifts" then everyone will feel obligated to bring me gifts. Please help!

2007-05-31 08:52:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We're planning on taking our boys to a theme park this summer. This is the first time we've ever taken them to something so big.They're 8,7 and 4. I want to have a good plan in case we become seperated.
What tips do you have for keeping my kids safe without being overprotective?

2007-05-31 08:51:43 · 19 answers · asked by brwneyedgrl 6 in Family

what situations, places, ect this summer.... any questions ask me.

2007-05-31 08:51:29 · 5 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a step daughter by an ex- old lady who has four children by different men, all the kids are grown and know that my husband is not there biological father and has no children of his own. Two of the girls are the same age as me and have children and married one keeps calling my husband for money because she's on drugs and her husband is a bum
they can never keep a place they moved six times in two years.
And he really don't want to play dad any more with her but scared she'll do something stupid if he moves to fast.
this kid head is so screwed she believes that he want her to be a part of his life and we don't the husband don't even want her. And the mother really could care less cause that whole family is screwed

2007-05-31 08:48:53 · 16 answers · asked by charleene o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

On a daily basis she will come at me like she my mother, then some days she holds conversation normally, then another day she acting all smart alexy. What should I do? So far, I've just been doing my work and keeping to myself not even conversating with her. Is this the right thing to do?

2007-05-31 08:47:42 · 10 answers · asked by myzznetta 1 in Friends

First check out MySpace.com/PrestonsDough Boy and look at his pic and listen to the songs, tell me what u think
(there's no space between dough and boy, just did that cuz it wouldn't let me put it otherwise)
I'm 16 and I have a crush on him but I need u guys to critisize him as much as possible to convince me he's wrong and DON'T HOLD BACK!!! Here's some background info
-Said his d1ck is big enough to have lots of "b1tchez" on it.
-Says he'll only get with a girl if she has money
-Writes (and produces) rap songs about killing people and putting bullets through their heads
-Says girls can't help but love him
-Says that if u can't tell he's the best,then u need glasses
-Says he got more bitches than the halls of out school
-Says he likes to grab the girl's head and shoulders during sex
-Butt me in line at our school caf (in a mocking way)
-Makes fun of mentally challenged people (you know, pretends like they're friends just to tease)
-Says girls ain't **** but hoes and tricks
-Told one his best friends to close his eyes when he's looking at him
-Is always up in people's faces, pushing them around
-Wouldn't move when a girl was trying to get through the school doors
-Told this girl (in a nasty voice) to "Move"
-And stilled called this perfectly normal girl childish
-Says he'll "Puts ya'll in ya ****** place like a seatin plan"
-All his rap songs are threats and going on about how gangster and hard he is
Says he "fvcks b1tches with his best friend/cousin"

2007-05-31 08:46:44 · 10 answers · asked by Juliyah S 1 in Singles & Dating

You ask questions but never take the advice cause you only wanna see what other people have to say about your situation.

2007-05-31 08:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-31 08:45:38 · 2 answers · asked by Derek D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is this girl adn she knew that i liked thid guy and she still went for him and right as he was about to ask me out then she comes up to him and says he do you want to go out with me and he said well i was just about to ask her out and she goes great then we are going out and i want to mad at her and i think she did it on purpose but would you be mad at her if she did that to you?

2007-05-31 08:45:27 · 21 answers · asked by coltschick34 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-31 08:44:52 · 8 answers · asked by Ariadne on TAURUS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why does everyone seem to despise me even though I didn't do anything to deserve it?

2007-05-31 08:44:03 · 25 answers · asked by Will 5 in Friends

He's intelligent, sweet, romantic, protective, in other words.. a wonder.
I'm just plain old me. How can I feel worth being with him? I feel he's too much for me.

2007-05-31 08:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, now i'm sad. there was this guy okay, and we got along just fine and everything. we could just sit and email eachother and talk about stuff important to us. well, he told me he really liked my personality and asked for a picture. so i sent him one, okay so maybe it was like a year old, but i haven't changed...since i sent him the picture he hasn't emailed me or wanted to talk. is it because i'm ugly or what? I don't get it and i could use a little advice or support. thanks

2007-05-31 08:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Friends

Why is it that people feel that it is so necessary to share the one most important and intimate thing they have with any old person, other than the person they really truly love and will spend the rest of their life with? And why is it that that's all most people see as being the ultimate goal in a relationship and all they are concerned with? I think it's really sad and selfish to be honest. Whatever happened to trying to make the other person happy without the motivation being to get them into bed? And why is bragging about how many people you've slept with something to be proud of?

2007-05-31 08:37:24 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard that shaving your head is a liberating experience. I am tired of using Rogaine and Propecia, but I'm single and would like to continue to be able to mingle, without being outcasted for being bald.

I am considered handsome, kinda short, and my head is an average size. Hazel eyes and go to the gym (kinda nice body, just short)

DO I HAVE HOPE?

2007-05-31 08:35:34 · 2 answers · asked by sstepenk 2 in Singles & Dating

Right now while I'm typing I can hear girls going "OOOH YEAHHHH"

its hot. is this wrong? i feel perverted

2007-05-31 08:35:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think if you turely love someone it shouldn't matter the size of the ring or how big the wedding is. I think if you are ready to get married none of these things matter. There is always time to do it right. What ever happened to tying a sting around the finger and getting married in a field?? LOL!

2007-05-31 08:27:25 · 28 answers · asked by Scottie G 2 in Weddings

I told my brother that my stomach was hurting, & he got mad & yelled @ me, saying, "I HOPE u ain't been ovah eatin'!" 1st of all, I didn't even eat anything yet, & now it's 2:22 PM. I missed breakfast & lunch because of my stomach hurt. But the other day he complained about his stomach hurting. My stomach can be hurting for any reason. & I find what he said to be insulting because he's using my weight against me.

FYI, he's my brother & doesn't give a DAMN about me. I know because he'a always abusing me. He lays his hands on me, he steals from me, he yells @ me & puts me down, & he always gossips about me & thinks negatively of me. He even told me that he hates me so much that he wishes I was never born.

2007-05-31 08:25:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

got some great ideas for jackolantern centerpieces and blacklights under tables, and trick or treating around the hall for the kids. still looking for great ideas and could also use some ideas and sites for the reception costumes for me and my new hubby. want to keep it mask and face paintless( i know not real words but u get the idea) any suggestions..Thanx

2007-05-31 08:25:34 · 16 answers · asked by Geia 4 in Weddings

2007-05-31 08:24:37 · 5 answers · asked by G.C.Queen 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been going through a bad time recently. He has a great new job, but it is a very stressful one. I am supportive of him, understand his frustrations with work etc. But he has put up this wall, rarely shows affection (hugs, kind words).Not only this, but the things he says to me are hateful and hurtful. He is acting so strange. Things got so bad that I tried to get his attention by taking the kids and staying in a hotel. I was desperate to do something to wake him up. He just says "If you want to leave, then go." No "let's work this out - what can I do". I feel I have to walk on eggshells to avoid an argument. When I do say something he says "don't question me". I think alot of his stress has to do with money, but I don't push him to make money.I can't get out of the marriage for reasons I can't explain. Anyone have advice about any strategies that may work with him. Talking it out is getting me no where. I do love him; but my heart is turning cold to him.

2007-05-31 08:23:32 · 36 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is very mean sometimes for some reason( sometimes there are no reason) I don't know when he is upset with something he tells me that I should be "greatful" and "thankful" of him whatever he has done for me( we have a nice house, car and all essential things for a goodlife) since I am not working and taking care of a baby at home( I am new to this country) whatever he said it hurts me so much the way he said. Is he being mean? because it made me feel like I am unemployed fpr now and he also said that I am dependent on him. It's still hurting. Is he being verbally abusive with me? Eventhough he seems to be a nice guy (except some issues we have). Please help me. Thanks

2007-05-31 08:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by hondolkk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Id love to do it as a side job.

2007-05-31 08:22:17 · 8 answers · asked by Susieq2456 1 in Weddings

i met a girl at work who was married, we messed around and she got pregnant. 7 months later she left her husband and moved in with me. we never got along, in fact it got to where we couldn't stand to look at her. i stayed with her so i could be with my kids. things got horrible. i told her it was over and she wouldn't have it. i ended up finding the love of my life and we have been married for 7 years and two of our own children. my other kids mother hates me so much she is doing everything she can to make my kids not love me. she talks bad about me to them, she won't let them call me. now she is making it impossible for me to see them this year, we live across the states from each other. i know there are a lot of dead beat dads, but i am not one of them. i pay my child support, i gave her a house and car, i have helped however i can, but when she is having a bad time, she tries to get revenge on me. all i want is to be a part of my boys life. there are court orders in pl

2007-05-31 08:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by had enough 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a petting zoo near my house that I want to take a girl to, but I don't know if she would like it. Do girls like to go to petting zoos? What animals do they like to pet?

2007-05-31 08:19:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The world is FULL of great guys, yet I see all these women involved with losers and I just don't understand.

2007-05-31 08:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 in Singles & Dating

After reading a question about separate bank accounts and one about divorce. I suddenly had an idea. Is it possible to have a divorce decree already premade before getting a divorce. Since right now we are happy. And divorce brings out the worse in people. Wouldnt it be easier to agree right now? And have all the guidelines already written down. Then, if we ever do get a divorce we will not have to waste money on lawyers. Is this what a prenup is?

2007-05-31 08:16:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got out of a relationship (10 year) and I met someone that I do really love or at least think that I love? however I am always looking at men, and in the way that you should only look at your man if you know what I mean... He does really nice things for me and I appreciate them, but there is something that is holding me back, is it because I moved too fast... My x left me 8 months ago and I have been seeing my new BF for 3 mo now... I still think about my x, but I want to move on... am I ready to move on and be with someone or should I date? I have never been alone, and I hate the feeling of being alone, but I am not sure I am ready to move on with my BF... He is crazy about me and has already talked about moving in together, when do you know it is the time? WHAT DO I DO.. is he a rebound or is he the one for me how do you tell, is there any tests to take... I NEED HELP!!

2007-05-31 08:15:11 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating