in theory, i think marriage is better.
this, however, is based on the assumption that both man and woman are Strong, Smart, Independent people who Voluntarily CHOOSE to settle down with one special person. then, and only then, will marriage be so wonderful, that they choose it over being single!!!
that also means, that if they were single, they would be Happy and Healthy and Awesomely attractive! hahah..seriously though. if u are a depressed, needy, broken person who Depends on someone else to make u happy....u have a much higher percentage of being disappointed or let down, cuz that's a lot of stress on the partner. but if both parties are really Good people who are strong in their own right, and learn to lean on eachother and be each other's "shoulder to lean on" through Choice, the relationship can continue to build a stronger and stronger foundation.
u cannot have that as a single person. but i would say it's worth it to stay single and date around until u find the one who you CHOOSE to be with, AND that person CHOOSES to be with you. til then, don't settle!
2007-05-31 08:31:11
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answered by sasmallworld 6
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It depends on the person(s). I'm single and enjoy it at times. Other times, I cry because I don't have that special someone so it's 50/50. I like that I don't have to compromise on things. I love my freedom. I love that I can buy something and not have to 'ask' first. Then again, when it comes to critical moments where support is needed, it would be great to have someone to help with those decisions. I wouldn't say that one is better than the other but different depending upon the person.
2007-05-31 08:29:24
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answered by da6dark6angel6 3
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Well, although not a virgin ... I'm re-committed to being chaste till marriage ... so, ah, marriage is my goal. Ooooooo OOoooooo is it my goal.
2007-05-31 08:29:13
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answered by Giggly Giraffe 7
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Single. You are free to be free. No attachments, no questions asked/to answer. Ah, to be free.
2007-05-31 08:28:35
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answered by ocean's mommy 4
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Both have their ups and downs. Depends on age and financial status really.
2007-05-31 08:27:01
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answered by sleepyhead 4
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