Why do I have no friends?

Question

Why does everyone seem to despise me even though I didn't do anything to deserve it?

Answer 1

Simply because you don't deserve it. Some people treat the ones who are good bad simply because they are not good.

Answer 2

Try not caring about what others think, and just try liking yourself and being the great person you are. Confidence goes a long way.

I have this quote taped up next to my bed that I read every morning. I've been doing it for about 7 yrs. now. It's the best thing that has happen to me. I now look for nothing from anyone and receive a lot from everyone around me.

Lao Tzu:
Care about other people's approval, and you will be their prisoner.

Puts a lot into perspective doesn't it.

Like yourself enough to enjoy your own company, and then if you want to invite someone to share your self comfort zone it won't matter if they except or not. Why? Because you have found the greatest friend in you.

Like yourself and others will be intrigued to get to know the you that you've come to enjoy!

Answer 3

Don't stress over not having friends. I've gone through this too. Don't worry. First off, start off by writing down everything you love about yourself. This will give your self confidence a boost. Second, find someone you'd like to be close to. Call them up, be like "hey! I'm bored and we've never hung out a lot do you want to do somethin?" If they turn you down, say ok no big deal. Try someone else. You can't be afraid to try.. but don't bother people too much. You also have to make sure your being yourself... not someone else. If you get invited somewhere... get exited.. don't stress. Turn the radio up and get pumped up, that way you'll be in a good mood. Try talking to people on the internet or phone. You'll be fine... just make sure your being yourself and DONT TRY TO BE POPULAR. I've done that... i got it too. and it sucks. i promise. you'll be much happier with TRUE friends..


If you need anything else or want to practice making a friend or something.. feel free to email me at [e-mail]

Answer 4

Sometimes your attitude has a lot to do with it. you need to be yourself. ALso if your self esteem is low that is how people are going to treat you. loosing your self and dont care what anyone says. Believe me you cant get everyone in this world to like you no matter what you do.
For example havent you ever seen the ugliest guy as **** with one of the prettiest girl around and wonder how the hell he does it. Its his attitude and the way he makes her feel!!!
MAKE A CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE . YOU KNOW WHAT GETS PEOPLE ALOT. FEAR TO WHAT ANYONE SAYS OR IF YOU ASK A GIRL TO BE YOUR GIRL FRIEND YOU FEEL FEAR FOR REJECTION. WE ALL WERE YOUNG AND WENT THROUGH THESE THINGS. YOU JUST NEED TO GET PASS THAT STAGE OF YOUR LIFE AND YOU'LL BE ALRIGHT. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 5

maybe you have to try and love and invest in urself first of all and then decide u dont need friends 2 make u feel good about urself, thirdly don't look for friends in unlikely places, appreciate those close 2 u and make them ur friends

Answer 6

maybe they judge you the way you dress or act or the things you just like. Like they always say dont judge a book by its cover. or maybe because you dont go up and talk to people your no so social. Well hope this helps something.

Answer 7

Come on...it can't be that bad. Sounds like we are having a very bad day.

You have to learn to love yourself, otherwise why would anyone else love you? Work with that for awhile.

Answer 8

proly cause you sit there and think negative thoughts about yourself, try being positive and saying I have friends and see how that works for you. STop looking at the bad side look at the bright side

Answer 9

hey you'll find someone eventually. There's a friend for everyone so just remember that patience is a virtue.

Answer 10

could be jelousy? if you like your self thats good but if you cant say you do then make changes in your life to be a better person ( we can all be a better person in some way).and people will love ya!